Chris525:

Wow. Just wow. You have done well as an elder brother. God bless you. If he’s not reacting violently towards you, please set him free but never let him out of your sight. Its better that he stays with you for the time being.

Get him to a spiritually sound Pastor for prayers incase he’s in a spiritual bondage. After that get someone to counsel him. Involve his said boss. If your parents are alive, particularly your mom, bring her in from the village, don’t take him to the village. A lot of people are saying a 25 year old is an adult, true, but he hasn’t shown that he is mature and independent to handle affairs of life. So please continue to do your bit for him, do not let anyone discourage you. A lot of lives have been ruined with scenarios like this.

Try to get the N550k from the Pastor; tell him the money doesn’t belong to your brother and must be returned. You must cause him a great level of discomfort as you don’t know how far gone he’s in with your brother, thats incase he’s tied him spiritually. He may be planning something for you as well. Be careful but do not be scared, you must face him head on. Make it clear that he must stay away from your brother, that if anything untoward happen to you or your brother, he will pay for it. Tell him if you mistakenly hit your leg on a stone, you will come for him. You have him in a corner now, don't slack.

Please name the said church. The members may not be privy of what is really going on and you could be helping or saving other people as well.

He is my junior brother, I am 10years older than him, I have other junior ones before him, I personally cuffed him because he might sell his shop soon which I know he was planning to do, the name of the church is "Saved by Grace and power" many people here are codeming me for tieing him up but they forgot that anything that happens to him they will ask where was the elder brother, like this I am the No 1 bread winner as in my 4 siblings in universities I take care of the bills 100% 2 are in convernant university .... So I am doing my best as An elder brother and also a father... Thanks

Solsix:
Are u sure they are charming him?? Nothing is ever as it seems. Most so called churches are something else

I feel so .. how can someone donate 14million worth of electricals to a Church... we have not checked the cash, I only saw 550k transfer he made yesterday

Riverville:
This na serious matter

I am really pained

I went to the church yesterday at ojo with some of my soldier friends, I took my brother and and his car, I called a truck to loose some of the AC and Fans, Electrical appliances having my brother's sticker, right now I tied him rope and I put him in my room until he return back to his senses, we calculated roughly Goods of 14 million naira that my brother donated to this church, to my surprise I took his phone and checked his history I almost cried, he just transferred 550k to the pastor yesterday being Sunday, his customers from North and middle belt has been texting him to know why he is not picking their calls, My brother was supposed to supply good worth 4million naira to one alhaji in Kano but he didn't care, I had to call the boss to act as if he is my brother and he should supply those goods but it should go with my brothers sticker ... the man has made transfer this morning... then I realized that my brother is loosing millions due to church activities he has put himself into.... At his age I never dreamed of having a car but God made it possible for him and he is misusing....

Good morning nairalanders, I am writing this with pains in my heart because my junior brother has been brainwashed totally.

My brother was 23 years old when he made his first million. I trained him and took him to a friend of mine who sells electrical parts in Alaba intl, he served him for 5 years and settled him with a shop worth 500k at the age of 20. I too surported his business with 300k cash, and everything was moving fine. At the age of 22 years my brother told me he wants to buy a land, I gave him go-ahead, at 23 he bought a Toyota muscle.... this year he is clocking 25years ... (fast forward)

I was in my warehouse when his former boss called me and told me that I should warn my junior brother about the way he invites church people to his shop to pray, that they are after his money and I called my brother and told him and warned him that he should be careful of those church people, Now My brother has stopped going to his shop regularly. He gave church his car for evangelism, he donated almost all his AC and standing fans to church ... Now the shop is becoming empty, the only thing in his packing store is 20 stabilizer and 6 ceiling fans, someone who boast of 10million Worth of Goods in packing store ....