Thank you for the time.

Thank you once again. You said i could go to someone who knows about these things in details. Who could this person be, how can i meet them. I would have love to see the person. I can give me direction?

Thx 4 d advance. Wat abt the watering sperm? Did u think those traditional drugs could be responsible? Should i stop masturbating? Wat abt those test i mentioned? More advance pls!

Hello doc,

VERY LONG POST BUT PLEASE TRY AND READ!

I need your assistance. I have been suffering from weak/soft erection for the past 4yrs. I noticed this the first time i tried to make love to a girl. I started masturbating when i was 16, then a met a girl at the age of 20 and now i'm 24. Before we made love, we have been doing pre-intimacy, during pre-intimacy, i discovered that i couldn't sustain my erection for long, sometimes it doesn't even get up, no matter how long we pre-intimacy. Because of this, i had hard time starting the real thing, because i know i wasn't up. One evening, after enough pre-intimacy, i knew she was high and needed me to go in without any excuse, so we started, I really found it difficult to go in, because my erection was soft, when i finally got in, less than a minute i came. This was shocking to both of us. She told me because it was the first time, that was why, but i knew it wasn't the first time and over excitement thing. After that day, i was never able to make love to her again, so after some time we ended.

Few months later, i met another girl, this time around, i couldn't even penetrate her, no matter how hard i tried. This was quite embarrassing. Because of this disappointment, i decided to look for a solution to the problem. Because of the numerous advertisement i had from traditional therapist who prophesied that they handle such problem without stress. I ran to the first one (popular, but i don't want to mention names) who gave me some drugs. After i took those drugs i noticed changes in my entire system, not particularly my reproductive organ, but the entire system. Before i took the drugs, i had this early morning headache, which was quite uncomfortable and make it difficult for me to get up from bed every morning. Also, i was having general body weakness and some signs which i cannot explain. All these were fixed after i took the drugs. Early morning erection, that i never saw for long, came back. I could easily got arouse by merely thinking about a girl. I felt i was normal again. Since i was having no girlfriend then, i masturbated few days after. I began to feel the soft erection again, early morning erection doesn't stay long anymore, until it disappeared, though other part of me was OK.

I went to the lady and told her that, everything went well expect for the soft-erection issue, she told me that i need to continue the supply until the problem stopped. I ordered for another, which had little or no effect on me. I had to stop because it was too expensive for me to afford.

After that, i just stop disturbing myself about it and focused on other things. 2 years back i met another girl.
Whenever we are together, though i have the urge for (sex), but the erection just come and go. So i knew the problem was still there, so i went to another traditional therapist. He gave me another set of drugs. After i took the drugs, i noticed something strange. My sperm became watering, it was not as thick as it was before. I also
noticed that, when i don't rush while masturbating, the sperm seems to be thicker. . Sorry, before i went to the second therapist, i went to see a doctor at a specialist, he only advised me and told me it was fear and all that, that there was nothing absolutely wrong with me masturbating. That wasn't enough for me, that was why i went to the second traditional therapist.

I went to the hospital for the second time, after a saw whitish substance came out from my penis while i was urinating. I explain everything to the doctor, he made me to take some test, after seeing the result, he told me that there was nothing wrong with me and told me to take some strong anti-biotic. After taking the anti-biotic, i experience some improvement in my health, but not with the soft/weak erection, though i still masturbate and watch porn.

Recently i discovered that while consuming a lot of carrot (because i like eating carrots ) my body was responding well. I start to experience early morning erection again, can easily get arouse and all that, though i have not tried it with a girl yet. Now carrot season is gone and since i still masturbate, the problem came back.

I have decided to STOP MASTURBATING and see how it turns out (this i have done for two weeks now).

Somebody online told me to check my testosterone, cholesterol, Cortisol and hormone. I have not thought about that yet.

Now, i would like know if this problem is due to my excessive masturbation ( 1 - 4 times a week) or something is wrong with my body system.

I really need your advice even your criticism, since i know that, what i have been doing is wrong. Please help a brother in need.