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Family / Re: Househelp by Loveth2019: 12:56pm On Mar 31, 2019
laivwire:
I really need an househelp for my mum. She’s been diabetic for some years now and about to retire. I need someone who can make her scheduled meals for her, give her her meds and shots when due as well as soak up her tantrums as dementia sets in occasionally when her sugar level spikes.

Many packaged elderly care services like Gerocare come at a very high price but I’m looking for something a bit lower. Preferably in 30s - 50s who will be patient, courteous and pay attention to little details of care.

Housing will be provided as well as feeding in addition to monthly expenses. Weekend breaks also permitted and extra activities so far they don’t take time out of the needed care she deserves.

I’ll appreciate any referrals or help on this. Thanks


check out maid by phoenix: 09097293933

Crime / Re: Lady Caught Her Calabar Housemaid Trying To Loot Her Just 2 Months In Her House by Loveth2019: 12:45pm On Mar 31, 2019
kimond101:


I bet to disagree.

The househelp we employed her service to assist my wife in house chores due to our welcoming a baby was treated her like a daughter. We bought cloth for her during Eid, she cooked and ate when she liked, when we go out I always allowed her to pick things aswell so she doesnt feel like a slave. Bought coldstone iceream for her when bought for ourselves. She slept in an airconditioned room and was allowed to watch TV so she doesnt feel bores at home.
I even told her i would pay for her to have her SSCE exam in a government school this year since she finished secondary school but didnt do the exam.

But as the power of greed and theft would catch her, she stole loads of things: baby cloths and wipes, pen, soap, foodstuff, wine, rice, oil, Milo, #100k+ belonging to my mother-in-law and many more. She escaped my house security but was busted at the estate security.

She his #100+ in her pant and wore hijab to cover her theft when busted. My mother-in-law knew she stole and search her to her pant. She tried resisting removing her hijab but after small beating she did remove it. She was taken back to the person that brought her and her mum was invited to the persons house. She didnt feel remorseful.

Lessons:
1. Be careful with househelps. Don't trust any of them. If possible install cctv around your house.
2. Maltreatment is not a justification for theft same way good treatment to not make a potential thief not to execute her plan.

you really do not have to defend why you employed a househelp to stranger online. it is okay to employ a househelp whether or not your wife is expecting a child or not. we have to realize that women need help as they are just as busy as men these days and if you will agree with me even more because it doesn't end at just official work but home care as well. even after hiring a househelp it still doesn't stop, they still get to work managing the things the househelp does. so Sir, it was totally okay for you and your wife to have decided to have a maid and do not allow anyone make you feel otherwise, especially online but hiring a maid/househelp should be done right- go to an Agency who have done homework on these maid and have measure put aside for situations like yours. If you are writing from Abuja, you can use Maid by phoenix: 09097293933 or contact online on: https:///2ImkpPh or use Essvickleenklub in Lagos: 09091701425

Also some people are just wicked and have no morals no matter how good you are to them, it is not necessarily because they were maltreated. they just being certain kind of people.
Crime / Re: Lady Caught Her Calabar Housemaid Trying To Loot Her Just 2 Months In Her House by Loveth2019: 12:06pm On Mar 31, 2019
asatemple:
You took a woman of that age as a housemaid, laziness at its peak. We women should learn to do things ourselves and train our own children to take over from us.
Any househelp that is more than 9 years will not live with me

wow that is child abuse. there is nothing wrong in hiring a maid at this age where women are just a workaholic like men. you cant expect super human ability from a human. so please it is okay to have a maid but not a 9 years old maid please
Crime / Re: Lady Caught Her Calabar Housemaid Trying To Loot Her Just 2 Months In Her House by Loveth2019: 11:59am On Mar 31, 2019
phiszo:

You shouldn't even think of employing a child as a maid. That's child abuse/slavery...
wow that is child abuse. having a 9 years old maid is everything wrong. it is not laziness when women employ housemaids these days. we are in age where women are working class and people still expect them to do super human things like taking care of the house and kids as well as husband. that is just too much. it is okay to have a maid but you have to do it the right way by registering with agencies who will take care of the hiring process and put in measures for situations like this that you are unable to do due to your busy schedule. I and my friends use Maid by Phoenix in Abuja and my family in Lagos use Essvickleenklub. If it will help anyone here, you can contact Maid by phoenix in Abuja on: 09097293933 and Essvicklenklub in Lagos on: 09091701425. So please everyone, IT IS TOTALLY OKAY TO HAVE A MAID. I For one i am a business owner and i have no closing hour so i can not come and kill myself by not hiring a maid. Everyone who knew before marriage know i am a super woman who likes cleanliness and does all work by self but it gets to a point when you will need some sort of assistance
Crime / Re: Nursing Mother Forgets 6-Month-Old Baby In Taxi, Driver Arrested by Loveth2019: 8:42am On Feb 10, 2019
Wow this is really sad. I am sure the mother had lots of things running in her head. This i not me trying to make excuses for her. This is why it is always advisable to hire a domestic assistant that can either take care of the child or even go to the market in her stead. this was totally unavoidable. Some people do not trust domestic helps with their household but trust me i have been there and my cousin and has been there but we all had different notion after we were hooked up with a Domestic staff placement agency in Abuja. these guys had already done all background check and they also trained their staff. In case people are worried about who to contact to hep recruit their domestic staff in Abuja, i think MaidbyPhoenix are the ones to contact. you can visit their website: www.houseofphoenixng./maidbyphoenix or call: 09097293933. I really wish we can always avoid avoidable situations. Everyone be safe out there.

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