Barrister026:
Hello all,

This is difficult situation for me, my mom's house has been left uncompleted since 2014 just the foundation and probably 2couch were placed ontop since then it's been there because she had to send my siblings and I to higher institution. Now am of age, doing quite well for myself. I think am finally ready to build a house, was thinking about getting a land 100 by 50 and raise 5 bedroom flats... but on the other hand that my mom's building had been left uncompleted since it's a family land, relatives are starting to say somethings and sometimes I could see the shame on my mom's face when she goes to her family compound. Almost every months they always call her to come clear it that it has become harbor for snakes and pests. So I thought why don't I just complete it for her first.


The issue here Is immediately I told my fiancee she said it's a good idea but kicked against it. That I should build mine first, before completing my mom's. That it can wait.

I also confided in a friend of mine, he said almost same thing, that my thing is different from our own. Saying am not the only one my mom gave birth to, if I complete it now I should be ready to share it with my siblings no matter what when the time comes.

I'm confused and need advice on the step to take. I would really want to complete that house for my mom I Know it would mean a lot to her..I'm really confused.

One way or the other somebody has to develop it, if I the first son don't do it now that am financially stable. Then my younger bro will do it, trust me it won't make sense that way that's just my fear.

alsudan:
Live and let live. Ones sexuality should never be a problem to another.

Those guys didn’t create themselves that way to be attracted to same sex.

Krss216:

And no be human being make the law according to their best understanding?

od501:


Forget all these rubbish these are saying. They know exactly who is sponsoring these guys. Unknown Gunmen are not Unknown. They are government sponsored thugs.

Microsports:
after all this stress and work to keep simple promises go hard them...may the best man win
I have a Lenovo laptop for sale(8gb 500hdd core i7 good ba3 life,very neat,price is 120k location is owerri

OfficialAwol:
Check well, you would realize that the man's probable crime is being a 'no nonsense' man.

Won't allow them come to work late.

Won't allow them embezzle money.

And other wuruwuru.

Nigerians don't like good people.

klas:
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Offer opens 1st December, closes 14th December

Minimum subscription is 20 shares and additional in multiples of 20.

There will be a bonus of 1 share for every 20 purchased, subject to maximum of 250 bonus shares provided you retain your purchased shares for one full year before selling.

Irijosa777:
I'm the last born in the family, all the members of the family had gotten married except me.
I'm 32 now, just rounded up my study. I'm into farming, school works and doing catering work as well. I'm financially balance. I have not gone into a relationship before, I just ignore that aspect because I believe in the principle of "one thing at a time".

Now that I'm through with my study and I have something doing, I'm planning of going into a relationship and get married at least by 2023 but I'm perceiving there's going to be a problem between me and my family.

My family is very selective, very selective... There was a time a friend started visiting me anytime I went to the village, my mother notice it and told me that the girl is not welcome in the family, she gave me her reason too, I told my Mom she is just a friend and nothing more.

Today my neice got married, I invited my crush and she came to the wedding and I introduced her to my family as my friend, when the ceremony was going on, my sister told me and I quote "this girl you brought is not acceptable, she is too old for you, "common" she is just 27 and am 32... I told my sister that we are just friends and nothing more, then she said better...

I don't want to have any issue with my family in marring a girl but I'm afriad problem might be inevitable because I won't want my family to choose who or who not to marry, I have never had issue with my family before, they love me very much and we are living happily.

One mind is telling me to follow my heart another mind is telling me don't let a woman bring issue between you and your family...
Gosh! family get wahala! What is wrong in marring a girl of 27 years and I'm 32. (5years different)

I'm not ready for any family wahala...
Please how do you handle this kind of issue.

louqas:
I wish them sucess

Thousands more in our medical schools to replace them

They wont be missed

Itidicious:
I need your advise seriously,i am an under graduate and i am so passionate about furthering my education.

After reading more on the internet i noticed that medicine and surgery is stressful and needs a lot of serious dedication to succeed, from my finding you can be expelled if you fail twice or when you are not able to meet up to the expected standard.i need to be careful because i don't just want to make a wrong decision in my life since am the one sponsoring myself..

I really needs to be sincere,for work i am a cryptocurrency trader ,i don't read chart but have join a v.i.p signal group,i make 50 k Monthly with trading ,i am also learning other digital skill ,i am also an electrician but i don't concentrate so much in that ,i only make small money with it to gather for my basic needs. I have 200 k in my account for a start.. for accommodation i live with my Aunt.

I have free accommodation,food and enough time,

please with all this is it possible to concentrate and succeed if i decide to go for medicine and surgery ? Your advice will be highly appreciated.

Itzajiboy:


I knew of the card limitations but as a lover information, I was too curious and fell for his chicken smartness...

Na me 4k up sha

stealmatic:
u and rigteousness99 abi 89 needs to be banned,any smal tin na preachin abeg dnt mk d forum borin 4us o,seun i hope u are noticin d trend on nairaland,dey shld mv der ass to d religion section,abi kilode

Climax07:
I think Nigerians should stop been myopic in their thinking, we know these institutions are far behind on their curriculum but we should look at the bigger picture. How many tertiary institutions can fully comply with NCDC guidelines? hostels in those institutions with population how can they maintain social distancing? hence it is important institutions remain closed until COVID-19 is dealt with

etokhana:
https://www.independent.ng/zoning-advocates-are-pursuing-selfish-interests-olu-falae/

ItzKennybest67:
rotating same people

PrimeWatermark:
This country is a mess. A time bomb waiting to explode!

Dispatch Riders, don't forget to send a text to the number in my signature.

vibesdot001:
Bosses/Great minds.. Kindly advice/assist me with a good buy of below $100 for trading and penny stock that can be invested in for at least 6 months Thanks

Amotolongbo:


https://thenationonlineng.net/fg-reduces-fees-for-statutory-marriage-in-nigeria/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

freshkpomo:
A relation just showed this to me. It's her course mate (Class Rep). My greatest fear just happened, cos some time ago I got this feeling that not all students that went home for the lockdown will return and this just happened.

Such a promising young man.

RIP.. May God grant those you left behind the strength to carry on.

Together we can make Nigeria better

Say no to old leaders.

God bless Nigeria.

Realist5:
Let me go out and face the sky to see if any plane fly our roof, then I will believe or else I won't believe. This government can deny anything.