There is a belief that once the sex is done, what happens after that is up to the woman. After all, if she decides to have the baby that is 9 months of work on her body, and then 18 years of work with a child. Certainly the male can play a huge role in it, but If she doesn’t fully trust you, then you are just a question mark to her in this whole equation. And for her, it may be easier to assume you simply will not be there. So if she looks at it that way, her decision was based on that she doesn’t want to raise a child alone right now, or doesn’t want a child at all.

Basically you have to see it from her perspective. it’s probably hard to see it from her perspective because you are used to seeing it from yours. You know how trustworthy you are (or at least we all believe we are trustworthy). But if she’s only known you for a 7years, it’s hard for someone to have that much trust that the other person is sticking around for the next 20 years.

as for why she acted like it’s no big deal, consider that it may be very hard for her to cope with guilt, or the external pressures that are placed on her. Right now it might be easier to pretend that nothing happened. Over time, she will be able to process those feelings when she believes that its safe for her to do so. Let her feel supported by you. Be kind to her, and let her know That you are there if she needs to talk to someone. You will do your best to accept her decision, and help her in any way. Either that, or maybe she really doesn’t care. That is certainly a possibility.

if you are still stuck on the idea that you should have been included on this decision, try to understand that there will be some things in relationships that are outside of your control. The woman will not always want your input. For example, if she makes a big career move, she may just not care what you think. Or if she buys a new car, she may not ask you because it’s her money. She may view it the same way with kids—-she doesn’t want them because it’s her body. Try to process this reality and ask yourself at what point are you over-controlling and/or selfish.

If it is a big deal to you that she made a decision like this without telling you then it seems you two have value systems that are different enough that a long-term relationship between you may not work. So probably the best thing to do is wrap it up now and find someone whose values more closely align with your own.

gasparpisciotta:


Do a live video of the bird. You can make some money

yea

Freestainworld:
If you release the bird, it will keep on coming back, never treat the bird bad whether vulture or not, you just created an unknown friendship.

Thank you... When ever i release it to fly it refuses to fly.. It just keep moving the compound like a Chicken?

That is an eagle.. Free that bird it looks unhappy. Or better still build a biggercage for it...

Were u, Lap!!

Asa!! Desolve.

I go put am for ur body wotowoto..
Salina tested those guys deserve an award