well! t start with this./
love is about having deep feelings that comes from within that when u see that person there is this peace of mind and urge to be with that person all day long ,you dont even want to leave that person's side for a second.
Now comnig to you, you have to love yourself first before you can love anyone, check deep within your heart, there is an hetared you have for ladies, check deep within your heart if any lady has done anything worng to you? then it has originated from that and if not, u are scared of been commited to a lady, heartbreak and ETC. except if you can create that space for love you cannot let your wife enjoy marrige,marriage is to be enjoyed not endured ok. dont do what u will have to regret cos onces you are in you cant come out,its like a sting for a life time, u might get in and see someone you love and wnat to run out and make the lady miserable. if you hhave more questiond mail me blackberry2regulate2@yahoo.com.i will reply you. i dont come into narialnad always.

[b][/b] hello
am not in lagos but the truth is onces your mind is matured and ready for marriage i dont think any law can stop a matured mind and thats the truth.