I think you know what to do. You are only holding on to the relationship cause you feel you've spent and given a lot. The fear of starting over/being lonely also comes to mind. Bro, it's best you move on. It's true you can never be ready or sure when it comes to marriage, but then, i believe marriage is something no one should take illusional chances on. Marriage no be 2 years vacation bro, its meant to be a lifetime commitment. Count your losses & move on.. she's just one out of 4 billion women of which a vast percentage are single. You'll be fine..

cyeln:
Do you want to apply for undergraduate or post graduate?

Sorry i left that out. Undergraduate..

Good day everyone, I've been a follower of this thread for a while now, i must say congratulations to those who were approved. To those still believing & aspiring, keep the faith. I feel there are more experienced people here , so i'll like to ask, I'll 30 in a couple of months with just a waec cert & some digital skills & doing fine to the glory of God, so I want to ask, what are my chances if i apply?? If there's anything you can suggest i do to help increase my chances, please feel free. Thanks..

optm:
thanks i really appreciate this. So good finding this out

U welcome..

optm:
i ll like to get the link to the pineapple research if you do not mind sharing. I am yet to come across such . well, to the best of my knowledge, the corneal abrasion you had in time past do not have anything to do with the pressure difference you are having

Ok thanks, I'll do the pachymetry test as advised. I came across the research some time back on google and decided to check out the youtube page of Dr. Joseph Allen to see if he did a video on the research (Youtube page - eye doctor health). From my observation, majority of those who did as instructed with natural pineapple as bromalein source instead of bromalein capsules came back with testimonies on his page, weeks & for some, months later. By God's grace, my floaters are a lot more manageable.
You can check him out..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SoMPJWhsb2U

optm:
well, depending on what internal examination reveals; nevertheless such results calls for further investigation. Pressure difference more that 2mnhg between both eyes calls for more tests as it could be indicative of glaucoma but not in all cases as the pressure difference could be due to differences in thickness of your cornea. a pachymetry test should be done . Did you discuss the floaters with your Dr? What were his observations?

I did and he said my eyes were fine but that the 23mmhg pressure was on the borderline and thus said i should see him in a month after which if it doesn't improve, he'll place me on meds. I did have cornea abrasion in my left eye late last year.. not sure but i think i lost some, if not all of my cornea as a result, though i have no issue of itching, pain unlike my right (unaffected) eye. Just about 2 or 3 dot like floaters in my left eye but my right eye has a small thread floater which drifts across my field of vision sometimes. Heard about a pineapple research for floaters which was conducted by a vietnamese institute which showed +ve results. I have been on it for a while now after seeing the testimonies online & my floaters are a lot more transparent like they are vanishing/lightening. Just want to get your input on it and also, can the pressure difference be as a result of the cornea abrasion i had??

optm:
a posterior blepharitis /MGD/ dry eye might be the cause of those symptoms you are having but you ll need to be examined to rule out other possible causes. AS regards the floaters you are having, i ll like to know your age if you do not mind

Am 30. I visited the hospital today had blood sugar test, some eye checks & i was certified ok. Just that my eye pressure test came out as 16 & 23. He took his time to advice that i should always have my glasses on, i hardly use it & even went without it to the hospital. Placed me on some drugs for the eye irritation (vitamin c & lorataine). I could only lay my hands on loratyn-10. He also said i should come back in a month so I'll have another eye pressure test to ascertain his next line of action. What do u think doc?? Is 16 & 23 dangerous?

optm:
alot of people do make this statement. Well, it just that you got used to seeing clearly and now seeing things without glasses have become strange (blur ). your vision aint worsening

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Of all the individuals vying for the office of the president come 2023, osinbajo fits more.. hearty, energetic, intelligent and seems a lot more vision driven than everyone else. Voting for tinubu is just nigerians recycling back buhari. His comments on young nigerians joining the army and eating corn pinpoints the fact that he has no clue on how to resolve the challenges faced and the fact that he lacks empathy. Will he allow his kids to go through that?. We haven't even spoken of his health. Seeing comments of people supporting tinubu's presidential bid when there are other hale, passionate & intelligent candidates like osinbajo, makinde, zullum, obi ekwesili, and donald duke is surprising and shows we haven't learnt our lesson. No doubt he paid his dues in lagos state, nigeria is currently in economic woes, different from his time & age has started telling on him. If you are unhappy about the current trajectory of nigeria, whatever legal means you can exploit to leave this country, please take it, cause come 2023 don't be surprised to see tinubu instated as president. Its almost like lots of nigerians love suffering & dont want better future for their kids. They just never learn..

Complement of the season to you doc..
Happy new year everyone..
I once complained about a gritty feeling in my eye & streaks of light from street lights, of which u adviced i visit an optician. I did and was diagnosed of astigmatism & myopia. I was also given tears natural drops. The gritty feeling went away but recently, it started again on one eye (edge of the eye close to the nose is peppery and sometimes inside my top eyelid feels grity in same eye only) despite applying the tears drop. I also recently developed eye floaters in both eyes.. What do you advice i do? For financial reasons, which is usually better between navy and general hospital?? Thanks

optm:
the best advice i can give you is that you go for an eye check . Something bad you aint aware of may be developing. Sometimes it takes a while for the aftermath effects of trauma to the eyes to be noticed. Please do visit an eye clinic

Thanks a lot for your prompt response.
I will...

Hello doc, good morning. I had a fight with someone about 6 weeks ago which i had a bruised left eye from. A week after, i started experiencing gritty / sand like feeling in my left eye, pain when exposed to bright lights, red eye and blurry vision, all on that particular eye. I visited a reputable pharmacy and was given eye drops (allerex & diclofenac), fleming, vitamin c and multivitamin (visionace). After a month of usage, my bruised eye feels fine and the blurry vision is almost gone. But i noticed for a week now, i started seeing single streak/ray of light from street lights at night on my other unaffected eye.. what could be the problem?? It doesn't hurt though i feel like my eyes are a little dry when i wake up most times. Thanks