jeromestarks:
I can NEVER marry a woman who is wealthier than me.
And I will never allow my wife to be richer than me. Never!

Women misuse power. They tend to insult men at the slightest opportunity they get.

Your marriage can not last if your wife has as much money as you.

LONEWOLFJOHN:
what do you do for a living? Because the way you sound, you don't know anything at all

LONEWOLFJOHN:
passengers are yet to wakeup to reality! Price of fuel tripled, transport fare are suppose to be triple, now people are begging drivers to consider them but yet fueling point are even cheating on their meter. How do you want driver to survive! They zoom off not because they prefer to go empty but they are avoiding bad market who will occupy space for next bus stop

NwekeUG:
Buhari, Atiku, Tinubu, Obi: 4 Lessons Nigeria's 2023 Elections Taught Me - Reno Omokri

Former presidential aide, Reno Omokri has shared the four vital lessons Nigeria's 2023 presidential election taught him, IGBERETV reports.

Reno wrote on his Twitter handle;


https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1669329071124168704?s=20

Orangedreams:
Dear property colleagues, men and brethren, please who is familiar with what it takes to obtain letter of Administertion in Lagos state particularly after after 21days newspaper publication?


This is my first experience with obtaining LA at Alausa Ikeja. Our Lawyer has been on it for sometimes now even though we heard it takes about 6months to come out. But my worries now is that we did our mandatory newspaper publication of the property in early October and since after then our lawyer has been saying we are at the issuance state.


My question now is, since the publication has since past, why is it taking so long for the LA to be issued by the probate judge? Please are there people here who are familiar with how long it takes to issue LA after publication?

Please allay my worries and expectations.
Thanks

MetaBroadband:
Thank you all for your excellent contributions. Please note the following:

1. They said the man abandoned them, but what if it's not actually what happened, so let's not be emotional.

2. I'm not paying the bride price to the biological father, but there should be an understanding between both fathers at this point. because if the child was taken away from the man or if he had acted as a child then, both parents can come to an understanding so that my wife won't hurt any part of the tradition in the course of our marriage.

3. I know that my mother inlaw would be angry, but I still feel it's my right to know. What if something bad happens to my wife because she married in a way that violates her tradition (give Caeser things to Caesar)

4. I'm doing this for my fiancee not me, because as far as I've paid my bride price nothing can come to me, but if anything comes to my wife, it automatically affects me. So it's not just her and her mum's business.

Thank you as you put this thoughts into consideration as well.

Please excuse typos

truthsayer009:


Hmm seeing this beautiful writeup, I pray God gives you what you want. Although I don't know how old you are, this is also an important part on people's expectation. Finding someone you love & that loves you back the same way is almost impossible. It is usually either they are crazy about you OR you are cray about them, somehow one of you will have to settle. To be fair, I haven't seen a 50/50 love combination before.

That being said, a man that looks like a monkey figuratively but gives peace of mind is also very dangerous for your marriage, whatever you do. Still make sure you are somewhat physically attracted to your partner because sex will always be a chore if the attraction is not there, take it from me. I am 100% sure of this.

It is hard having sex with someone you aren't attracted to.

tshtsh:

Yes I worked in the IT department of a bank as a computer science grad. Got the three years experience while trying to get a job at a better structured organization. As that didn't work out I used the three years experience to claim work experience points for Canada express entry. Got a PR and now working at a multi national software company in Toronto. Nothing spoil.

tshtsh:

Both contract and permanent staff positions at Zenith bank should be seen/taken as temporary jobs. If you did not join the bank in its early days and work directly with Jim Ovia you are likely to regret spending a long time there. Even the IT guys with entry level salaries of 6M + know this used zenith as a stop-gap job to a better job. There is no growth on that job.

exco90:
Hello Nairalanders,please I need you to clarify me on something
Two year contract job with zenith not far from home 200 to and from with 110k per month in akowonjo/ Lagos or permanent staff Job with 75k per month in ilupeju oshodi lagos 900 to and fro.. please which one should my sis go for.. we have till tomorrow to accept one of the offer ...
Please which one is better

YhemmyBloom:
Sure all government approved bodies should have and not all those private ones..He insisted that being under any government aporoved membership and as a paid member, your ID card will indicate the number and type of membership status it carries i.e. student, associate,professional, executive member etc.he also asked if what i wanted is part or full scholarship .. i was like Part like how i answered Full scholarship..

JONSYN7154:
Am from Benue and I married an Igbo Lady and I can confidently tell you that they are awesomely GOOD.

bukatyne:


@bold:

Beautiful.

Barrister026:
Hello all,

This is difficult situation for me, my mom's house has been left uncompleted since 2014 just the foundation and probably 2couch were placed ontop since then it's been there because she had to send my siblings and I to higher institution. Now am of age, doing quite well for myself. I think am finally ready to build a house, was thinking about getting a land 100 by 50 and raise 5 bedroom flats... but on the other hand that my mom's building had been left uncompleted since it's a family land, relatives are starting to say somethings and sometimes I could see the shame on my mom's face when she goes to her family compound. Almost every months they always call her to come clear it that it has become harbor for snakes and pests. So I thought why don't I just complete it for her first.


The issue here Is immediately I told my fiancee she said it's a good idea but kicked against it. That I should build mine first, before completing my mom's. That it can wait.

I also confided in a friend of mine, he said almost same thing, that my thing is different from our own. Saying am not the only one my mom gave birth to, if I complete it now I should be ready to share it with my siblings no matter what when the time comes.

I'm confused and need advice on the step to take. I would really want to complete that house for my mom I Know it would mean a lot to her..I'm really confused.

One way or the other somebody has to develop it, if I the first son don't do it now that am financially stable. Then my younger bro will do it, trust me it won't make sense that way that's just my fear.

immortalcrown:
You said your mother inherited the property from her father. You said your mother's siblings tried but failed to collect the property because your maternal grandfather, before his death, gave your mother the property. So, as long as your father legally married your mother and your mother died, your father owns the property. The only thing that can change it is if your mother legally willed the property to you before her death. Did your mother write a will concerning the property? If yes, who does the will mention as the owner of the property? If no will, your father owns the property. I am not typing anyhow. I am educating you. But I am not forcing the knowledge on you. You have the right to reject the knowledge if you detest the knowledge.

GboyegaD:


Being charitable outside is corporate social responsibility and a means of selling itself so not totally altruistic.

GboyegaD:


A company is no charity organization and expecting them to do this means you are not been fair to them.

suco01:


That particular TEC 2.5kva is always not a good deal but u can still give the suggestion a shot

Gptech:

If you have a service center close to you, take it there. They are at PZ Cussons.

suco01:


What's the kva of the tech gen.
Wetin u dey use the gen for after a year don dey give issues.
Consuming too much oil, do u mean it shorts oil, if yes does it smokes, any oil leakages, what load do you use it to carry for every 5hours daily.
Also if u run ur gen for 5hours daily endeavor to change the oil every 2weeks

As for your mechanic he isn't truthful to you cos no tec original piston and ring dey outside especially those TEC wey dey carry tiny ring, there is generic of 7k and 20k own both won't last either or last more than 2months with your usage.

If you can't cope

Will only advise conversion to sumec which u will change shaft rod, connecting rod and piston assy

Notaket:
Hey guys, I think I need your help. So for close to 2 weeks now, I have been having itching sensations round my private parts and I noticed some rash around my dick ..

Have been to the hospital they said I had prunitis and gave me some injections and a drug called loterine but it's 3 days now and I still have this serious itching around my laps that surrounds the private part .. My bums itch me too despite frequently changing boxers etc...

Please I need help from anyone who has experienced this before.

Mind Everytime I have sex I have used condom... Any recommendations will be good. Thanks

Gptech:

At such usage you should be changing oil every 2 weeks at most.

hopefulLandlord:


Changing the piston and rings should solve the problem.

Gptech:

Do you mean you turn on your gen 5 hours every day? How often do you change oil?

victorian:

You are so right. But for someone that believes so much in pure undiluted love, it will be difficult to accept this. My boyfriend asked me few days ago what I do with money. Imagine. Someone that I don't ask for a dime and he doesn't send me a dime either. Knowing fully well that I'm taking care of my siblings. Asking me indirectly how much I have in my savings. Guys these days are something else. I'd understand if a girl is checking out all these in a man, but why would a man be questioning a lady he doesn't spend on about her finances? Real men have gone extinct











Smiles lemme say this , if your argument makes sense? definitely I will step down and accept u are right. And alot of people online here are either fake, bullies or vile in expressing themselves, which is appalling.

Only few people like yourself and some few gentle men and ladies I have interacted with online, think and talk sensibly. The rest are bunch of headaches.

Then, with the way the country is, values, morals, ethics are thrown away, While people, I mean a whole lot of people in nigeria worship money and worship the rich in quote. Most don't care about character or values. Same goes with relationships, these days. The girl is not working or she's not financially comfortable to an extent, guys will not take her serious.. Likewise a guy too. If he's broke without a job, trust me most ladies will look the other way. They won't come close.

Anyways it's good to know u are Naija based , nice mentality.. I hope u will practice it in real life

sript:



Sometimes, knowing when to STOP is a skill itself...


Peherps, u were carried away with emotions,
And u ignore the obvious hitting you right in your face, and were naive??

I know u are wiser now and certainly knows what's good for you.


Biko lemme check my BALLS whether they are still intact

sript:





Your ex took selfishness to a whole new level


On days u declined his sexual advances even when u were down health wise, yet he forced his way...BIG RED FLAG. He prolly saw u as sex accessory to relieve his stupendous sexual homone. Beast nature

With such high sexual drive that he possessed, coupled with the fact that he felt indifferent irrespective of whether you are in the mood for it or not and u coped with such attitude for 4yrs? Omo, it takes more than mere perseverance and adaptability to adjust to such lifestyle of his, given his state of art performance in za oza room with the hope of marriage..what a fruitless journey u must have become MASTER in the game too



I can bet my balls, u missed the magic stick even though u claimed his exes did

Letshegostaff:

This story looks Familiar... You and your ex finished from OAU?

FalseProphet1:

The truth is he never genuinely loved you.

Love isn't meant to be selfish, if he sees you as something to relief himself without taking into consideration how you feel, then you should be glad that you're no longer together.

If I'm to advice you, I'll say cut off permanently from him, cos guys like that can ruin your relationship while enjoying his marriage.

Guys like him are dangerously manipulative and can do anything to get what they want.