OyoTunjiUSA:



Hey 🤠


1. Don't mind your friend in America. He may have a good heart but the probability of embassy giving you visa based on a friend (even your family) invitation letter is 10% over 100.

2. If he is about to do wedding, naming ceremony or inviting you on joint-business sight seeing then the visa probability might move upward .

3. You have a good family-tie in Nigeria and with M.Eng you are a better educated Nigerian.

4. Look out for a good conference in your area of career and apply to . OR short academic programs in the USA then talk to your friend to support you financially.

5. Abadon that letter of invitation route and work out on the number 4 above. Don't even mention in your USA visa applications that you know/have a friend in the USA . Only mention family member (s) who entered America legally and remain in the USA legally.


Best Wishes🙏

Thanks a lot, I am grateful

fkj950ax:


Your chance of getting your visa approved is equals to your chance of not getting the visa approved. It’s either or.
You are judged based on your profile and not someone else’s profile. Invitation letters don’t contribute to your profile.
When you fill your DS160 form make sure it is weighty and you can easily speak about it.
The embassy is more interested in you demonstrating you will return to Nigeria. That is what would get your visit visa approved. Good income. Good investments or career. Family ties to Nigeria.
As a married man with kids, your options of changing status from visit visa to one that will give you legal residence is either education, asylum, sham marriage or business investment. All of which except asylum are expensive. The idea of staying over and going first shows immigration intent. Each option has implications to your family.
If you can ace your interview, you don’t need anyone in the US or you should make the friend your Plan B. Even his statement in bold tells you a lot.

I am grateful @fkj950ax, thank you so much for your concise response. But please what's your definition of a weighty DS160 form? And of course my intent is to immigrate, but through visitors visa

Hello all,
I have never travelled before. Someone (a family friend) in US wants to give me an invitation to come over, he outrightly told me that inviting me is not a problem. That's it's me convincing them at the Embassy to give me Visa that's the challenge. I am married, a father of 4, under 40. I have been working since Nov 2014. I intend going alone first, and honestly I would want to stay over and look for a better job there. I have M.Eng.

How do I go about this using the Visitors route via our family friend(he's up 60+, and lives with his family).
I want to really give it a try. What chances do I have?

I am so sorry if my enquiry is awkward please. Just advise me

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Oyindidi:
That is just me being the funny me. Those close me here know what I say off Nl

You see!! you deceive others through jokes, and still expect yours to work out. what goes around comes around.

HARDDON:


Mail, Response:

Wow! What a wack wack wobble! You cudnt just place a fut right! Not knowing your right from left in d world of women is not fun @ all! U found that out in d most ackward way.
The tension btw u two is soo much , too much that you shld be thanking God you didnt see her that day. If not, two thing were involved n none wud hv gone ur way.
For this kinda situation, u cant just wano meet! U gono scare her cos for all she cares, you cud be a serial killer or some1 wit evil intentions. She dont know u nor wor u about!
You needed to utterly break her defenses b4 u even think of meeting.


Solution?
Now we have to take a few steps back, u take a deep breath n we take it from d top, using anoda style , hopin you havent distroyed all d chances.
Ignore her for a week. Then on d sat of that week, we refresh this wit a sexy message....

I think you need a total brain overhual in d world of women . Read d thread 0-50.

N come join our whatsapp group. You would be glad you did

Alright boss, would join the group

HARDDONE

THIS ONE IS BEING TO HARD FOR ME PLS HELP
A friend gave me her number cos I told him am still in search of a girl for marriage. But he trusted me to be smart enough not to let her know how I got the number ..

So I chatted her up first... started with a laugh about her profile pic (not her real picture)

He replied with "who's this ?, and how did you get this number? "

But having red all your Drills Harddone, I seems to have got all my replies wrong from the Onset,

Cos I told her I got it(her number) from one of her colleagues(wasn't referring to that my friend) whom I promised not to tell her of.. That she should relax and give me attention pls.. with time she would know...

She blocked me later, having told me she doesn't talk to strangers.
I reconnected her up through IMO and poked her with many annoying chats. E.g "you won't pick my calls, you won't reply my chats , if you think I have all time to be wasting with you , feed your ego" "I meant good to have tried to connect with you, so good will always come my way".. lol.. and so many other chats ..

But I was amazed when she replied with a bomb shell "so arrogant with words and easily concludes, anyways I feel your still a boy , so try and grow up"

This reply alone got me pissed, even though I didn't show it up to her, I only replied her subtly , telling her arrogance is far from whom I am, that I purposely did that to have her talk. Anyways let's be friends and drop that ur had to get personality..

She changed a bit, but still acting hard, especially replying my chat at her own time, and telling me she's busy whenever I call her.

I had one of my friend talked with her last time, having told him about the hard time one particular girl has been giving me, He went telling her to stop acting so hard to someone that meant good, that I sent him to have some words with her. That am a good guy.

Harddone, that format seems so degrading I guess, but I was only looking for a solution, cos she's the type of hawt girl I want, hot as in appearance wise. Not really dressing per say. But body built and composure. And she's that bossy in appearance, a primary school teacher. Am in Enugu, she's in Awka, so we ain't seeing and he won't let me come see her, cos she's very busy.

Having read your nuggets and drills, I indirectly booked last Sunday to see her, telling her that I had a program to attend in Awka that I would call her up when am done, she replied okay. Only for me to get a disappointment of mylife time, by having her told me this when I called.
Me : hey how re you ?
Her : fine
Me: Where re you? Am done
Her: Am out of Awka
Me : whaaat !! But you didn't tell me you would be out today nah.
Her: You never told me you want to see me, you only said your coming for a program in Awka, and would call me up when your done, which you just did.

Mhren I was mad. Cos some how she's right , but I only told her she's so timid to face me I guess, that she should come out and be mature as she said. She threw up some tantrums to me too.. and I hung off..

But I don't want to give up !!! Pls help a brother !!!!

He's ''WHO WAS , WHO IS, AND WHO IS TO COME''. So He has bn good, nd He is good and will continue to be good. Get used to that mann.

My worst response. 'storyyy'

mimzy am intrested in the GMAT and PQ things too dearie. kindly help me. my email is kenlosky@gmail.com

okpara ugo: Just enjoyed pap with beans and plantain. Pap is one of my favourite meals. I often take it alone with condensed milk.

. With condencd milk?? Thats enof deposit for d lucky girlt o. Winks

its all lies. Dt guy wil nt leave london bet me