Thanks all.

touchmeder:

you should not do that my dear even if he is gay
Aint u gona marry this man tomorrow, is this how you wil put your bestfriend before your husband?
one's gota give way for anoda
u do d choosing

It has just always been like that, ever since I can remember, there is nothing to it. I have never thought for once that he might be jealous or whatsoever. I suppose I was brought up that way we do the whole kissing on the lips thing in my family and since i see him as a part of the family. . . . . . . Mind it is close lips kissing though.
Thanks all the same

Quite long i apologise.

My best friend is a man, I have known in all my life, right from Nigeria. We stayed in the same neighbourhood, went to the same university and even work in the same place but different floors. My family are so use to him that you might be forgiven for thinking he is one of us.

Problem is my man is not comfortable with him at all, which is causing friction between both of us (there was this time when my man went on and on and on about how I am cheating on him because I kiss my best friend on the lips to say hello & goodbye, and other little things like that. . . he is gay by the way)
I have done my best to try and make then friends or at least be civil with each other but all to no avail, I have tried barbecue, organised day out, even season tickets it just isn’t working.
My best friend is willing to be friends or at least civil with him but my man isn’t. I feel he is a bit homophobic even though he denies it.

I love both of them very much albeit in different ways and it really hurt when they cannot at least be civil with each other. We are now at the point where they avoid each other at all cause. E.g. my best friend didn’t come for my mum’s birthday just because Christian was going to be there.

To be honest it has been going on for a couple of years and I sort off overlooked it but since things are getting very serious between me and Christian I will like to nip it in the bud once and for all. What am I do? Any helpful suggestion on how can they be friends or at least comfortable in each others present will be appreciated thanks.

I did the test a couple of years ago, i passed but i was told the law changed that i have to spend 5 years in uk before i can apply for the british passport
Well it been 5 years now and i am wondering the steps i have to take. will i have to do the test again? how do i go about the whole process & i also heard the fee is now £800? is that true
Thanks

luka1981:

please move it to 419 section, not here.

hahaha

keep washin them , nothin do you!

tales by moonlight,

sorry to be insensitive but next time use your sense, don't give up life your for someone

No you are not weak, probably things are not going quite well in your life right now (romantically) that is why you feeling jealous, pain e.t.c. With time you will forget about her. pele!

well done!

hmmm orisirisi dey for this land o!

FBS:

you ppl are funny for her with your useless advises. You want her to continue to hide a "harmless" truth. The longer she holds it, the harder for her to reveal.
Ladies, is that how you keep your home? hiding the truth from your husbands?

no one is telling her not to tell but atleast she should get a job, be able to provide for herself and kids just incase he decides to end it OK!

A family orientated and faithful man

datingguru:

is that a YES or a No

honestly

hmmmm!