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Heartbender:
You are "Audray". I went through "your" posts. Can you trust me? See my signature for my number. Thanks

First. I am not Audray, she is one lady I admire tho. Second trust you on what??

I saw this post on another blog with some ladies pictures on it.... Dailyadvert to be precise!. That doesn't seem safe!

momokiddies:



it isn't your fault that you turned out this way, and no you don't deserve to be abused. at early childhood where you were supposed to be expose to experiences that are positive and gearing towards growth- this experiences and growth being propelled by the significant adults in your life such as your parents and your maid and maybe the other male family who molested you- instead you were exposed to abused by these people and neglect by your parents. now you are a dysfunctional adult who is fighting her way out from an experience which has registered in her brain neurons. the pleasure from the maid has built a perception to you that sex with female is sweeter and the opposite is painful. my dear you need lots of counseling and reorientation. you might want to speak to a professional who won't judge you. I am an early childhood educator and I help traumatic children heal even adult who are traumatized from childhood experiences. if you will want to talk to me, please do quote me and say so, if not talk to someone else. yes you need God but God will talk to you through people. I wish you the best in whatever decision you settled for.

Thnx ma'am....

Seasons greetings

imamtobi:
have u done so yet?

Not yet. Been very busy. But I will soon. Thank you

DeeMain:



Let me know when you get this.

Seen. You can take it down now

DeeMain:
Your early childhood sexual abuse experiences have distorted your sexual orientation and God knows what else. You have embodied the trauma. You need to heal from that for your own good.

Go see a good therapist . It's a good place to start. Alternatively, send me a pm, let's see how I can be of help.

This mail. Is inactive. Please how can I get your numner

imamtobi:
do u mind that I introduce u to a counsellor/ therapist who can help u? If ys, contact +23407032862012 on WhatsApp

Thnx... Will do that

imamtobi:
where do u live? Do u mind being introduced to an experienced counsellor who could help u overcome it? If yes, reply to this, I'll drop u a number to chat up for help

I live in Nigeria, Lagos

Hhmmmmmmmmmmm......

Alero3Arubi:
In this part of the world we do not understand that sharing problems is a big deal in relieving ourselves of the burden they pose to our mind. A lot of people go into emotional melt down every now and then. It's very important to share your issues.
And this is a WhatsApp group link invite for anyone who wants to be listened to no judgements at all. All topics whatsoever.
Yes finally a place where you can be heard.
https:///DnBwTKNAfgR18Hr06BMkdb

Plz resend link. This one is not working...

Man2utd:


Do you want to be free?

Yes

Hi I just joined Nairaland, although have been a ghost reader for a long while. Admist other thread I believe family thread have more mature people. However, I welcome alot of insults, abuse or bashing or what have you but after everything please help me.

It started since childhood, our maid (lady) introduce me to this stuff, then I was also repeated molestation by a respected family (man) of ours about age 4 or so. The man's way was very painful but the ladies way wasn't... They both exchanged me period by period through childhood and I grow up to become an helpless gay addict. I mean lesbian. Cos I am a lady I can't seem to help myself with same sex I always want to have sex with a girl. Especially the attractive ones. I want to get married and I want to be happy. I want to do the right thing but I can't seem to help myself... I tried having sex with guys but it was very painful so I stopped. I stick with ladies instead... How can i stop this madness my conscience is pricking me, I am In my mid twenties now, I should be in a serious relationship but I can't because of my attraction for girls.

You are free to abuse me. In short I have abused more than u can every abuse me... But at the end of the insult. Advice me, thank you