The problem is not about reporting a crime, the issue is what happen to you after you report the crime, because here in Nigeria after reporting a crime, you become the first suspect.

ChelseaArmy:


https://leadership.ng/police-unveil-emergency-app-to-tackle-crimes/

The problem is not about reporting a crime, the issue is what happen to you after you report the crime, because here in Nigeria after reporting a crime, you become the first suspect.

lifezone247:
Yes, yes and yes. AC has nothing to do with fuel consumptions. It’s uses gas when the engine is running. Make una stop that mentality abeg.

Using a vehicle's air-conditioning system increases its fuel consumption more than any other auxiliary feature. An air-conditioning (a/c) system can increase fuel consumption by up to 20% because of the extra load on the engine.

just ignore it, keep praying, the devil is tryin to play mind games with you.... you are save by grace not by keeping the laws, but mind u, you should not continue in sin so grace may abound.... the devil knws you were save a thousand yrs ago. so keep praying and ignore the devil... or rather u pause and tell the devil ( ur mind)... " yes i watch it and so? are u christ to judge me?"... once u do that, u continue on ur prayer.

Pls I want to really advice u on this as i am currently going through same.. pls dnt hv the idea that ur marriage is going to be destroy cuz of this.. think of this she stay awake atimes at night to breast feed the baby, nd also go tru huz chores during the night, also as a woman once they put to birth their sex urge tend to dwindle.. also the kids needs to be attached to her or u.. mine my daughter is currently sleeeping with me, nd my son sleep in the kids room and the baby which is 2months old sleep with the mum, I barely hav sex though shes not stopin me from getting it, shes like anytime I want i shld come get it, atimes she feel reluctant coming to my room or atimes she will say she will come to my room but end up dosin off with the baby.. so wat I do is anytime i felt the urge instead of goin outside I will hv go get it, then wenevr she has chance too we can do it to the fullest pls dnt let this destroy ur marriage nursing mother goes tru alot.. pls

Florblu:
FACT!

Nigerians has seen begging celebrities for money as a Profession. There are a lot of PROFESSIONALS

Wat do u hv them do?.... since politicians are not helpin issue.. nd d country is hard. Man gotta survive.. mayb celeb will do

Bros to b sincere with you, its happen to me during my second child, I was so uncomfortable with it, evn my wife wasnt ok with it.. what I did was to change the hospital evn more sophiscated than the one she was usin interms of health care system.. cuz aside frm bein professional u nvr can tell future.. wat happen after delivry u knw we men... but if u r ok with it u can allow her.

@OP

It is unfortunate that you want to eat your cake and still have it . I loathe pretenders . The truth is that you owe obligation to the said manager that directed you to the organization where your bread is now temporarily buttered . From now onward , never enter into an agreement formally/informally on anything you are not sure of fulfilling in the long run . Always be diplomatic when doing so , by immediately creating a clause that can guarantee you blameless exit route should you find it inconvenient to pally along in such association . It's always better to be on the offensive side of the world that to be of the defensive side ... This is one secret of long life .

Your silence when he laid down his condition(s) equaled to affirmation to his given terms to you , thus his assumed right of ownership of committed relationship with you now . Should you insist in reneging from the agreement you had with him without finding a way to placate him , then you have got every reason to be afraid of your life and job . Except if he has a heart of gold to forgive and not forgetting of course .

My advice to you should be to try by all means possible to have a meet with him , in an open place of course . Try to bear your mind to him and let him know that you are very grateful for his kindness toward you and that you would ever remain grateful to him . However , that you have scrutinized his request for relationship with you , but that in all sincerity you don't have same feelings for him as he had for you . But wait , if you are not married and still searching , and the guy in question possesses some good traits you would consider in a man for marriage , while not give him a chance to date him , not minding how blunt he was in his approach . Never say never . You can date him without allowing him to shine your " kpomo " .

Allow him chance for date with you . Within the first week of dating him , try to be sensitive whenever you are with him , in the process should you observe any ill-character he posses that you won't tolerate from a potential suitor , then you should use such as " banana peel " , to terminate your relationship with him . In summary , never push away someone that does good of this magnitude to you , without giving him/her justifiable reason for doing so , else you would be putting your life and future in line for bad things .
i think Empero say it all..... what was ur reply when he was speaking out his mind, were u silence? did u put it up straight to him ur mind or intentions too? if nt, then u hv to be vry diplomatic nt to hurt him. remember "nvr 4get people that help you in ur way goin up, cuz u may likely meet them when coming down".