I just discovered I have really interesting friends here . Now lemme get this straight, my options from advice give are as follows
(A) Prayer
(B) Being Single
(C) Set Standards for a Future wife

Gosh U guys make the options so easy.

Prayer is the answer to all of life's problems. I'm doing that.

Being Single, aint an option.

Standards, now I think that's kinda what started all this. I'm not really all about looks, cos there's more to a person than how D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ look. Its the other stuff I'm having issues narrowing down to suit reality.

big-t:
Get married or Die single ! Have u no pparents to ask when u r bringing ur fiance? What is d fear by the way?? Let me tell u dude; people fear what they cant confront and hate what they cant conqer! In ur own case, u cannot confront girls abi? Just make up ur mind, summon the courage and just do it!

Its funny when u say I can't confront girls... Makes M̶̲̅ε̲̣ Laugh and roll on d floor. At our ages now its not about just dating, its about being with a person u can plan a future with. What happens when u meet the wrong person and plan ur future with the wrong person? That's the fear I'm talking about there. Marraige in the naija context has no exit, na die be the only understandable exit oh.

I'm a 26 year old graduate, many at times I tell myself I need to fall in love, but anytime an opportunity presents itself, I look for excuses to frustrate it. I'm truly not happy, but I'm too scared to let anyone get close. What do u advice I do fellas?