talk2hb1:

Is that not the food State?
You can be exporting foodstuffs to other state of the Federation and be making money.

Nice idea... but it requires capital

Acidbath:




Where are the both of you located?

I'm in makurdi Benue State

Earlystar698:



It's doesn't relate because you don't know what you want

What exactly is the problem here? I was castigated on that thread and now I've decided to focus on self development and forge my path and it's still an issue to you?... please leave me alone

Earlystar698:
Here is a thread of you month back https://www.nairaland.com/7021168/im-torn-ex-new-boyfriend

You are a notorious attention seeker

Like someone said in the earlier thread you really a confused being b/w is it your new Bleep friend or the ex Bleep friend?

So how's does it relate? Please leave my thread if you don't have anything reasonable to say

Offpoint1:
This is what you should have done during the relationship, but most of you ladies don't reason beyond your noses.

If you are fortunate to meet any SIMple man, first thing is use all his resources to develop yourself, instead of frivolities.

Success is time based and requires a lot of time and years to build. if you need some form of business that will instantly / temporarily sustain you, I don't have idea on that... But if you need a skill that will sustain you or you can build a career path on it... Then let me know.

For now I comment my reserve

I would appreciate a sustainable skill

I recently ended a toxic relationship that nearly claimed my sanity. The guy insulted me and claimed that I would end up as nothing without him. I realized after a deep moment of sober reflection that I've been living off him all these while reason he treats me like thrash.

I just realized that I've got no skills and I'm almost done with school, I'm sponsored in school wholly by my mom and her business is struggling at the moment.

The essence of this post is not to get bashed or insulted, you can still do that of you want by the way. I just want advice on how to gain financial freedom and pay my bills myself. I've scouted for jobs in my locality and it's either they are offering 10k per month or some unbearable conditions would be attached.

Please I need a virtual job, or if you're a whole seller I can help market your products especially male wears or female cloths since I don't have capital to start a business for now. I just want to be self made and independent.

I'm open for verification if the need arises.

DoctorOlasDesk:



Okay. Air flow isn't bad. Check

Can we experiment ? I like to recommend you change sheets first, putting aside that for some time. I.e a month.


Ever tried Benzyl Benzoate ? I like to recommend trying it. If you mist use it. Apply to the skin, leave it to blend into the skin for like 20-25 minutes. Then have a bath. Followed by methylated powder..


In the mean time, avoid foods with red oils for the entire one month why you do all these. Let's see how it goes from there.


If external conditions are changed and the skin condition remains the same, then internally is the next thing to look into. Cause as humans our situations are always influnced by internal and external..

So should I discard the other skin lotions I'm using or should I use it together?

DoctorOlasDesk:



Does it itch?

Have you tried methylated powder ?

Does the room have one window or two ?

It doesn't itch and I haven't used the powder, the room has two windows

DoctorOlasDesk:



Lolz. Now. Firstly, the oink color of the walls absorbs heat fast and doesn't deflect the heat. Pink isn't good for bedrooms. Do your research


Pink colours and that poorly ventilated room of yours gives back the heat through the night


This all leads to moist, sweaty surfaces and the sweat is absorbed into your bed spread, then bacterial activity begins to form. When your skin, with large surface area gets exposed to these conditions, it creates the condition for bacteria to grow easily


This is just an hypothesis. But you know I am right


Next, you rub bodily lotion, in a not too ventilated area. Does it sink into your skin and not later " lathe " and becomes reactive forming bacterial activity and worsening your condition ?

Hmm so what's the solution sir, leave the room? I change my bed spreads twice a week
And there are two windows in the room and an industrial fan that's on most time, which more ventilation do I need?

DoctorOlasDesk:
The source of the problem is partly ( 20-70% ) in the background of your potrait picture.


I have posted on this several times before now. Perhaps you missed the thread I discussed on this extensively.

My bed spreads are neat sir
Please can you give me the link to the thread

I've been battling skin problems for a while now, from enzyma to rashes that goes when I use some tubes and returns once I stop. Please I need a lasting solution to this problem.

PS : I just finished rubbing some stuffs hence the white substance on my skin

Mods please help me take to front page for more contribution

Hello good people of nairaland, I have a pressing issue and I really need your help.

A couple of years back I broke up with my boyfriend whom I really loved due to distance barriers. Getting over him was difficult for me so I had to go into a relationship with one of my toasters in order to get him off my mind.

I achieved my aim after a couple of months but the current guy was unwilling to let go, I didn't love him and couldn't get myself to love him despite trying to. I know I was selfish and opened up to him but he insisted that I would warm up to him with time and grow to love him.

The relationship was far from perfect, I was in it solely for what I benefited but we weren't compatible and it was from one issue to another. We were always at logger heads all the time. He insults me and my family at any given opportunity and talks down on me using secrets I shared with him as leverage each time we quarrel. He shredded my self-esteem.

He was insecure and attacked my male friends at any given opportunity including my lecturers, he would access my social media accounts and send derogatory message to any male contact he feels is making a pass at me.
All these attitudes made me fed up with him and I decided to breakup for good.

Early this year I met a guy online and somehow we vibed together quickly, we met physically for the first time and it felt like we've known for ages. Everything moved so quickly with this new guy that I started developing serious feelings for him. I was scared because I never knew I would feel something like that again after I broke up with my other ex.

This new guy makes me happy and treats me like a woman, anytime spent with him is always memorable and I don't feel like leaving. The chemistry that we share is super strong and everything seems so perfect.

Now to my issue, this new guy is a fresh graduate and not yet stable, I don't have issues with his financial status because he made me realize a Lady can actually be happy without money being thrown at her. But I'm still scared of going all full into the relationship he might go for service and never come back to me. I don't just want a repeat of my previous relationship that got shattered after my ex relocated.

On the other hand, the other guy is hell bent on getting me back, he's been pleading and sending people to beg me even though I told him I've moved on and has even had sex with the new guy but he still wants me back.

I'm confused and don't know what to do, my heart is with the new guy but the other guy is making things so difficult for me and almost driving me insane. Can I still grow to love him?? Though I've been unable to after almost a year.

Should move on with the new guy?? I've known him for barely two months but it seems I've known him for ages, my feelings are exploding and I can hardly control them which is making me scared.

I'm sorry for the long epistle but I had to let it all out.
Please advice me.