My dear,

I am certain you have seen many other good things in this lady for you to proceed with steps to marriage. Its funny every one wants an angel ( SORRY TO TELL YOU; THEY DONT EXIST IN THIS CLIMS) What you have is a girl that has opened all to you ( which includes her mistakes and fantasy )and what you are doing is to put her in the dock for judgement.

Your girl broke the first rule of girls code ( because of love) Dont ever discuss your past sexual escapes. its not his business.

The next girl will be smarter . she will give you the package you want. There is also no guarantee that the next girl will not have to deal with sexual urge when put the the same context

What you should do is to engage your girl sexually. dominate her sexual space. be her lover boy and leave your fears