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Romance / 13 Dating Secrets All Men Keep, Finally Revealed by lovelyupdate247: 6:33am On Jul 20, 2015
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In a relationship, both parties keep secrete, but here is the 13 secret men keep away from women...
#1. Inside Every Man Lives an Inner Horndog
Guys are driven by their inner horndog, so, ladies, make a mental note. If you don’t believe me, ask a guy about this and then pay attention the way you would if you asked him if your butt looks big in your jeans.


#2. Men are Insecure
Many ladies say that if they were guys, they'd have a field day with women. Maybe, but guys don’t think like women, and at times, they are clueless about the opposite sex.

#3. Men Like Women to 'Help Out'
Sure, most guys want to do the hunting, but ladies do the capturing. Men aren't great at reading the signals that ladies give off, and they appreciate it when you let them know that you like them with a touch on the arm or a smoldering glance. It's easy stuff, and it works.


#4. Men Don’t Pay Attention
Success with women is all about the little things, but men are all about making things happen. You tell a guy about your day, he wants to solve your problems. He thinks he’s helping while you roll your eyes. Make him pay attention … by any means possible!
#5. Guys are Visual
No surprise. You clean up nice, so save the sweatpants for after you’re living together.
#6. Men Need Appreciation for Their Sense of Humor
If you dig him, you probably already think he’s clever. If you don’t get his sense of humor, you might as well move on unless he enrolls in clown school.
#7. Nothing Beats a Great Pair of Legs
Leave the pantsuit in the closet now and then, and strut your stuff when you're with him. A man needs a reminder that his woman is strong but still feminine — even if you're in better shape and can probably kick his butt.

#8. When a Guy Says He’ll Call, He Usually Means It
Men are usually honest about this, but, like children, they are easily distracted. If he says he’ll call, consider asking him when. At least that etches you into his subconscious. And if he doesn’t call, forget him. You deserve better.
#9. Men Dread Valentine’s Day
It all boils down to pressure. If lingerie is for him, should he buy it? What size does she wear if her boobs are small and her butt is round? As he wanders the aisles of Victoria’s Secret, he’s probably doing a body check on other ladies in an effort to find someone your size, and women don’t appreciate that. Pressure!
#10. With Sex, Timing is Everything
Whether it takes two drinks or ten dates, you both know when it’s time. However, if you hop into bed too quickly, in the back of his mind he’s wondering how many times you’ve been this naughty. Just saying.
#11. The Way to His Heart is Through His Stomach
It doesn’t necessarily matter if you can cook up a storm, but men love to chow down. It’s what we do. Make that work for you the best you can.
#12. He Wants a Lady He Can Take Home to Mom
Sure, he’ll happily spin you around like a top in bed and come back for more if that’s all you want, but ultimately a man wants to show off his woman to his friends, family and business associates.

#13. A Good Man Doesn't Want You to Change
Be the best version of you and he’ll be a happy fella. And if not, the door is that way.

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Romance / 10 Wisdom Quote For Women by lovelyupdate247: 4:09pm On Jul 19, 2015
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(1)BEAUTY ATTRACTS MEN BUT WISDOM KEEP DEM

(2)ELEGANCE CATCHES MEN,'S ATTENTION BUT INTELLIGENT
CONVENIENCES THEM

(3) NAGGING IRRITATES MEN BUT' CONSTRUCTIVE
SILENCE WEAKENS THEM

(4) THE BOY IN EVERY MAN PUMPS OUT
OCCASIONALLY, YOUR ABILITY HANDLES THESE, IS A WOMAN TRUEST
MATURITY.

(5) MEN HAVE SECRET STRUGGLES AND SILENT PAINS YOU EVER
FIND THEM EXHIBITS THE GREATEST MATURITY.

(6) IN THE LONG RUN YOUR WORDS MATTER MORE 2 A MAN DAN UR LOOKS

(7) EARN A MAN RESPECT AND HE WILL CONSIDER YOU THE YARD STICK FOR ALL HIS ACTION
(cool LEARN 2 MOLD D MOODS OF UR MAN

(9) MEN WILL NATURALLY GIVE YOU
THEIR FUTURE IF THEY CAN RECALL U MATURITY IN YESTERDAY ISSUE
10 WOMAN ARE EVERY WHERE BUT QUEENS R SCARCE LET THE
QUEEN IN U COMES ALIVE ND HE WILL HOLD U IN HIGHEST ESTEEM...

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Romance / 8 Ways To Kill Your Relationship For Good by lovelyupdate247: 7:55am On Jul 19, 2015
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When you meet the right person, relationships can be a beautiful thing. So why would you want to lose that by doing something stupid?
Many couples do silly things to mess up their relationships and drive others away. The
crazy part is they don’t even realize they are doing it.
If you are doing one of these 8 things in your relationship it may be time to rethink your life, or risk being single in the near future..

1. Don’t Have Any Time For Them..... Having goals in life and working hard can get you a great career with a lot of money, but if you are not careful it can also chase off the ones you love. Everybody wants to feel like they are
loved and that they have someone to share their life with.
If you never make any time for them they may stay with you for a while, but eventually the love will just die off as they are not getting
what they truly want out of the relationship.
The Solution – No matter how busy you get always remember to make time for those you love. They should understand if you have a life
outside of the relationship, but always make time for that special someone.

2. Kill The Fun...
Fun people are attractive, boring people are not. Think about what got you two together, wasn’t it exciting and new? Of course it was! After a while all that fun tends to die down, causing
people to get bored. If your boyfriend or girlfriend gets too bored they may wonder what it would be like to sleep with other people and bring back the excitement of the chase into their life.
The Solution – Spice it up by trying new things. Go new places and do what you can
to keep the conversations interesting.

3. Threaten To Leave....
Threatening to leave a relationship is a shallow
attempt to get what you want. If you’re not happy with your relationship than don’t
stay in it, otherwise don’t hurt your partners feelings this way. Threatening to leave
may work a few times, but in the long run your partner gets tired of it and will be relieved to see you finally go.
The Solution – Use your words, if you have a problem with something tell your partner about it, work it out like adults. Few things are
worth ending a relationship over, so don’t say you want to leave unless you’ve really
thought it over.

4. Being Jealous.....
Being a little jealous is flattering; being too jealous will drive people off. I’ve seen
it happen many times before, one partner thinks the other will cheat on them and as a
result they hold on too tight until the other partner feels like they are trapped in a
cage and they have to break free.
The Solution – The best way to overcome jealousy is to trust your partner. If you
know they really love you than they probably won’t do anything to hurt you.

5. Have Mood Swings,,,Another way to drive your partner off is to have too many mood swings. It is ok to have feelings, but going from
happy to sad to happy again can make you seem crazy. While we may put up with it
for a little while, eventually the stress becomes too much. We all want to be happy with the one we love and it is hard to do that if we constantly have to say we are sorry or cheer them up.
The Solution – Remember that you are loved in a relationship. We only have so much time on this earth that there isn’t much point in being sad. Look at the positive side of things and
you will see not only your love life, but your life in general improve.

6. Always Start Arguments,,,,,
All couples fight. We all have disagreements and we all want slightly different things out of life. But if you are always the one who starts the
argument your partner may decide that you are the reason for their unhappiness and will want to get away.
The Solution – If you are always the one starting the argument it may be because you fear love and secretly want to destroy your relationship. Instead find someone you can get along with and learn to focus on the positives. Relationships can be a good thing if you let
them.

7. Never Let Them Have Their Space,,,,
Everybody is different; one person may love being smothered with love and attention all of the time while others may want to have
their personal space. By always wanting to know where they are, always chasing them, and texting them 50 times a day they may eventually decide it is too much and leave.
The Solution – Get a life outside of your partner. Find friends, a hobby, or something to keep you
preoccupied when your loved one is gone.

8. The Sex Is Boring.....
Sex is exciting when you first get a new partner. But after doing the same positions over and over again, it can really become dull and uneventful. Both parties may have wondering eyes and start wondering what it would be
like to sleep with someone else.
The Solution – Try new things in bed. Make it exciting, spice it up, and use your imagination.
Relationships can be a hard thing and require work by both parties. You must learn to love yourself before you can ever hope to love
anybody else. When all is said and done relationships can be worth when you find
somebody who will make you smile every time you think of them.

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Romance / Message To Tennages by lovelyupdate247: 7:53pm On Jul 18, 2015
Am happy that you're growing up now,dressing well and seeing some adult with their BF/GF
and you like it,wishing to have someone to play with you.

OK, I know you have been watching movies and you thinks love and relationship is really sweet the way been acted in movies.

I know many of your friends has been giving you gist's how they have been catching fun and collecting material things like money,cards ,clothes and even they're using better phone than you.
Dear girl, I know many guys are telling you;you're beautiful, sexy and your head is swelling up.
Everyday you comes across guys they keep calling you baby,sexy,etc.

I know your dressing code has change,
You are dressing more sexy cos guys said ;you're so beautiful, charming and you believe them.
That's amazing right?
I know that one guy is using I LOVE YOU to sing song to your ear almost everyday
You feel like giving him a chance.

Waooo you want to have a Boyfriend!
They have increase up to 20guys asking you out at same time, dear girl;you're so beautiful right?
And you're confuse who to choose as a boyfriend.
Well as I said in beginning,am happy for you.

NOTE: Not because you're beautiful,sexy and looking good is the main reasons why almost all guys in your area are asking you for a dated. My dear girl,those guys already know that you don't know anything. They want to have a taste of you before becoming little bit wiser.

Many times when guys are rushing girls not because they have good plans for them but just to sleep with them.

Listen my dear growing up girl,
Don't be carry away cos of I LOVE YOU. I know you don't understand the agony of relationship.
Keep yourself holy if possible.
Keep away from relationship.

Forget those guys whether teenage like you or adult asking you out and promising heaven and earth.
Don't even tell me your friends have their own BF's but remember we have different destiny.
To keep your virginity;keep away from relationship. Don't mind that idiot that told you;I will wait;One day He will surely start asking for the sex
Just be yourself and serve your God.

Listen giving a man sex is the number one reason why many women are crying and regretting in the world today.

Don't join this category.

Yours Husband will be happy to see you as virgin

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