I know most of you won't take this seriously.

I'm a male, and I'm also very different from all of you. I also have other problems that go beyond the scope of this topic/thread or at the very least do not contribute to my getting better. Ie, that I have other problems which do cause problems but the root is definitely involuntary celibacy and extreme isolation. It causes most of my problems and contributes to most of my problems.

Don't talk to me if you're already healthy, and think this is an easy thing to overcome when you yourself are already healthy from the start and mentally healthy or perhaps never experienced ill health due to involuntary celibacy and isolation.

Unless of course you have something positive to say. And positive means helpful.

This is only for those who can understand that I'm already at the extreme depths of unhealthiness caused by the following.

I've been an involuntary celibate for a very long time. My whole life in fact, and I'm 23 years old. i've also been extremely lonely for a very long time.

I feel it has led to major depression and mental ill as well as physical ill.

I dont want to go to a psychiatrist that doesn't treat me for the root of my problem, first off. And second off the majority of the psychiatric drugs mess you up if taken in the long run.

You have to understand it's very hard for me to do normal things due to this depression and lack of self esteem that simply does not go away no matter how hard I tried.

It blocks all sort of avenues and opportunity to get better, especially in regards to getting intimacy, and away from isolation.

Is there anything a person like me can do?

Going to the gym and exercising doesn't help, although I still do it but I oftentimes lack motivation. But this is besides the point. It doesn't treat my illness.

My illness can only be treated by getting that which I need.

But that illness keeps me from getting what I need, and it's not simply dependent on myself (ie others have to accept who I am).