I thank you all for your useful contribution. for those that are asking how long we hav known each other? i have known him for a year plus now.

I love him and i want to end my life with him even despite all the circumstances.i understand how he feels.he said he will marry me but i dont know how strong his words is. am thinking he suppose to make a step ie knowing his familyand him knowing my people too.infact i dont know weda sombody is understanding me.

My boyfriend was a victim to this bank layoff(sack) since october last year and till now he has not gotten a job.he is planning to travel out if job seems not to come.and seriously planning it.something happens early this year when one guy is seeking for my hand in marriage and he did everytin he can do and pursue the guy.he has not propose to me,he has not introduce me to his family member.what he told me is that when he gets job he will make everything formal and he is planning to travel outside the country.i love him but am afraid b/c i dont actually know his plan. pls i need advise.good one