FirstCounsel:
Very well then. It's your decision

please can I have your number...i can't access my mail..

tears of joy... so much love... God is in control...
thank you all...im in the hospital...

blood pressure is 196....
full details... baby still alive...
my hoooohaaaaaa is closed...

FirstCounsel:

Three months is such a short time! Are you sure you've thought about this and weighed your options properly? Its best not to take any decision"in anger" if you get my drift. I'm a lawyer. You may wish to contact me privately. Thanks

Yes, I am very sure... my mind is made up...

sisisioge:


Between 150k to 250k. The court will only be willing to dissolve it if you've been apart for 1 or 2 yrs. Your three months old marriage will only receive prayers from the court unless you could prove your life is threatened. Even at that, you would only be encouraged to try separation. It is well o. May God help you settle this.

so I have to wait for 1year or 2years before I can file for a divorce?

I think my sanity is part of my life, is that enough grounds...

FirstCounsel:
You may have to answer a few questions you'd consider private here but you may choose not to.
1.how long have you been married?
2. Do you still live with your husband presently?
3. If no how long have you been separated?

I may be slow with my response but I will try...
1. 3months
2. Yes, I do
3. I still do.

thank you jazzyjazz and thank you chanbaby... on my way now...
thank you to everyone...
please will my baby be premature...

doynb Dammyores

kayceelo, dornby please say something

Loisemm:
Find an elderly woman or nurse around to check you and help incase. While you try to access the hospital tomorrow morning. All will be well.

I don't know anyone around here... it's very lonely here

how can I check myself...

firstpregnancy please respond

response louisemm

please help I think I'm having premature labour... what can I do...
can't access any hospital... I'm 8months...

Montaque:
I presume ur marriage isn't 3yrs old yet. Consider separation for now. Court will hardly grant u a divorce at this stage, and they will push u to settlement first before granting u trial. Try and resolve abeg. Divorce proceedings are messy and shameful. I hold u in high esteem not to tow that part.
Goodluck

I'm too emotional to let this linger on... I can't concentrate on my life anymore...

I do not wish for this but I'm tired... really tired...

I just want to move on and have my life back...

I'm barely three months old...i am opting for a separation now but I want to know the procedure and start immediately...

sisisioge:
Chai! Chineme o! Your monkey finally entered the bush! Anyways, it is well. Some people are designed to learn not by observation but by direct participation!

Divorce is final babes. From getting a lawyer, paying a lot of cash for the fees, serving the respondent Court notices, appearing in court several times, opening cans of worms during examinations and cross examinations, etc...We are talking time and money here. Please take a deep breath and reaccess your situation. You could just consider a separation for now, at least till the baby arrives. Babies change everything. It is well.

please, can you help me with an estimate of the cost?

I really don't want to do this but for my sanity I have to.

FirstCounsel:
We need to know the background facts about your marriage i.e was it at the Registry or not? This would determine what next step to take if you've really made up your mind about the divorce.

yes it was in a registry...

please, how do I go about this?
Must it be in the court where I got married?
How long will the process take?
How do I get a lawyer? I don't know any chamber
I have an unborn baby, will this have any effect?
what is the first step?

thank you as I await useful responses...

I know many will laugh at me because i was warned and i deserve the mockery for my foolishness..

But im just trying to move on...for the whereabouts of my husband, i live with him but i wont like to go into details because it will make no difference.

Please where can i get intimacy gadgets around uyo or phcitu.

Please pray for me because i do believe "this too shall pass away"

belamour:


Get an intimacy gadgets

Yes, i thought of that...please where can i get it at uyo or phcity and how much?

I now have thoughts of cheating on my husband...

I see men now and i stop and stare...i have practically undressed some in my brain...

This against my faith but i am really thinking about it...

How do i stop this feeling because i dont want to be adulterous...

Please i need to get this net....uyo and phcity mothers..please any idea...

gurlnext2u:
My dear, I know that this is a faceless forum. Can you pls send me your number. I would like to speak with you. Suicide is not the best option my sister.thank you. Waiting for your response

Did you get it?

Thank you all for your advice...God help me...thank you and God bless you...

Liftedhands:
You can reach me on geze911@gmail.com if you want to talk! I may have a word or two that may be useful.

Suicide is never an option out of anything! Be brave and face the challenges head on.

I sent a mail but it bounced back..

My parents believe in endurance...

Im supposed to reason this out but i actually dont know what to do...i'm really confused...

Please, if youve experienced this or you know someone, please i want to talk with you

Thank you all for your concern...

My story is too long for me to share and im very tired.

I'll be strong...

I want to end this marriage, i cant continue with it anymore, i got married out of family pressure and societal stigma and i regret it everynight..

I cry every night and i hate myself badly...
I feel worthless and i have started hating this child...

Doctors say my blood level is really low 6.0....

All i have in life now is God.

Im tired of this world...i am really tired...

Thank you all for your advice...

I want to leave this marriage, its not working and yes im not a virtuous woman...

My endurance rope is cut, i dont expect anyone to understand...

I feel like killing this child and myself...

I need to rant...i just locked my husband outside and i actually dont care where he sleeps...

Do i feel bad? NO

I am just stressed out...

The other day this man watched a 7months pregnant woman struggle with a generator to and fro the mechanič..

Im just 25years old and i'm looking over 40 because of stress...

I have decided he should stay out till monday and i dont care where he sleeps...