@nkirkura

thanks for your input on this topic. Just wanted to thank everyone who posted comments on this post which i created. My engagement to my nigerian has been cancelled as well as any future wedding plans. We still remain friends but we both have realized that this union would not work for either one of us, We are both different as night and day. (no pun intended) he is black, of course and i white. I have realized that it is not so much the nigerian that i am interested in, but the fact that he is black,and I dont have to go half way around the world to find a black man, god knows we have plenty of them here and without all the extra headaches,

thanks to everyone who helped me to realize that. this is a fantastic website,

@bigsis

And the reason why he is my fiance is because he has put a ring on my finger, what else would you call him,

@bigsis

You need to find out what you are talking about before you even attempt to make a comment. I would be more than happy to prove you wrong about my fiance, but really and in all actuality it is none of your fucking business. of course there are bad and evil people out there, in nigeria and in my hometown as well. we dont live in a perfect world, but you cant always or ever judge a book by its cover, It is so very sad that you would even attempt to express yourself the way you have, but maybe you are the one who would have the odacity to 419 me, and that would be very sad that you would have to stoop so low,

@redwoman

Good Evening:

I was looking at your post, and I noticed that you mentioned that you are married to a nigerian man. What drew my attention is the fact that you are from Florida as I am and I also noticed that you mentioned that you are passed the 2 years of immigration. Can you please help me by telling me what it is that I have to do to be able to get my fiance here from Cyprus. I tried to get him here, and when I looked at the conditions of immigration, it stated that we have to meet in person 2 years prior to having filed the petition to bring him here. Can you help me with giving an idea as to what i have to do and if this is true or not. I dont want to wait, but if I have to I have no choice. But I am just wondering if there are other ways that I can get him here, thanks for all your input,

lucieo

@Eiregirl

Thank you so much for your post. I really appreciate your opinion.  Don't worry I am not going to Nigeria. My fiance is not there, he is in Cyprus.  He is a student there.  We were going to meet there, and together go to Nigeria to be married, but that doesn't seem like it is going to happen anytime soon.  I don't have the money and neither does he, so we will continue to work on our relationship and our love, because we do love each other very much.  I am much older than him, and when I say much, I mean much, but I never thought that someone so much younger than I could make me feel the way he does.  I have learned alot from him because Nigerian men, no matter what their age, are very mature.  I believe it stems from the way they are brought up.  Very different from men in the United States.  Thanks again for your opinion.  I hope that we can chat again soon,  I am on yahoo messenger and my i.d. there is lrodriguez1128

Best Wishes to you and to your man


lucieo

@blue_sky

thanks for your post. I see that you are also on line. can we chat at yahoo messenger. my id is lrodriguez1128@yahoo.com

best regards

lucieo

@Blue Sky

thanks for your post,, and in response to your question, no i have not met him in person yet. We have only seen each other on the web cam and we send letters to each other. He is not in Nigeria, he is a student in another country,

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@al Raheem

Thank you so much for your post. I will like to chat more with you. I dont use msn instant messenger. I use yahoo messenger, and i am on line at this moment. my id is lrodriguez1128@yahoo. com . look forward to chatting with you.

best regards

Lucieo

@salsera

This man, who is my fiance, has been totally honest and up front with me from the very beginning. There is a lot more to this picture than everyone seems to be seeing here. The nigerian who scammed me is no where near my fiance. And even though I was scammed my fiance made good on everything, and that was not his duty. I know that 3 months is a short time, but if it is going to work out it will regardless if it is 3 months or 3 years. the good thing about 3 months is that you can get to know each other on a daily basis, and just because you say Hausa men dont marry out of their own or much less older women, have you ever heard of change. where would this world be if it wasnt for change.

thanks for your posts, i really appreciate your comment

@ollie39

No their have never been any demands for money made on his part or from anybody else. If their has ever been any issues with money, he has helped me with money whenever i have needed it. I have done some searching on the internet and he is Hausa, and I have receivedmany good comments and remarks about him being Hausa. I am fully and completly aware of the scams that go on in Nigeria, and I can truly say that I have received many good and excellent comments about nigerians who are Hausa and about that subject when it comes to them, Of course I will be extremely careful and thank you for your concern,

@imani

I am still online. I am having a difficult time reading your posts. I keep getting email notices but I dont know how to access the posts. when I go to the page the only thing I see is the last post that I sent. if you can help it will greatly be appreciated,


thank you so very much


lucieo

@imani

I don't have any family, they are all deceased. it is just me. can we chat on yahoo instant messenger instead of here. my id is lrodriguez1128@yahoo.com

thank you so very much

@imani:

Thanks for your very wise comment:

I tried with immigration to get him a visitor's visa to come to america, which is what he really wants to do, but their is a clause that states that we have to meet face to face 2 years prior to my filing the petition for him to come here. i am alot older than my fiance, and so we have decided to meet in Turkey. He is a student in a country very near there and then from there are plans are to fly to nigeria to be married their because he wants his family present, and I want that as well. thank you for your response, and i most certainly hope that you will continue to shed some light on my concern, thanks

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@redwoman

Thank you so much for your reply:

I am so confused. I love my fiance with all my heart. But I am worried about meeting him in another country to be married in Nigeria. I was recently scammed by another Nigerian, and although it is not fare that this should have any effect on my relationship with the man I love, it does. My fiance has never lied to me, and I am just worried that if I go to meet him in the other country and then go to Nigeria to be married that something might happen to me. This mistrust is the cause of what happened with the other nigerian who scammed me. please help with any comments that you believe might help me,

thank you

thanks for your response.

We have discussed him coming to the states for us to be married, but the problem is with immigration. I can't sponsor him to visit this country because there is a clause in the Immigration laws that states that we have to meet in person at least 2 years prior to having submitted my petition to bring him here,

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Hello:

I am new to this site, but it is a very special site to me because I am very soon to marry a wonderful man from Nigeria, whom I met on Line.
We have been chatting for a little over 3 months.  He is much younger than I am , but I love him very much.  He has never lied to me, this I know because I have tested him many times. His mother has contacted me twice on my cell phone and I not only love him with all my heart but can honestly say I trust him with my life.  He has asked me to marry him in his country because he wants all of his family there at our wedding and I can understand that, and I agree with it.  The only problem that I am having is that I was scammed by a man who I met on line that is from Nigeria, and this has caused a terrible strain on my relationship with my fiance. I want to tell my fiance about how I feel, but I have tried many times before, only to have to hear him say that I doubt his love and other things to that extent.  What can you suggest.  I love him with all my heart, and even though we have never met in person, I am going to meet in in another country before we actually go to Nigeria to be married.  thank you for all your help.  I am an american woman who is in love with a man from Nigeria, if other american women can be as lucky as I have been to marry a Nigerian man, they are truly blessed, but it is just the few scammers that are out there that mess it up for every body else,