lonelydora:

In this case, i will put my brother and that does not mean i don't love my wife. I know i am better than your hubby when it comes to loving my wife.

Heheheheheh. ItS obvious from your way of reasoning. Isn't it?

domwas2:

KAI marry someone like me? lol ☺ lol NO way, thanks ur God u got married to a mumunni!!!

Abi? Join me in thanking God for these mumuiSm that haS made uS Stay in peace and total happinesS for years.if what you diSplayed in your post here iS what you call wisdom, Keep your wisdom to your self.

passionate88: Marriage is not my thing... Most modern days marriage are scams and are filled with lies nd deceits.

Its my thing. I don't see marriage in that light and that's why I am getting the beSt out of it. I have been married for years and my testimony is: its a beauriful thing!

20pounds: You call another man maid like you are king Africans and our traditional values of inequality. This is why an egalitarian society will continue to be a mirage in this clime.

I have a maid at home too but now that you have come up with this, what can I call her (outside maid or househelp) to fit into her job specifications for me

kolawoleahmed: Jesus “not crucified”, not
“son of God” – 1,500 year-old
bible found in Turkey saysJesus “not crucified”, not
“son of God” – 1,500 year-old
bible found in Turkey saysJesus “not crucified”, not
“son of God” – 1,500 year-old
bible found in Turkey says






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*singing and dancing in total surrender to the ONE and ONLY MASTER of the universe*

Jesus Christ, the son of God...Oh,yes(x2)
Hallelluyah, He arose.............Oh, yes(x2)
Halleluya.......He arose...... My prince of peace arose
Halleluyah, He arose...........Oh, yes(x2)

*Jesus was crucified, He died, was buried but He rose up again.

Today, HE IS ALIVE FOREVER MORE!!!

I need no one to convince me. I have got the witness in me! Death couldn't stop Him, the grave couldn't hold Him back. Tell me, who or what can? NONE!!!

dnshuta: d broda shuld b offered d job, cuz age is nt on his syd nd also he'll lyk 2 b indepndnt...d wyl cn wait 4 her tym since d husbnd still provide d family nidz 4 em..

With? 60k? Hehehehehe...hahahahaha. Lol. Dats money for just breakfast. Poverty at itS peak!

Ngokafor:


...Most of you saying that he should recommend his brother are very wicked and selfish..do you guys ever think at all?..
...How can sane folks be spewing the kind of crap i have read so far?..
...so in your minds..a married man with a jobless wife with a kid,earning a measly 60k a month which we are aware is not even enough for a single adult how much more a married man,should recommend his brother for this dream job while he and his wife wallows in abject poverty?..does that honestly make sense to you all?..
...lets assume you all hate his wife,but what about his kids?...arent they more of his blood than that of his brother?,who will certainly marry and concentrate on his own family and not on some so-called 'benevolent brother?.There are countless stories of brothers turning their backs on family members who have helped them tremendously in the past so what are you talking about..
.. whose welfare should a normal married man be looking out for?..his young children or grown-ass siblings old enough to take care of themselves?...

...Like i said earlier,most of you do not know what marriage is all about..therefore the earlier you leave itfor those who do,the better for women,innocent children and the society in general.

My dear ehh, I never knew people reaSon so lowly!!! Its amaZing!

tochimajesty: You guys make me laugh, don't tempt a women with money unless u want to c d hidden characters because of d fact she is not d breadwinner. D moment she got d job, highest one year now divorce straight then another man go mary her with d 600k, then your eyes go open. Go ask my uncle he will explain better how it happened to him. I take brother cos blood s thicker than a woman's love

When I hear how some people reason, I shudder, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster

Suresh08: ur own blood should always come first.
after all they hv been managing 60k all this while

When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster

passionate88: Thank you my brother man... The way our girls think money now is frightening... Not all women will want to climb their husband's head when/if they earn higher than him but most will.

Has iS it ever occurred to you that without her hubby, the woman can Still get Such job? In that case, what doeS She do? Tell them,"oh, soryy, I have a hubby who earns less than that an I don't wanna climb hiS head?
When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster

domwas2: I'll go for my brother
Blood is thicker, my brother and I always got our back since we were kids, even though we fight we can always come to terms...
Nowaday,married women can't be trusted when they starts working in busy organisation, talkless of single ladies.

If ur friend is ready to bear all these below tell him to go for his wife:
the late night calls,
Non-affection
Honey take the kids to school
Honey I will be coming late
On-bed, dear am tire
I can't cook
Etc
Remember it's not all about money...with all of d above dirvoce will end it all!!! Then he will later fall back to the broda who got nothing. He knows d broda b4 d wife comes in, not giving it to d broda is like been selfish.
Note: it's d ladies that is saying he should go for d wife Here hmmm dn't trust women.

When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster

lonelydora: His brother, but his wife should not know about it.

When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster

phabulous88: I'll discuss the job opening with my wife first cos she's mine and we're one. If she's willing to take it, then my brother wouldn't know about the job. If she doesn't want it, then together (my wife and I), we'll present it to my bro.

May your days be longer than it would have been. You will surely have a good marital life or will have cuS you know how to build a good home.

dahmie2013: OP, his brother&his wife must never no about d fact dat he had d optn 2 pick her. First, if he doesn't pick his broda, he'll be dependent on him&dats an xtra burden. If d wife finds out, she might not take it lighty, depending on d kind of wife she is.

Dis shud be btwn dem, dey shudnt let her no.

When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster

Matttthew: Brother..... Women er not the type that understands easy.... She might even grow wings after being employed. Just forget it n take it to your brother, are you not a family man? Do u want him to cont'd being dependant on you.... He av to live his life now.... Helping is no crime.

When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster

Jman06: @Op, please and please tell your friend to recommend his BROTHER for the job. That's d wisest decision to make in this case. His wife might get the job and use her money only for her parental home while expecting her hobby to still be 'breadwinner' of the house regardless of who earns more (like we 've read many women say here on this forum), but his brother will never forget him and his family when d chips are down, considering that they have been through thick and thin together. A word is enough for the wise.

When I hear how some people reason, I tremble, cry and finally kneel down and thank my God for the kind of man am married to! What wld I have done if I married someone like this poster

alentyno: Although the importance of hard work cannot be overemphasised in any chosen profession, experts have said that studying some particular degrees will not only give you an edge in the job market, it also determines the amount of income you take home at the end of the day.

For example, in the oil and gas sector, petroleum, mechanical, chemical and electrical/electronics engineers at an entry level earn as much as N3.5m per annum, depending on the organisation.

Other high paying engineering fields include software engineers and computer engineers who employ IT skills, whether they are in the oil and gas sector or the telecommunication sector. They stand to earn as high as N400,000 per month for a start, and it could increase to about N5m to N15m per annum, depending on the years of experience.

A fresh engineering graduate in the oil and gas sector could earn between N7m and N9m per annum, which goes higher to about N12m or N15m per annum after five years of experience.

engineers in the oil and gas sectors earn the same salary, notwithstanding the area of specialisation at the entry level, until they undergo in-house training graduates with non-engineering courses like computer science, information technology, software programmers with professional certifications which include JAVA, CISCO, ORACLE and other networking skills working in the telecommunications companies would get between N200,000 and N750,000 as starters.

An Oracle specialist, database programmer, manager and software experts with five to 10 years’ working experience in a telecoms company will earn between N5m and N15m per annum.

Suffice to say, all the aformentioned top earning degrees have one thing in common ––mathematical skills.

Graduates of Economics, Accounting, Marketing as well as Banking and Finance and other business related fields working in the banking and investment sectors also get fat salaries before the recent down-sizing in the sector, a fresh graduate at the entry level in any of the new generation banks earned between N2m and N2.5m per annum.

Fresh accountants could earn fat paychecks of about N2m per annum if self-employed or working in private and multinational organisations, government still had a poor salary scale for this level of professionals.

Marketers, also known as business development officers, could earn between N50,000 and N300,000 monthly at the entry level, depending on the level of results achieved and the organisation hiring.

Medicine, law, nursing and pharmacy, which were the hot cakes in the 70‘s, 80‘s and 90‘s, were no longer paying as well as they used to be.

This is the age of the mind; the age of creativity.

It has been noted that medical doctors were poorly paid. “In fact, they are only paid living allowance when you compare them with their colleagues in engineering and telecommunication.

In government hospitals, at entry level, doctors are paid less than N1m per annum. But they could earn higher if they specialise and become consultants.

In the medical line, specialists, including obstetricians, cardiologists, gynaecologists, dentists and surgeons were the highest earners any of these specialists working in reputable hospitals like Reddington Hospital in Lagos could earn N750,000 and above monthly.

A nurse in government hospital in Nigeria earns less than N100,000 per month. Their pay could rise to N400,000 when they become matrons.

Pharmacists are not left out; most pharmaceutical companies pay fresh graduates between N500,000 and N900,000 per annum, and it could increase to N2m or N3m after about eight- or nine-year job experience.

Teaching profession is not that competitive, a teacher’s take home pay was between the range of N50,000 and N70,000 per month in some secondary schools, and could be as high as N200,000 per month in some other schools.

Journalists –– editors to be precise –– with five to 10 years experience and they offer between N40,000 and N60,000 per month.

Lawyers do not earn much. fresh lawyers could earn between N50,000 and N120,000 per month depending on the chambers or organisations they work for.

Hmmmm. People have been reading this and hailing their degrees and all that. I see just one thing in all these...Educaton doesn't pay. It is just a starting point. Salary doesn't make anyone rich. These amounts I see here that the top people earn in 1yr are less than what my father makes in his shop in 2months. He didn't even go to School and he isn't in debt. The money is solely his, made by him, owned by him. Thank God I have already planned not to practice after school, business here I come. I cnt live less than am used to living plizzz. Whaaaaaat?

pembisco: if ur mind went to our drs b4 opnin dis threath clik like. They mst be disapnted im sure cos they tink money revolvs around hospital. Ther der nah

Can't you see how hard it is for them to agree that there are miilions of people who earn better than they do? They don't still understand that the respect for hospital works lie in the nobility of the field not in the earnings , little wonder they want to kill each other with Strike.

koastar: Good day all, pls I need your advice on this issue.

A friend asked me this and I don't know what to tell him. According to him he was asked to present someone that read chemical engineering in an oil company by a close friend of his who works there.

My friend is an accountant and presently earns 60k per month where he works. He has a wife who is not working and a kid.

His wife is a chemical engineer by training and his only brother is also unemployed who read chemical engineering as well. His brother has been living with them for 2yrs now after his NYSC without job. My friend and his brother lost their parents while they were still very young and they are the only children of their parents.

My friend is now confused who to present to his friend for the job, his wife or brother. Your advice pls.

The salary for the oil job is 600k per month excluding allowances.

When people ask questions, it becomes clearer to me that people don't know the real meaning of marriage. People don't know how intent and high what exists between hubby and wife is.

If that friend who is confused is a chemical engineer and doesn't have a job, who will he present between himself and his brother? Himself? Or his brother?

If the answer is his brother, that means he loves his brother more than himself and should go ahead and present his brother even in this scenario but if his answer is himself, then why ask this question? What's the difference between him and his wife?

In everything a man does in life, his wife(not girlfriend, not mother, not children) comes first and same goes for women too. If people understand this. Making choices will be easier. Your wife is you and you are your wife. If you want the best for you, it means you want the best for your wife. If the choice is between you and your wife, then sacrifice for her( the bible likens your relationship with her to that of Jesus Christ and us, the church)

Again, you are doing a job of 60k? don't you think your wife needs that 600k job for you people to have a better life(please don't even mention that she will not respect you again if she earns more than you cus that's the thoughts of myopic, mediocre and inferior men)? Am sure your wife has been managing with you because 60k is small for a family man in the world today!

If your brother is the one in your shoes will he pick you or pick his wife? If after you give the job to your brother and you lose yours by chance, will your brother surely carter for your home? Will your wife ever forgive you?

Oga, please, without thinking twice, give your wife the job, let your brother understand politely that between him and your wife, the choice has been made by God Himself. Another opportunity will come for him. Thank you!


Note: you may politely talk to your wife and see if she agrees so you guys will save sth out of her salary over time to set your brother up. This isn't a condition. Pamper her to agree. Any good woman will accept to help her brother-in-law.

oduastates: Why can't some people use their brains.
Why is adeboye not going to borno to hold his crusade?
There is no God.if at all there is one ,then that God is the God of Ife and the Yorubas and not the god of intolerant places like Mecca , medina and Israel .

This is for you, read and please feel very free to insult me. It is most welcome...


Psalm 14v1...  THE [empty-headed] fool has said in his heart, There is no God.


1Timothy 2v5 : For there [is only] one God, and [only] one Mediator between God and men, the Man Christ Jesus, 6  Who gave Himself as a ransom for all [people, a fact that was] attested to at the right and proper time.

Acts 4:12 Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

Some day you will have reasons to understand this and yield yourself to the only ONE who saves!

snowpe: l appreciate all the advice given,it makes me strong and opens my eyes more to understand something s which I didn't.by God's grace I will never cheat on her.

Pliz dear, you don't need God's grace not to cheat. GoD's grace is alreaDy sufficient for us. I mean, Jesus has died and resurrecteD already, He won't die again! What you need is self-control and discipline. God has made us free moral agents, He has placed before us right and wrong. We know the difference between the two and He has given us the liberty to choose whichever one pleases us, at our expense though!

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No matter how healthy, wealthy, happy etc you are, if you don't have Jesus Christ in your life, you cannot say you have a perfect life!

Jesus is our rest and until you find rest in Him, you will be feeling the worst kind of imperfection in life which is "imperfection and restlessness of ur soul and ur spirit"...

Perfection starts and ends in Jesus...read Ephesians 4 :from verse 10 to the end ......to be continue

I work with ladies but I decided to see them as my sisters, so anytime my Ben Thomas wants to react I just tell it to sit down that that's his sister.



Good one you controlled yourself but is that how much ben thomases react? Na wa ooo