Hey,I want you to know that destiny really matters alot in anything one does in life. But when talking about the sightseeing, this is another case entirely because one most be very careful about it and also one most not use this to justify or conclude anything you have to do or done.
 As a matter of fact, it has happened to me before, when I took my ex girlfriend issue (getting marry or not) to a sightseeing man. The main reason why I did this, is just because I love her so much. Then I met the main Caterer I want with what the man said. Because the sightseeing man told me that I and the girl are going to get marry with reason that this girl destiny and mine are highly  compatible.
   But now I can tell you that this girl is with another guy and she ripped and betrayed me in many ways b4 she left me. By this am highly dissapointed and have believe that its destiny that matters most in anything we do in life cos no matter anyway it is your destiny will surely come to pass. In my own sense, I dont have my trust in man or anything said by man but in God.

    Inconclusion believe that your destiny will come to pass and God we do the best for you also pray towards and you shall see that  its well with you

Courtesy: My Olumyuiwa Olumide (Mighty)

My own personal advice to you is that you shouldn't rush to do anything, If God says one of this guys is your real husband I know that there is no body that can stop that.

But the main fact is that you have to be very careful and learn how to watch those two guys very well and study them in the way of your coming into the relationship by that you will be able to know there mission for you and in order for you not to be cheated at the long runs.