yomi007k:



Then do just that.....do u think people really give a damn?

Stop living to please ppl, u wil never be happy if u do dt.

yomi007k:



U are very normal.


Welcome to Africa, the land of hypocrisy.

jiggaz:
My brother sister, i understand you perfectly well.... You see, that is the problem with religion in Nigeria. It is a shame that Christians have turned Christianity into a religion and that is not what Christ made it to be.

I know the kind of Church you are looking for, but i don't think you will find it in Nigeria. You cannot find a 100% Grace-based church in Nigeria. Just find one that still teaches Christ and attend.

I left my former church becos of this same issue of Self Righteousness, Being Judgemental & Hypocrisy...

Read this article, it addressed your situation, you will love it.


https://www.nairaland.com/2601230/jesus-measure-righteousness-joseph-prince


Go through my posts and read them also, it will set you free!!

brandonobi:
good, be urself and don't do something bcus others are doing it, don't even feel guilty bout not to church cus if shows that ure not blinded by wat people force themselves to see. just like u said religion should be between u and God.

valariz:
Bro Sis Mari, i feel 4 u bro sis cuz i've been der. d tin is people wen in dia strongest moments tends 2 b judgmental, 4getin dat der err also in oda ways. just find a bible living church and give ur lyf 2 CHRIST JESUS totaly focus on HIM alone bro. dere is no depths of sin HE canot 4give. com as u r- as nobody, non entity, dirty, unclean, rejected, unloved, un4givable... as u r. u wil b amazed of HIS Love 4 ur u, ur lyf n all dat concerns u bro. n pls 4get dos who judge u as if dey r d most righteous one.

njiasi30:
Op, why d insult? Learn to control ur anger dear, dis is a faceless forum. Ppl re entitled to dere own opinion, u posted ur story online don't expect all d comments to b in ur favour. Take d relevant one's and ignore others, if u must reply dem just b nice even if dey insulted u. U ve 2 wk on it 2 keep d comments flowing in, at least it will ease u a bit.

Titilayooni:
Babe!! Give it time,it will surely heal..I have the same personality as you but when it happened,I tried everything to let it go even going to d beach to scream out my tears but U can't really move on if u don't start by deleting every detail about him. Anything u can see that reminds u of him, that was the 1st step to my moving on..Today am much much better,ready to let someone else cause LOVE can be so hurtful but it still remains the most beautiful thing. Wish u luck dear

missiamme:
That was the statement " I want us to break up things are not okay for me now" that was after 3 years oo.....
OP you just have to let go pls, stop brooding over it or hoping he will come back so as not to waste your time( I'm talking from experience) . May God heal your heart

modestofynest:
U should be happy, since he has not shined ur kitty cat and dump u go find another dude that will love u and u u don't know where to get them am available to shine ur kitty cat till it will need no shining for a long time to come

FreeSpirited:
All you need is sex. start having a good mind blowing sex. Find guys that are attractive to you..let them pound you till your brain is formatted, i am sure your feelings will shift away from him. Thank you. If you doubt this.......then why do ladies go cold toward their boyfriends after being pounded hard by a cheat?

VolT0xic:
Have you tried talking to him?

I believe if you sit and talk with him, get good explanation on why he call things off, you'll find it easier to let him go.