My man this issue does not single out the married. It is a serious issue.

quoting this respondence below "Seina" He seemed to be confident in himself. May be he has never gotten such experience.

My brother it is pretty hard to resist women especially the attractive ones. It takes the grace of God.

So what one prayer i say on this is , Lead us not into temptation" Sometimes it worked like magic but sometimes it works like,

Dear Funmi,

I study something from this scenerio i don't know if I am totally right. You look like someone who is not blindly in love.

For a man whom you have agreed you shared all your past and now you find that he still hid that one from you. Be sure he is not a honest man. So shine your eyes

When he will give you a reason he said I quote from your response "because he I do not like her behaviour to my family" obviously this is as serious case of a man who is too tie to his family. You may be smalling imminent danger of someone who could not decide his family affair outside other extended family.

I will like you to look at the consequence of marrying a man too tied to his family. You will have to endure too many thing the maarriage does not provide for. Who knows may be the woman who gave birth to the baby were recommended to be sent parking by the family member.

For you to live successfully with this kind of a man, you must be ready to sell yourself into slavery even to anyone you know as his family.

Shine your eyes ooooooooo!

"Thou shall not"

I think you must understand what virginity means.

It could be view in 2 context:

1. Medical angle: this is removal on the tick hymen on female genital organ "Obo" "Duri".
2. Cultural angle: that is first sexual intercourse.

In the context 1 above, Scientifically, every lady without this hymen at first intercourse could not be automatically regarded as having sexual experience. During sport (e.g Inter house sport) the hymen may get break. So if you guys meet your wife this way, she could be like mary Oyale or likes.

In the second context, Culturally speaking, Male and female are guilty. It is a thing of mind in Man but to women they will just have to agree they are not virgin even if they have never had sex before. That is the very bad aspect of cultural and uncivilised society

Back to your question, someone who is born again from birth may eventully be a virgin if he did nort change till his graduate level. I have my immidiate brother like that. Believe it or not.

The girl under this experience is really a Minor just to agree with one of the response on this issue. However, because of the Nigeria factor that might be looked into I will like to ask further question from this girl. Are you from the Northern part of this Country? Are you still a virgin? Are your parents too bussy to attend to you? Your parents and family background must also be looked into (May be your parents are not sensitive eneough about your growth rate and your feelings). In as much as I will not want to castigate you I will like to inform you about the likely consequesce of engaging your self in stuff like this:

- It may result to poor Educational performance.
- It may lead to you loosing your pride (Virginity) in case you are still one.
- If you continue to mount presure on the 18 year old boy who in my own thinking knows you are a small baby to have sex or you decide to start having sex at this age it may result to VVF.
- You may ruine your life as a result of al this.

My young child, take off this thought of sex out of your mind, you can never appreciate marrital love until you are ripe for marriage.

To keep you out of such tought, I will also suggest you try these:
1. Change your friends for now.
2. Talk to your Pastor and Spiritual Councellor.
3. Attend more of Church or Mosque activities.
4. Associte more with mate with good focus for future.
5. I think when you come online avoid adult sites and forum, to you it may mislead you. e.g this particular forum for romance may not edify your soul you are toooooooooooooo young.

Love is CARING, SHARING & GIVING.

Go print fake money dey mix real money for her. Q.E.D

But if you wanna marry am go get another girl.

Asiri

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Onedas Never End

As a Patriot, I like to tell you Shine your eyes if no be say you dey date Yahoooooooo! b :-Xz

In all honesty  Nigerians are not as bad as you people out there  think. For you not to shoot yourself in the leg;" Never think you are Holier than any one".  All this question you ask about my fellow Nigerian are you not guilty? ask yourself.  If truely you met my guy a Nigerian and you sure of his reality.  Congratulations! Niger no go show face and say them no dey go again.

Dimu Shin shin.

As a Patriot, I like to tell you Shine your eyes if no be say you dey date Yahoooooooo! b :-Xz

In all honesty  Nigerians are not as bad as you people out there  think. For you not to shoot yourself in the leg;" Never think you are Holier than any one".  All this question you ask about my fellow Nigerian are you not guilty? ask yourself.  If truely you met my guy a Nigerian and you sure of his reality.  Congratulations! Niger no go show face and say them no dey go again.

Dimu Shin shin.

Hmm! Sometimes we keep hearing things that sound like love. But inthe real sense of it they are pure infactuation. If I have the opportunity, I will ask some few questions like how long did you know the lady in question?, what make you to feel she is qualified to have sex without protection?.

Even without the answer to these questions I think I should provide a honest advice on this issue:

1. Having the baby is inevitable, what you need to do is plan a better life for this baby He/She will be your first born. Pray God to provide for how you take good care of the baby. Aspire to be responsible father. the Coming child is innocent transfer the aggression to it.


2. You are not in any legal agreement with the Lady, all you do is settle it out with her amicably if you think you are not ready for marriage.

3. I will suggest as a matter of fact that you go for HIV test, since I am not sure you no the HIV status of this woman neither do I think you know her sexual history. The Earlier is better.

4. finally, I will like you to learn from this case for you not to make such mistake in the future. Hmm! God is Merciful pray to HIM for 4giveness.

God is Love nothing more

Money can buy you a marriage ceremony. Money can improve a relationship. Money frame you happiness but God is Love money cannot buy,

Money can buy you a marriage ceremony. Money can improve a relationship. Money frame you happiness but God is Love money cannot buy,