I am the type that doesn't like to leave my seat whenever am in the office. I am very popular in the complex but I do not personally know up to 30%. I sha know that I do greet people and they greet me in return.
I went to a particular office one day because we were trying to sort a file. I noticed a woman looking painstakingly at my tommy but I cared less. She knew that I caught her so, she now greeted me again, asking after my husband and my sisters.
The following day, another woman came to my office and she greeted me which I responded. My table + system were covering my tommy. She sat on the seat facing me but she just stood up and came to me. She boldly told me that she came to look at my tommy. I now relaxed on my chair giving that unnecessary smiles. She, with her loud voice was like "you better do something fast, people are counting for you ooo" and that she did not pity me. She then told one other woman there to talk to me. The person told her with cool voice that you know she is really educated (Ph.D). Probably she doesn't want to have babies now. That she should understand these "olomowe"... I was just smiling with the statement "it is well"... The confrontation with what happened the previous day hit me. I was just wondering how bold the woman was as my relationship with her was just " good morning" "good night". With God, I missed my period same month.
When I narrated what happened to my husband, he just told me not to mind anybody that what he knows is that everybody has appointed time for everything... Some people can't just mind their own business. Like I do say, it is well.

I'm a silent member who has been trying to conceive since I got married last year. I became worried after three cycles. Even when everybody told me to take it cool that it was too early for me to get worried. I considered my age(I have small stature) plus the fact that a month, two months... Months and years are going. I stopped worrying but took a step by going to the hospital. I had to lie to them that I have been trying for almost 10months. The doctors teased me but we laughed over it. They told me at every point that I should have waited for 2 more months to make a year.
He advised I go for Pelvic USS and Follicle tracking test which came out fine. He was more than satisfied with the outcome of the test and said my husband and I must meet that day because it was likely I ovulate that night. My husband working in another state that is far from mine risked the journey. He came around past one in the night(Friday night). He went back on Monday. Even though, I confirmed from the test that our ovulation calculation has been wrong and the test confirmed the most appropriate time, the month failed. Hmmm... I was depressed not because I was tired of trying but I just had pity on my husband who make it down anytime I call him no matter how urgent it was. It really affected his work but he sacrificed his job to build up family... Well, we had no choice! I cried and told the doctor to give me any drugs but he declined that i do not need any. We were happy when it was speculated that there would be lockdown. He came ahead of the lockdown thinking that it would affect every parts of the country. Only for him to get here and they announced that the lockdown did not affect his sector (Oil and Gas). He still risked it to stay ignoring several calls, queries and forfeiting salary. Guess what? it failed again (Note: I compelled him to go for SFA and it shows he is very able as a man). He encouraged me to forget about it and live our lives as he knows that it will come at the appropriate time.
Sunday, cd23(I have shot cycle with 24 on average) I tested positive with a very faint positive line. I repeated it this morning and it is BFP.... Baby dust to everybody!