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Romance / Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Melvict: 9:55pm On Jan 09, 2020
Roadtorecovery:
Good evening everyone.


I have struggled with sex addiction for the past 10 years with out permanent success especially with regards to visiting and sleeping with prostitutes and keeping my mind off sex.
Presently I cant seem to keep my mind of sex and focus on my life and career.

I have a good Job and a beautiful damsel whom i have promised marriage and I am afraid I might loose any if not both of this if I don't stop,think and act NOW.



Since is a habit I learnt over time, how do I unlearn this habit permanently.

Please has anyone been able to get over sex addiction successfully.


My recent relapse after 10 months of celibacy threw me off balance and presently I have lost touch with God, friends and family because of this demeaning lifestyle.


Today after 2 weeks of relapse and wallowing in self pity, I have decided to restart all over again with strong determination to take into consideration the lesson learnt from my last relapse as I plan to adopt a better approach to ensure I conquer this habit.

I have spoken with one of spiritual director who understands sex addiction above my expectations and he is very supportive.

I have also opened up to my younger Cousin brother who also understands what it feels to suffer addiction.

I also confessed to my lady about my relapse and strong determination to quit and she is helpful and supportive but with the condition that she may not cope if I should suffer another relapse.

My addiction and its resultant consequences have made close family and friends loose their respect and confidence in me.

Above all, i feel so separated by God who have done so much for me .

I want to pick my self up and fight because of

1.God
2.Myself
3. Family
4. My girl friend


At this point I need all the help I can get to snatch out my life out of satanic bait to ruin me forever


Any professional here can please save a frustrated brother. I have not give up.










I can help
Sports / Re: Madagascar Vs Nigeria: AFCON 2019 (2 - 0) Full Time by Melvict: 6:59pm On Jun 30, 2019
Any day naija put on that pure green jersey, them no dey see goal score.

Politics / Re: Killings In Nigeria: Fulani Group Asks Buhari To Listen To Obasanjo’s Advice by Melvict: 8:52am On Jun 18, 2019
In that statement. Pls IPOB is not part of the crisis. Don't group them with herds men and armed bandit as u call them.

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Crime / Re: Gorilla ‘swallows’ N6.8m In Kano Zoo by Melvict: 6:31pm On Jun 14, 2019
Normal thing for naija. No new stories.
Politics / Re: Ortom Delivers His Polling Unit For Atiku, Ensures PMB Didn't Get Any Vote There by Melvict: 6:47am On Feb 24, 2019
sure. Ekeeemadu did the same thing. even in My polling unit at Enugu, buhari managed to get 2 votes even when the have moo
re than 10 agents there.
Politics / Re: Jubilation As Enugu Pensioners Thank Ugwuanyi For Payment Of Gratuities by Melvict: 9:08am On Feb 21, 2019
KidsNEXTdoor:
Enough of this ugwuanyi propaganda...
I went to Enugu and yet to see his blueprint
Dude is doing absolutely nothing...
u don't know the Enugu that u visited. gov ugwuanyi is doing just great.
Romance / Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Melvict: 7:36pm On Feb 09, 2019
Mr poster, I am happy you want to know more about God. well, I'm not an atheist and am proud to be a scientist. Evidence is a scientific approach and every other things in this world have there own approach. you need not to have evidence for everything on earth. even science contradicts itself.

Psychology as a science gets to a stage in a patients life when therapy is not appropriate to use but go for the source and foundation of the problems faced by the client. most times this problems are spiritual and we most times refer the person to solve his or her problems spiritually. Most of them come back with a successful result and there problems solved through spiritual means and most scientist do not doubt the existence of the supernatural.

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Romance / Re: What Was The Real Reason You Broke Up With Her? by Melvict: 11:04pm On Feb 08, 2019
she lied about her age sha
Celebrities / Re: Lilian Esoro Buys A New Car by Melvict: 8:24pm On Jan 30, 2019
the way girls just dey buy car this days is so alarming. Anyway congrats
Politics / Re: APC Campaign In Gaya LG, Kano State ( Pictures) by Melvict: 12:11am On Jan 29, 2019
okeyoo. crowd does not determine number of votes. they are just their to collect Bu cash.

senseknowgokillme

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