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Family / Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by may10: 10:57pm On May 05, 2020 |
noakchukibadan: Hello, I have no doubt that your wife is the one from Ekiti State
Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.
I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage. Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE
There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.
She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.
OTHER INFORMATION. 1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay. 2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life. 3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. . 4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her. 5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.
So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.
Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.
I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.
I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.
This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.
I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago. |
Politics / Re: Abba Kyari: Was Kemi Olunloyo Right About Death In Aso Rock? by may10: 9:52am On Apr 18, 2020 |
Provost01: Oga if he was truly dead then, there wont be any wisdom behind concealing the news,again remember he is a muslim,muslims bury their dead immediately. the man just died this night.pray for him if you can instead of all this post that isn't adding up.life goes on. Why you dey talk like this @ Provost 01 ? No be Naija wey Dey? Anything and everything can happen! 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Female Receptionist Urgently Needed by may10: 7:25pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
A new car sale outfit in Lagos requires for immediate employment a Female Receptionist.
Requirement:
1. Minimum of OND in any field.
2. Candidate must be physically attractive and presentable.
3. Candidate must be smart and have good writing and communication skills.
Method of application:
Candidate should send CV with FULL SIZE PHOTOGRAPH to ABODETUNDE@GMAIL.COM |
Jobs/Vacancies / Business Development Executive At A Car Sale Firm by may10: 8:23am On Nov 23, 2017 |
A new car sale outfit in Lagos requires for immediate employment a female Business Development Executive.
Requirement:
1. Minimum of OND in any field.
2. Candidate must be physically attractive and presentable.
3. Candidate must be smart and have good writing and communication skills.
Method of application:
Candidate should send CV with FULL SIZE PHOTOGRAPH to ABODETUNDE@GMAIL.COM |
Jobs/Vacancies / Vacancy! Vacancy!! Vacancy!!! Female Secretary Needed Urgently by may10: 8:57pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
A new Construction company which specializes in providing good quality and cost effective services in Building & Civil Engineering, Engineering Design,Real estate development and Construction management is recruiting to fill the vacant position below urgently:
Job Title: Secretary
Location: Lagos
Job Description:
1.Set up and maintain paper and electronic filing systems for records, correspondence, and other material.
2. Answer telephones and give information to callers, take messages, or transfer calls to appropriate individuals.
3. Compose, type, and distribute meeting notes, routine correspondence, and reports.
4. Meet visitors and callers, handle their inquiries, and direct them to the appropriate persons according to their needs.
5. Attend meetings with the MD.
Qualification:
1.Minimum of HND or B.Sc in Secretarial Studies or any other relevant discipline.
2. Minimum of 1-3 years relevant experience in similar position.
3. Candidate must possess good communication skills.
4. Candidate must be good looking (As She is going to be the first point of call for Clients).
5. Candidate must be computer literate.
6. Ability to drive will be an added advantage.
7. Candidate must not be more than 27 years of age by December 2017.
Remuneration: Very attractive.
Application Closing Date 30th June, 2017.
Method of Application:
Interested and qualified candidates should send their application and CVs with their FULL SIZE PHOTOGRAPH and HEIGHT stated in their personal data to: abodetunde@gmail.com |