Family / Re: Dog: I Have The Most Unlikely Rival In My Boyfriends House by medriano: 4:57pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
turmacs: My boyfriends dog
We recently started dating about three months ago. I've visited his house quite a lot but his dog still doesn't like me. I expected after spending that long time with the dog, she would have gotten used to me but no, that dog still holds resentments towards me.
Anytime I come over, it starts barking uncontrollably. We can't even get intimate with peace of mind, it keeps barking at the doorstep while we are having sex in his room.
Until we're done and he (my boyfriend) goes out to attend to her. The dog does not allow me go near him anytime it's around always sitting next to him and growling anytime I'm close by.
I've suggested to him to kill the dog or sell it so i can have peace of mind but he said he loves the dog so much that the dog was his girlfriend before I came into his life as he had not been in any relationship before(I'm his first girl)...
I don't know what to do and I don't want to say I'm beginning to get tired of the relationship but I'm not happy. Had it been the kind of dog self was all this parlour dog or small dogs, I wouldn't have been complaining, but it's all this very big dogs. I think he said the specie is a boa bull or something...
Please I need advice... You sure you are “clean” spiritually? For you to even suggest killing the dog says a lot about you. |
Crime / Re: Fulani Herdsmen Attacked My Friend's Father In Ogun (Graphic Photos) by medriano: 11:03pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
You can imagine the pain this man is going through. Thank God he is alive and I wish him quick recovery. This is how we are going to be living in this country with beasts? I’m so tired of this country. As if we haven’t had enough already, some people still opened their eyes and voted for nonsense. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why I Chose To Distance Myself From A Sibling by medriano: 10:33pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Jacksparrow7:
What can be the problem: Case 1: Your sister survival instinct kicked years ago, but the family pretended to see nothing especially parents. Case 2: The family has an issues she hate.
Please solve the issue, every issue have a good calm solution Very funny comment wey nor make sense. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: Why I Chose To Distance Myself From A Sibling by medriano: 10:31pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
CosmicDust: Here is my story....
I have a 3 siblings and I am at odds with my eldest who is a lady. The way it is, I may never have a conversation with her again.
She was the first person to be invested in by my parents after which I came. Luckily enough, she was able to strike gold in her career and do well for herself. She went abroad for her masters with my parents supporting with half-payment. Unfortunately, whenever it came to family demands and helping the other younger siblings, she has either been negligent or grudgingly does so.
Few years after going abroad, she decided to lockup and sends only 40k home which is supposed to cater for food for a month. Now parents are retired, the whole family weight falls on my following sibling and I. The youngest one education is on me. Happy she will finish soon. Parents need to be supported in challenging times, one is coping with diabetes and the other is with some challenging issues I can't say here. Their savings are being sapped by their needs to keep living on.
But my so-called elder sister based in Canada despite knowing their condition is silent. She still sends her peanuts, while I and my younger brother who is an upcoming fashion designer do 2X what she does. This aches our parents and sometimes makes our mother cry and our father rant with regret.
A time now came, our mum got admitted in the hospital. Condition was so salient that she had to be hospitalized for weeks. Hospital bill was 450k. The Canada-based first born doing a good job, who was always talking to her, praying with her on phone, etc only sent 100k. We the others did the rest. Glad mum is back at home but her heart is broken and has refused to talk with her. She's been in Canada for 5 years and has refused to even support any of her siblings to come abroad too. My other siblings say because we all refuse to be dictated to by her is the reason for her behaviour. I don't care. Mine is that if you know that you are going to be useless to a family, let your parents know before hand so the money used in training/feeding you can be used for farming business which will despite bad weather bring returns than on a child who feels is not obligated to support the parents who supported you all through. Such a disgrace. Imagine wasting funds on an inconsiderate child. As the first, she’s expected to live up to her responsibilities. Well, you and your other siblings try your best to take care of your parents. Please console your parents and let them know y’all will be there for them. May God bless them with good health and they’ll live to reap the fruits they’ve sown. God bless you guys. 4 Likes |
Health / Re: Help! Dark Spot Won't Leave My Face Despite Using Many Antibacterials Cream. by medriano: 6:13pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
I Ehinjuola: Hello NLders.....
I have this issue I'm dealing with which seems to be taking ages now.
There are these stubborn black spots in my face which refuse to go after using different antibacterial creams yet the spots are still much visible, will have to wait till dark before I go out.
Help! , its really killing me slowly as well as demoralized me. Even my confidence is no more there as I typed this.
In between I'm oily skin person. You are bleaching, that’s why you have those dark spots. |
Politics / Re: Profile Of Alex Otti, Abia Governor-Elect by medriano: 6:33am On Mar 23, 2023 |
G SoftP: & what’s so special about Alex Otti’s profile ? Let him get to work & stop making unnecessary noise…
Soludo who’s acting like a lunatic today had a better profile…
Let’s see your profile, lmao. You want to beat his profile, you better wake up and start your journey. |
Politics / Re: Profile Of Alex Otti, Abia Governor-Elect by medriano: 6:31am On Mar 23, 2023 |
[quote author=yarimo post=121985733]Mteeeew labour party rig ABIA state election, INEC must cancel ENUGU and ABIA state governorship and assembly election immediately [/quote
Take this bowl and cry a river into it, you will be fine. I have strong pain reliever if you care for it. |
Politics / Re: It’s My Turn To Be Senate President - Orji Uzor Kalu Declares by medriano: 12:50pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
I yarimo: Mr kalu Senate president is too big for south east for now I’m not Igbo but the way some of you are going with this tribalistic mindset, I feel sorry for you honestly. Bunch of miserable trolls that have nothing going on for them other than being irrelevant on NL. |
Politics / Re: How Eze Chinedu Mozie Was Attacked, Injured In Lagos On Orders Of Oba Afeez by medriano: 12:12pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: In my opinion I don’t think thread like this should be posted on this forum, you know it’ll trigger a lot of things. It’s time to preach peaceful coexistence, elections are over let us move on and hope for a better Nigeria with Asiwaju. Be mindful of your posts in this delicate period, opposition are already embracing peace gradually. Why shouldn’t it be posted? Now it’s time to expose the corrupt ones, you say it shouldn’t be posted in this forum. Some of you are so bias, it’s sickening. 2 Likes |
Career / Re: Lagos Workers Get 20% Salary Increase, LASG To Implement From January 2023 by medriano: 10:15am On Mar 21, 2023 |
willibounce1: He should also ensure all civil servants a d yorubas only. Those who want ellu p should go to their various states to enjoy salary increment. Tribalistic maggot. |
Politics / Re: David Hundeyin: I'm Happy You Showed Your Yoruba Ethnoracialist Asses For Tinubu by medriano: 7:56am On Mar 21, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe:
A thug that has more integrity than you're entire family combined. Next time don't heat up the polity by disrespecting people, their heritage and land. Family is off limits. No sensible and well bred human being would insult another’s family. Oh well, that’s how some of you here behave, your background is questionable. |
Politics / Re: British Envoy Makes U-turn On Binani’s ‘guber Victory’ In Adamawa, Deletes Tweet by medriano: 1:10pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
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Politics / Re: David Hundeyin: I'm Happy You Showed Your Yoruba Ethnoracialist Asses For Tinubu by medriano: 1:05pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
utenwuson: Sanwo Olu thinks gentlemanly will win him the election.... We said oga go n sit down, we will flog any bastarddd that is from any other state coming to vote against you..... The way I flog one actress for neck for Ikeja, I begin pity her... See shout, she's from calabar Shame on you. You think you’ll be given an appointment? All these dregs of society trying to act useful. You are a tug and that’s what what you’ll be forever. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: "Stay At Home If You Won’t Vote APC" – MC Oluomo Warns Igbos In Lagos State by medriano: 9:39pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
LeoDeKing: Desires are good.
Infact, tall dreams are also good.
But the height of delusion is when shinedu is dreaming to be an elected governor of Lagos State. Are you sure you are well? 10 Likes |
Politics / Re: Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour Celebrates His 40th Birthday by medriano: 11:17am On Mar 09, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: Now now his birthday don reach lmao . All the same hbd llnp to him He should not celebrate his birthday again?some of you are really funny. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by medriano: 12:57am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Slime7: Hi guys, I need your advice on this. It is causing issues in my 2 years relationship. I came to Lagos in 2018 after my NYSC. Prior to that, I had plans for my older sister to come stay with me, considering how difficult things were. Note that my married eldest brother was in Lagos before then. I understand that maybe he needs his privacy, but he didn't help in any way (he didn't have to). When I got the apartment, I met my girlfriend while she was serving in Lagos. My older sister has yet to move in with me, but I have mentioned to her not once but twice that she will soon come and live with me. I will also like to mention that my elder sister was living with her boyfriend before I came to Lagos. This doesn't seem right to me or to her. She moved in, and we were living together peacefully. Along the way, she broke up with her boyfriend. About 6 months later, she got into another relationship. The man seems interested in marrying her. And they were making plans for settling down. Unfortunately, she got pregnant out of wedlock for the man. She had to move in with the man. Now this is where the issues begin. After a few months (after her childbirth), they always have issues. They go on and off. Two times they had issues; she carried her bag and came to my place. Two times it happened, and she stayed with me for not more than two months put together. This didn't go well with my girlfriend. She complained that my sister is always in the picture, and she doesn't like that. The third time, the man abused my sister, and he beat her up. I went to the man's house with my "married eldest brother." We fought with the man and threatened to arrest him. He pleaded, plus the neighbors and the landlord too. That night, we took my sister away from him. My sister chose to stay at my place until she gets an apartment for herself and her kid.
This really annoyed my girlfriend. She always says things like, "My family does not respect me." That's why my sister can move in to my house knowing that I am in a relationship. "Why does she like to stay with me and not my brother?" "Why do I have to always be the one to bear the burden?" Note that my sister works, and she can take care of herself and her kid. She just needed a place to stay until she got her own apartment.
She feared that my sister could just move in with her bags when we get married, which I have assured her is not possible. She claims she likes her space and all. She claims she doesn't like the "on and off" as sometimes she may want to spend a "lone" time with me. Spend weekends... and this won't be possible when my sister is around. She claims that she has never seen a scenario where an older sister with a kid is leaving with younger brother. She always give instances where she has never seen guys in relationships allow their older sister to come stay with them. She claimed that sometimes I should "man up" and say NO to her. Is she overreacting? What did I do wrong in all of this? Am I being manipulated? Is her anger justified? N.B My sister has gotten a place for herself and has moved out. That girlfriend of yours is sick in the head. What right has she to decide who stays with you? Imagine an outsider dictating to you how you should treat your own blood. These are the signs we always ask people to look out for. Your gf is not a good person, dump her now before she turns you against your family. She is bad news. |
Family / Re: Every Woman Needs A Husband Like This (photo) by medriano: 8:45pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
siofra:
This is what a man should be like. He must protect his family and stand by his wife no matter what, like Joseph in the Bible did to Mary when she became pregnant.
A true christian man I stan! How can you even compare both? Mary was conceived of the Holy Spirit. There’s nowhere in the Bible it said Mary slept around with different men. This woman here slept with different male colleagues of hers and got sacked which is very shameful. Wether her hubby sticks with her or not, it doesn’t change the fact she’s lose and a bad example to younger girls. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend To Save In My Bank? by medriano: 10:02pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
Banilla: I'm not spending his money! Read the post. One of us has to hold it. We can't open a joint account, too far away to do so.
So what matters is who. And I'm better suited Lmao. Go make your money and save. |
Health / Re: Dr Uyi Iluobe Killed By His Patient's Relatives In Delta Hospital. NMA Cries Out by medriano: 3:40pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
Oh my God!!!! I know him o. He finished from AAU Kai. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by medriano: 3:31pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
after4: It's either this story if fake or you are the fool they said you are.
That girl does not like you.
So you don't know that her even talking about you opening a shop for your mother is very disrespectful
Abeg give her you ATM pin and BVN number
Something is wrong with the guy, he just doesn’t know it yet.
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Romance / Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by medriano: 3:30pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
Lade18:
She actually like me. She's just not sure of how committed I am yet. Which I have tried to show her. But she's not convinced She actually likes you? lol Now I see why she treats you that way. for the fact you are taking care of her daughter, she should be grateful. And then trying to compete with your mum? That’s going extreme. Don’t you think if you marry this woman, that will be your doom? Better call off that relationship before you lose yourself. |
Crime / Re: Mysterious Fire Kills Two Siblings In Akwa Ibom by medriano: 9:04pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Can you just stop with the bad news? Today of all days you are messing up people’s minds. Gtfo with your bad news. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Happy New Year 2023 Nairalanders by medriano: 12:28am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Happy new year � |
Crime / Re: Bolanle Raheem: NBA Demands ₦5 Billion For Slain Lawyer’s Family by medriano: 3:37pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Too early to be making such demands please. |
Romance / Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by medriano: 11:58am On Dec 19, 2022 |
Lmao. Some girls are just useless. In all, make sure you never have anything to do with her. Even if your whole villages people come around to beg you, don’t accept her. Can’t you see she’s not straight forward? Abi na cos she never arrange to kidnap you? As for the threats, don’t take it lightly. If you know your way, get a genuine pastor and tell him everything. He’ll guide you on what to do. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend And Her Careless Attitudes by medriano: 8:24pm On Dec 10, 2022 |
aisha1314:
What she's done by asking you for money for Christmas after you've just lost your dad is not right at all. It shows selfishness and callousness on her part and that's not a good sign. You should consider this to be a major red flag. I think you need to have a serious conversation with her about this and tell her that you don't approve of her behavior. If she sees the wrong in what she's done and she apologies sincerely then you can let it go. But if she just acts like she did nothing wrong the you should think about ending the relationship. I can't imagine asking someone for money immediately after they've just lost a family member. Some of you are enablers o. Serious conversation indeed. Abeg he should free the girl. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend And Her Careless Attitudes by medriano: 8:22pm On Dec 10, 2022 |
LaSenior: Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later
I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.
To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right? No, it is not right. At this time, Christmas stuff should not even come up, as it’s morning period for you. Your dad would have been her dad in-law so this attitude of hers is appalling. Well, it’s good you’ve reached a decision. She is not a good person. She has shown you she isn’t heartless and no good human deserves such a person. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by medriano: 7:16pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Neddstark:
As you have chosen to take this step, she will never forgive you. Better you divorce her and have nothing to do with that sick family. . Who cares about her forgiveness? Let them rot in jail. |
Family / Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by medriano: 7:15pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Mindlog:
I am imagining the trauma your toddler is going through, I hope since their return you have taken her to see paediatrician and do try to seek out a clinical child psychologist to assist her with trauma-focused treatments to help your daughter.
Get your mother-in-law and her son arrested. Your daughter is not his first victim and his mother has been covering him up. He needs to be taken out of circulation and remanded somewhere he would never contacts with minors. You are very correct. That baby is not his first victim, he has been doing it and his mum and sister have been covering him. They are enablers. I support you divorcing her and Taking custody of your daughter. If you as a woman can’t protect your own child, then you are a failure. |
Music/Radio / Re: What Was Your Favorite Nigerian Song Of 2022? by medriano: 4:23pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
OboOlora: No fav Nigerian song but I have two fav Nigerian albums Love Damini and Fireboy’s album.
Thunder fire anybody wey mention Frog Voice as having favourite song here!!! Go and sit down.who know you? |
Celebrities / Re: Rita Dominic Welcomes Friends To England Ahead Of Her Church Wedding (video) by medriano: 2:06pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
meobizy: I remember the late nineties and early two thousands when she was an it girl. Back then she graced every social event, looking “takeaway.” Now nobody send her again, there are too many young babes flooding Nollywood. Genevieve can’t cope with the fact she’s no longer in demand, that one don catch mental issues. Shakara don end, true true. It will get to your turn soon. Nobody stays young forever. |
Celebrities / Re: GUCCI Surprises Kizz Daniel At Qatar FIFA World Cup by medriano: 12:41pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
devilmaycry: Good...
So should we fry spaghetti? No. Boil palm kernel. |