HARDDON:
Fresh wine just dropped!

https://datingdrill.com/psychological-confidence-boosters/

It is an expository read.

Don't wait to be told.

HARDDON:


The ish ish here was your first foot forward. Wrong. Once we step out on the wrong foot and lace that with Seriousness, it kills vibes. Make gurls withdraw.

Learn to always take deep breaths and relax bro.

@ first emphasized ,
That statement is a total blow off. Only wimps let that out.

When a lady is dating enough to send you that thrash, though u are to blame for asking her out, you let the dragon out.
That was a freaking test, and you failed it woefully!

Compare your forat statement to this:

" Yea, thought same. Asking you out when I haven't given you the privilege of impressing me was a huge mistake. BYE. "

You cut it off.

@2nd emphasized, wonder why ladies don't give two pence whether guys get upset or not but guys make it a point of duty Not to upset them and back down when they come across upset.
MEN would usually drop a bomb and take a walk.

SENSE PILL:
Never get to that point where are are scared of losing anyone! If they have the guts to shake the table, make sure you break it and take a Royal now. We no mean Men.

SENSE PILL:
Never engage in war of words with women! Just like playing poker with a witch, you always gonno lose!

You last paragraph is just so PuSsified. I wouldn't dignify it with a response.

My Thoughts?

Take a Royal walk.
Most times, it's easier to start aright, afresh than trying to patch some wrong honeycombs.

But first, develope your mind; pay the sacrifice and read this thread from scratch. I promise you that it's going to be one of your best investments this year.

ubunja:



Posting by Friday:

1Pleasures Of The Cash [book excerpt]
2The Female Source Code
3Chosen
4No Green Lights No Approach.
5All The Sex In The World.
6On Shît Testing.

demiladegold:
being too much of a nice guy

women dont base their choices of men on how nice they are. they choose guys because they feel a very powerful attraction for them. and being nice doesnt make a lady feel that kind of attraction. it probably doesnt make a lot of logical sense but its true.

trying to convince her to like you

what do most guys do when they meet a girl they like and she doesnt feel the same way?
they try to convince her to feel differently. YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN FEELS BY BEING PERSISTENT IN TRYING TO CONVINCE HER. you probably would just end up irritating and annoying her.

trying to buy her attention with food and money

how many times have you bought things for a lady and she rejects you for someone not nearly as nice as you?
probably a lot of times.
most women see this as a sign of unnecessary compensation for insecurity and weak attempts at manipulation.

thinking that all it takes is money and looks

this is a mistake almost all guys make. most women are interested in far more than a man's looks and his wallet.
there are certain personality traits that are magnets to women and if you just know how to use them, you can win any girl's heart. confidence goes a long way in winning a woman.

giving all your power to a woman

some men make the mistake of trying to get a girl to like them by doing everything she wants or tells them to do all in the name of being caring and romantic.
WRONG!
WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO WEAKLINGS. a woman wants a guy that knows what he's doing and can control her even a little.

[color=#006600]beating up a woman to gain her respect[/color]

some men make the mistake of thinking by beating up their woman they are exerting a kind of control and are going to be respected more by the woman.
this mentality is wrong. a woman tends to lose respect for a man that beats her and as time goes on she slowly starts loosing feelings and finally leaves the man....





those are my own opinions... i stand to be corrected.

MikeGreat00:
Hi chief @Harddon,

I help is needed. I got to know this girl through a mutual friend, we started chatting. Things were going fine until i asked if we could talk on phone and she said yes but for few minutes. The phone convo was okay, however short. Ever since, her chats became cold. She barely reply on time. We agreed to meet in my place. We had nice time getting to know each other. Even after that day, her chat is still cold. she replies just once in a day with one flimsy excuse or the other. I already liking her and i want to take it to the next level. My question now is, how can i spice things up with her?

Kindly advice @Harddon. Thanks

HARDDON:


....when you ignore messages, from experience, people that really care, wud call to find out....

HARDDON:


Don't get it twisted bro.

Given, ladies are SISTERS under same cloak of flesh BUT
There are little distinctive factors peculiar to each.

Not until you can ascertain that she is purposely ignoring your chats through mind games, you cant draw conclusions.
I agree, just that sometimes are stumble her online.

1. Not EVERY lady love chatting. Some prefer physical meet ups. If she enjoyed coming to spend time at your place even on a first date, why don't you change the chat strategy to one that works? Well, when she visited, her phone was kept in her bag and only texted few times.

2. Some are just too busy for lil chit chats. Try dating a medical Student. Or a working professional/business person.

3. To a large extent, from coaching( both ladies n guys) experience, most guys, when they fancy a gurl, mostly get mental blockage when they reach out thru chats n calls.
Nobody wants boring chats and some statements don't need answers. You just read and lack what to respond with. Yours truly do this alot to gurls and they come at him with "so you now ignore my messages?"

Being who yours truly is, that statement is even worse.

So dont be quick to throw in the towel.... Thanks a lot. I'll give it another trial.

One.

EmptyCoconutHead:
maybe u have a kind of accent that turned her off or maybe she saw your pics and you're not her specs.
so ignore her and like someone earlier said "go to where you're accepted"
there are many fishes in the river, besides even after she accepts u, what will she have to offer to u?

plagiarism1:


Go to where you're celebrated not tolerated.
Just ignore her too.
Derail much we have, drills we now have.