I hate the fact some American White Women are on here are bashing there Nigerian Men that didn't work out. I am an American White Woman also. I am going to say this straight up you have a lack of understanding of Men because any man can dog you out. I have been with an Nigerian Man who I love and yes he says love you not to just fake the funk to get a green card. A man is going to be a man just like a lady is going to be a lady so before any one points that Nigerian Men are bad just understand not one race or sex can be perfect.