Naomi14:
Hello Mamas it's like am the only lady in May2017 on this thread EDD is 3rd May 2017.

My EDD is 3rd May too...

Wow...

AmJane:

Hope you have eaten the fried rice? What part of Uyo do you reside? Am an Uyo mama

Fried rice for where...I ended up with goat meat...making peppersoup right now...

SalomonKane:
Oh now I see. Well forgive me for stating the obvious.

Next time I won't meddle in your affair.

Thank you.

I'm not saying your advice was not helpful but I saw and read everyone's advice and I thought about it for a while and took my decision.

Do you feel I'm not scared or I'm not worried?

But I choose to be hopeful to keep my sanity.

But I'm really hurt when I see new posts everyday suggesting it won't end well.

I'm human and I have my doubts but I'm trying to be strong.

I just felt I was rude.

Salomonkane, I really don't mean to be rude and I'm sorry for my harsh words.

SalomonKane:
Simple. The lady never said how the guy feel/felt about her. She said "he cried when he saw the baby". Not he cried for me and the baby.

Now a man who truly feels for a woman will show his feeling, especially at this present time to the woman who brought the baby he cried for into this world.

I've seen men who don't give a hoot about women who birth their kids. I know just what they're capable of.

I have tried so much to ignore your statements but I just can't understand why you are pushing so hard for a bad ending.

Haba! What will you gain if it ends in disaster.

Let it rest, let this post die but no, you must win.

Okay... Just so you know, two days ago he admitted I'm the best decision to ever happen to him (believe it or not). I don't care.

I'm already scared and extremely worried but I choose to see a bright light at the end of the tunnel.

Let it rest, all you can do is wish me the best.

Thank you.

My own is that I want fried rice and I must get it... Okay, lemme go to the market...

Proudmum38, your son is healed in Jesus name.

Thank God for this post.

Reading through this post has given me joy with the decision I took not to abort this fetus.

I pray God almighty grant your heart desires, non shall be barren in the land.

Almighty father, hear our cry and bless every mama with the fruit of their womb.

Every womb is open in Jesus name..

Please pretty mamas if you are living in ikot ekpene, uyo or abak. I won't mind having you as a friend, I'm really bored here.

Onegai:
maaamaaa,

Firstly, why were you replying PMs from so many people and even passing out your number? You're supposed to go through the profile of the sender of every request for PMs you get and then decide whether or not you wish to continue speaking to them. And passing out your number so easily? You have to start making better choices and thinking on your feet, what if someone had come sounding helpful, befriended you and then kidnapped your baby when born?

The facebook poster who insulted you, was it male or female? Try and think back and really, do yourself a favour: unfriend anyone that you may have added recently that you don't know in person.

Lastly, I mentioned here earlier that I needed you to get off this section and move to Health section. The mods made a mistake moving that thread to the frontpage because it attracted a lot of the stvpid people to it. You are on the Pregnancy thread, people make safe friends there through shared experiences, you ought to have gone there since (there are expecting mums in Uyo). All the info you need for preparing for this child is on that thread. So if you wish to start looking ahead, that is where you ought to be and not here

Thank you so much.
I've done all that, I was just lonely and bored and I felt I should make friends to ease my situation.
I guess it was a bad idea.

I'll definitely keep myself to the pregnancy post. Thank you

Please, can this thread be closed or deleted.

Cc lalasticlala seun Mynd44

Is there a procedure I have to follow?

@iomoge2, I just read through your diary and I must confess I'm blessed by it. Thank you

I rep family worship center..

Back then when I was in Abuja, a family that truly cares..

I love you mama

I've been on this post all day.... Wow! It's really good..

Flowerlady01:
Bia.. my friend...you really are a small girl oo. How old did you say u were again? You need to grow up pls dear. So that your man and others can take you serious. How can you open a thread solely to find a house help?! This is serious...
Are there no agencies you can contact in Uyo? Can't your mum or ppl around you recommend one? Couldn't you have asked on preggy thread as their member? Dont let ppl think your man had a valid reason to stall ur marriage. Pls be careful of how u do things. You are now an expectant mother and soon to be wife (according to u).
Think and act mature, dear.

On another note , I feel you like attention. Take it easy o.

I hope you feel better. Have a nice sunday

I'm truly happy that your marriage is saved. This joy you experience now shall be forever

by124:
Op, is this a joke? I think you are a troll based on your posting history. Or do you and your husband need a common sense and maturity evaluation before marriage? I am quite surprised how someone that cannot make little decisions by themselves, can decide to open their legs and get married. So crazy. NL will help you run your home and decide what pant your husband will wear tomorrow.

Really? I'm actually not surprised. The amount of vile and anger in nairaland is shocking.

What exactly have I done to you to deserve this abuse? What the hell. You opened this out of your free will, read it without bring forced and then you decide to insult me.

Yes, I have no idea on how to run a home and I'm not ashamed to say it. I'm learning and if I'm stuck somewhere I'll ask questions.

I wish you well in life.

Ishilove:

In everything, be wise. The pastor is not infallible and can make mistakes like anybody, especially if he is not sensitive to the Holy Spirit.

If you have relative or something, you can invite them.

It's just you two in the house so what do you need a help for?

I seriously don't have any relative that can come over and besides I don't want a live in person.

He helps out but I'm sort of a neat freak.

My strength is not enough anymore and work is demanding right now.

And He really believes we will need someone when the baby comes and when I'm really really heavy.

mrsmith11:


Looool
I feel for people who brings there challenges to nairaland to seek for advice.

Immediately you said you partner was excited when he saw the baby inside you they were all angry and disappointed, all they ever want is division and scatter .....evil people

Back to your topic

I think you should ask your local pastor if you attend a church already to make a recommendation

Thank you so much, I never thought of that. I'll definitely do that tomorrow. Maybe the pastor's wife. Thank you

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Who said anything about your past?


Now I am gonna have to refer to it
Your hormones must really be driving you at 220
[/quote
Mimzy referred to it and you had fun laughing it off with her.

I really don't care if you stick my past to my forehead like a badge. I'm just disappointed.

Be sensitive...

nuelyoyo:
one of the reasons I followed the thread from d first page to the last is coz am in the same town wif u. I know how I felt when I came to town new. No friends and family members to talk to. I could hardly even find my way back home then. I would just tell anyone to just describe how I can get to plaza, then I would know the way to my street. Uyo has been a blessing to me though. It's a town filled with milk and honey for me.

Are you female?

Please don't be offended by my question.

I really do feel bad about your comments.

I wonder if it is a crime to seek help from nairaland.

Will you keep taunting with my past forever.

Please, you're women be sensitive..
Thank you.
@mimzy @dyt

Anyway I'm at peace, I was just bothered that someone could take this too far.

Dyt:
Maaamaaa

How did someone find you on FB?


Mimzzy

Ishilove

I really don't know but a lot of people mailed me, I responded to some but my email address does not represent my facebook ID.

I gave my phone contact to some persons but I doubt someone can link my facebook through my phone number.

I have blocked the person on facebook and I was adviced not to publish the details of the person here so I don't reveal myself further.

I'm amazed at the extent people go to, just because they think I did not listen to their advice.
Someone found me on Facebook and rained curses on me.
I have called on the moderators to delete this thread but they don't want to.
I totally listened to the words of everyone here and I thought about it all for a long time before settling for a decision.
If I've offended you in any way by this post I'm truly sorry.

Whatever decision I took if it turns out good or bad, I'll suffer it alone.

Thank you for your words and please I want the thread shut down. Thank you

Hello beautiful people, I'm here again.

I intend to get a help that will come twice a week to clean and do some washing.

My partner is fully in support but he is worried about the security of the home.

Please, we are both in a strange land with no family and we can't speak their native language.

How do I go about this?

@nuelyoyo I'm so grateful for your concern but I'm fine now...
Although I don't mind having friends here.

Portable break thank God for your life. Its not easy..

Please how can this thread be closed?
I want it closed.
Cc lalasticlala