MrPrsdent:

baby momma wahala,

be ready to share him with his ex on a permanent basis

i'm 100% fine with him talking to her about their child and being civil with each other because of him. i understand that. but what i'm not okay with is him leaving me for her in the future.

elettrodad:

That is a good reason to divorce and i am sure is a good reason to do not get involved again. Aren't you offering anything better?

yeah i think i am. i have told him that i would never cheat on him ever cause i've been cheated on before too and i've also been told by him that i'm the most beautiful and best girlfriend he has ever had. so i guess i am.

elettrodad:

Bad situation. Do you know why they broke?
I have been married for 13 years, luckily i have no children which has made separation easy (actually that was the main reason for my divorce).
You can understand that when you live with a person for such a long time is hard to forget everything.
However, the reason they broke was surely important and surely was a difficult decision. Start from this point.
Understand the reason they divorced, and check yourself if you think this reason will be strong enough to keep him far from the ex wife.

He has been honest with you telling the truth. Ask him to be even more honest to understand your point of view.

they broke up because she cheated on him with about 5 or 10 guys while he was overseas in the marine corps. he has been pretty understanding about the whole thing. he gets why i'm upset and says he would understand if i left him over it because other girls have done it to him before but i really think he is worth fighting for but i dont wanna get hurt.

i didn't understand anything you just said,

My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 months now. We have never gotten into any serious fights and he is always telling me and our mutual friends about how happy I make him and how much he likes me. The other night, after we had been drinking for a while, I saw in his phone that he had been texting his ex-wife, who he has a three year old son with. I asked him why he was texting her and if I had anything to worry about. He said no. I then asked him if he was still in love with her. After some hesitation, he said that when he said his vows he meant them and that he would love her til the day he died. We went on further to discuss what would happen if she ever wanted him back. He told me he couldn't promise that he would never get back with her, but that if I were around he wouldn't get back with her. I honestly don't know what to do. I trust him fully to never cheat on me, but what i'm afraid of is that he is going to find reasons to leave me to get his family back. He is someone I could see myself being with and someone that is a great great person. Should I worry or just give it time and see where it goes? Please help!!