@ Gnature

Women other than Nigerian are not dirty women and just because you
saw a nigerian man with a "dirty" american woman does not mean
that all american women are dirty.

You just totally misunderstood my point.

I am an American black woman, I would in no way say that all Black American women are dirty. I also sure as hell would not say that all Nigerian women are clean either. That was not the point however. The point was some Nigerian women may see one instance of a Black American woman that they don't like and say that all black American women are the same. The real deal is though, Nigerian women just use that as an excuse to say that Nigerian men should just stick to their own. It is a manipulation on the Nigerian womans behalf to get her man to be with what she percieves as his own people. We are all black. That is why I said that when a black man choses another black woman to make sure he chooses the best and as long as she is black.

If you get it this time you get it. If you don't get it I give up. Sometimes I wonder if it is a language barrier or is it a cultural barrier that sometimes causes us to not be able to comprehend each other.

@ zebudaya

To each his own. The dude is not complaining about dating a nasty woman, Why should you? maybe she treats him better than the "fresh and beautiful" ones who are only good for gazing at.

Well if she treats him better he should treat her better also. He should supply her with the money to wash her clothes if he is going to be sleeping with her. He should also bath her instead of telling people how ditry she is. LOL

@ Gnote

What does dating nasty women have to do with what we are talking about? Your response really
puzzles me. Or are you misinterpreting what I wrote?

I asked you what determinds the attraction for any woman. I told you if that is so, are Nigerian men interested in any women as long as they have a puzzy? You gave me your response.

My point is a man should be a little more discriminative. Just because it looks good does not mean it is good.

The topic is about Nigerian men being attracted to Caribbean women. The Nigerian woman who started this discussion sounds like a woman who does not want to share Nigerian men maybe because she feels she has more of a right to them because of the culture. You said Nigerian men are attracted to all types of women. I gave you a story about the types of women here in America that Nigerian men have chosen to be with. I was playing devils advocate. The woman who started this topic probably feels that for some of the reasons that I pointed out, Nigerian men should just stay with their own to avoid such matters and all would be okay. So, I just wanted to point out that whatever woman you choose, make sure she is the best and hopefully she will at least be black.

@ Zebudaya

To each his own. The dude is not complaining about dating a nasty woman, Why should you? maybe she treats him better than the "fresh and beautiful" ones who are only good for gazing at.

I worked at a school where the children I taught had a Nigerian father. There mother was A.A and she was poor. He made frequent trips to England and not once took her and the children with him. When he left he would leave her no money and he would send no money. When he met her she was not so clean and she was poor but he knew that. Getting back to the point.

She had to break down and steal food because she had no money to feed his children, remember he was in England. He came back without her knowledge. The kids had not been picked up so the staff had to call him for emergency pick up. When he got there to the school, he was so mad that the when he arrived to the school he bad talked her telling me and other staff that she was in jail for stealing food and that he just found that out. He went on to say how dirty she was and how he could not stand her and he wanted to send his children to Africa.

My point is he knew she was that way so why complain unless he just saw the puzzy and didn't care about the dirt. This was a very nice looking Nigerian and he was clean. You are right, to each is own but if to each is own, why complain about what you chose on your own?

@ Gnature

The reason (for instance) a Nigerian can be attracted to
any woman could be her physical appearance.

I am a Nigerian man and I find the ff ladies (for instance) attractive:

Eva Longoria (Latino)
Patra (Jamaican)
Denise Richards (white)
Geneviene (nigerian)
Sanaa Lathan (black american)

So you see, a nigerian man can find a woman attractive
regardless of her nationality (not all men of course)



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I see.

The reason why I asked that is because there are some beautiful Nigerian men here in America, I mean beautiful. I have seen them screwing around with hookers and women who are dirty, I mean just plain old nasty.

These women are black and white but the white ones are really nasty.

Me as a black woman, I can help a brother out if he needs some assistance with his hygiene because some of us have not been properly taught the importance of hygiene, you know what I am saying? but that don't mean I want to be with him in that way. So, I just wanted to make sure that Nigerian men are attracted to anything that has a Puzzy. I know this is not true for all Nigerians but I do see it alot.

@ Gnature

A Nigerian
man can be attracted to a woman of any nationality.

But what would be a Nigerians reason for being attracted? They have to have some type of discrimination factor. No one should be all loose like that being attracted to who ever. One has to have some type of prinicipals.

@zebudaya

I'M NIGERIAN first. I just happen to be black.

It is nice that you are proud to have been born in Nigerian but the fact of the matter is if your parents brought you to America and gave birth to here, you would be black American with two parents who are Black Africans, So, you are black first as a whole you are African first. No matter where you are born and raised, if your parents are black you will be black first. Who you are is what you will be no matter what and that is black, you can't change that However if you just happen to be born somewhere else your title changes. Would you call a white person an African Nigerian?

@Zebudaya

I'm Nigerian first, and black second. We don't learn how to think in terms of race until we get to the west.

If you don't learn to think in terms of race until you get to the west, why do you call yourself Nigerian first? Seperating your self not only from American Blacks or Caribbean blacks but also from the rest of the Africans on the Continent of Africa.

Don't blame the west for your ignorance. Isn't that what you would tell A.A? Don't blame the white man?

@ To All


First of all, Nigerian women are not losing their men. Nigerian woman is a black woman first and a Nigerian second. Nigerian woman has many black men to choose from. I am a Black American and Black American men sometimes get on my nerves.

If I see a fine Nigerian black man the I am feeling, or a Carribean Rasta, or a fine black man from Mali or a fine black man from Ghana or a fine black man from anywhere on this planet, trust you me, If I can make him mines, that is what I am going to do

I love black American men but then I love All black man and I am glad that there is so much variety of black men to choose from. If the Nigerian man wants to get him a carribean woman, I am happy for him, at least he is not with a white women. Black on black will always produce black children. Black people as a whole are African first and Black second.

@ To All

I don't know about ya'll, but I can dig two or more husbands