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My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

May there soul rest in peace. This same diseases took the life of my young and promising junior brother. It was an hectic experience and something you'll never pray for your enemy to experience.

Until we stop looking for osimhen and play normal football, we win any game like this. Overdependency on a particular player is bad for a team that is looking for goals.

This osimhen is overrated.

I'm glad to be hearing the sound of our supporters. That brings life to the game.

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No. It's not hereditary at all. It's just miraculous how he got to that stage. It's probably the handy work of the devil. Not ordinary but Allah knows best.

Single at 40. Why not settle down, have a family and build an empire with your fund here in Nigeria. The grass is not greener on the other side.

Buy bicycle and start riding. That solves your problem.

I lost a promising brother to this disease last year October. The effects of the disease is very severe and worrysome. My bro fought a strong battle for good 2 months plus before he gave up the ghost. He was a promising and a talented boy who just graduated from high school. The problem started on the first day he wrote his first WAEC paper. Since then, he never return back home. He was just been transferred from from place to another, one lab to another, one hospital to another and finally to his grave. OLAYINKA, I believe you are in a good place now. Keep on resting till we meet again.

Stay safe out there guys. Meningitis is real and may we never experience it. Not even something you pray for your enemy.

I'd advise you to keep your current role as a finance person. Meanwhile, can u please give me an update about Unilag master degree.
How is the school fee for full time and part-time and also how is the lecture time table for full-time like? Do they receive lectures everyday?

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Lol you give am belle, she give you STI.

Odiegwu!

Lols... I'm free from that nonsense now.

There's one that I'm nursing presently. This one even get pregnant for me and aborted it. Plus she gave me infection too. Now I'm avoiding her totally.

It's 2 weeks already.

A lady living next to my door told me she's pregnant and it's mine. I actually thought it was a joke cos she rarely allow me to penetrate her not until 2 days b4 she opened up to me that she's pregnant.

Although we had a quickee sometimes around late January / February in which I knew that I released inside her and ever since then, she always stops me from ducking her.

I told her to go and do a lab test to affirm the result and boom. The result was positive. The pregnancy is 6 weeks old and 2 days. Omo. I was shocked � and my thinking changed totally.

Before I utter a word, the lady said she's removing it cos she has alot ahead of her and she can't bear the shame.

Recently, my mom warned me not to abort incase my gf which knows conceive. But this random girl came up with this shit. Although, I still find it difficult to believe this is mine cos this looks like a blackmail to me.

But since she insisted on removing it, I have no choice than succumbed to it. Last Thursday, she did the abortion and every since then. I have been having regrets of involving myself into this right from onset.

I'm cutting all ties with this girl once everything dies down.

70k?

Mazzatov:



My guy can you tell me what you use, that shit can cause depression

I visited the school clinic, I took several antibiotics.

Sometimes, I will add salt Into a hot water and put my dick inside With my balls. That stops the scathing immediately u are feeling it. I also change my boxers consistently and avoid heat down there. With time, it will be a thing of the past.

That's how I bleep one girl named Nike at the middle of the night during night reading session in school that time. Omo, the quickee turned something else my people. Na so I started nurturing syphilis o. It almost got depressed. But thank God that I've overcome the shit now. Use ur head when u r bleeping a random girl.

If I were you, the guy go cry tire. E go clean his face and move on.

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How much are they now selling new one...? You funny o

If you need a medical fitness certificate for just #500. Holla at me on whatsapp.
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Medical report for relocation also available

The king is back... Headaches for the likes of Arsenal, Chelsea, City & Liverpool..

[quote author=DoggoneDogg post=105044526]If its LASU then he might be a cultist.
90% of LASU students are cultists.[/quote

You are dumb.

How much is the ppa paying corper?

DSTV no fit show this kind match. But if na Water Polo game that features South Africa. They will show it. Upon that, Italy flog them like small pikin for midnight.

dangoteinlaw:
Stay away from alaba, I repeat do not go near alaba!

I was scammed Once at Alaba when I went to buy sound system. It all ended in tears.