1Sharon:


You still with him aren't you?

Yes but I really do love him

blackpanthar:


LOL see you..... chai


YOU ARE NOT MATURE BECAUSE YOU ARE 27

YOU ARE MATURE WHEN YOU KNOW WHEN TO BE SERIOUS AND WHEN TO PLAY AND THE LIMITS AND BOUNDARIES IN RELATIONSHIP

If you were dating to marry, YOU WOULD KNOW HOW EXPENSIVE WHAT YOU DID WAS........ why not use
sickness... why go spiritual and lie


YOU ARE MESSED UP if you don't see how terrible what you did was. you probably were catching cruise and didnt THINK FAR ENOUGH(miss maturity )

MARRIAGE IS FAMILY BASED.... not just both of you... but FAMILY IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE INVOLVED.


Anyway it is your life, you brought it publicly and you can't get to select how you are corrected else you are still a child.

GO AND ATTEND A MARRIAGE CLASS..... Get PASTOR KINGSLEY OKONKWO'S TAPES ON RELATIONSHIP so you can have mature sense.

Mr maturity is clear you don’t understand

Anyways thanks for your criticism, for your info I really can’t do that
So the story is not mine and I don’t even know if is real
Y’all needs maturity I swr😁
Una go just open mouth
Waaaaaaa
When you see a toxic person, it is very clear
Oga you are very toxic, see the way you are talking
God Abeg ooo
Anyways just quiet your mouth,there’s nothing for you to say
I pity your wife or girlfriend
She Dey see shege
Toxic men everywhere
Mr maturity, truth is all of you claiming maturity are not even mature at allllll🤣🤣

1Sharon:
If he is maltreating you, why are you still there?

I said he was
Please read the story again

blackpanthar:


nice story
if true
PLS AVOID DATING AND FIX YOUR MORALS


You are bold to say to LIED to someone you loved, how is it TRUE LOVE when truth is something you can easily twist.

IF YOU ARE LYING WHILE DATING, this is exactly why MATURE FAMILY MEMBERS WOULD SEE YOU AS AN IRRESPONSIBLE UNGODLY CHILD.

No one wants a LIAR for an in-law.

What happened to you? how were you brought up, that in 2024, you felt it is cute to LIE?

Many don't know the LAWS AND PRINCIPLES OF BEING IN A REAL RELATIONSHIP, so they jump into anything that gives them ATTENTION, AFFECTION, SEX AND MONEY........ and call it dating. lol..... you must be joking.


IF YOU HAD ANY REAL MATURE SENSE....... there are more deeper tests to know if a man loves you THAN LYING TO HIM.

Also did anyone ever teach you that LOVE IS ENOUGH? Because it is not enough o..... WE DON'T MARRY WHO WE LOVE........ WE MARRY WHO IS COMPATIBLE WITH OUR DESTINY, THEN LEARN TO LOVE THEM.

Wake up and work on yourself, you don't need a BOYFRIEND. You need to UNDERSTAND HOW LIFE WORKS.


You didnt even think of where the parents may have gone, whom they may have told.... a prophet or imam..... YOU DIDNT THINK THE RED FLAG you have raised.


It is a child who does things without thinking of CONSEQUENCES or AFTERMATH....... children should not be dating or marrying. YOU HAVE ALOT OF GROWING UP TO DO, IF THIS STORY IS TRUE.

And also I would love to know other deep tests to know if a man loves to u, I would want to know
Kindly share

blackpanthar:


nice story
if true
PLS AVOID DATING AND FIX YOUR MORALS


You are bold to say to LIED to someone you loved, how is it TRUE LOVE when truth is something you can easily twist.

IF YOU ARE LYING WHILE DATING, this is exactly why MATURE FAMILY MEMBERS WOULD SEE YOU AS AN IRRESPONSIBLE UNGODLY CHILD.

No one wants a LIAR for an in-law.

What happened to you? how were you brought up, that in 2024, you felt it is cute to LIE?

Many don't know the LAWS AND PRINCIPLES OF BEING IN A REAL RELATIONSHIP, so they jump into anything that gives them ATTENTION, AFFECTION, SEX AND MONEY........ and call it dating. lol..... you must be joking.


IF YOU HAD ANY REAL MATURE SENSE....... there are more deeper tests to know if a man loves you THAN LYING TO HIM.

Also did anyone ever teach you that LOVE IS ENOUGH? Because it is not enough o..... WE DON'T MARRY WHO WE LOVE........ WE MARRY WHO IS COMPATIBLE WITH OUR DESTINY, THEN LEARN TO LOVE THEM.

Wake up and work on yourself, you don't need a BOYFRIEND. You need to UNDERSTAND HOW LIFE WORKS.


You didnt even think of where the parents may have gone, whom they may have told.... a prophet or imam..... YOU DIDNT THINK THE RED FLAG you have raised.


It is a child who does things without thinking of CONSEQUENCES or AFTERMATH....... children should not be dating or marrying. YOU HAVE ALOT OF GROWING UP TO DO, IF THIS STORY IS TRUE.

Thanks for all your criticism, I read all but then am not a child okay

Am 27 this year and yes I pranked him and I also told him the truth two days later

You said I should leave relationship and focus on my morals right?
I think you should also
Don’t get me wrong I regret what I did and I have even tried breaking up with my boyfriend but he seems not to care about this
His even planning on doing a court marriage with me so I ask for an advice and not what you are doing because I always love doing my own things, I don’t like being public or putting myself out there, this story gets me thinking alot
And also this story happened early last year, we talking about march last year and we are still together till now
Anyways I asked for proper advice and not what you are saying okay

I lied to my boyfriend about me being a Marine girl because I wanted to see if he would leave me or if he actually loves me
When I told him, I told him I was going to die, so he was begging and crying that I shouldn’t leave him
And then the next two days I told him everything was a lie, I manage to convince him that it was a lie but then again he had already told his pastor about it and his pastor told his mom
To cut the long story short, his mom told the whole family members including anuties and uncles
Please guys, I wasn’t thinking at all when I did this, I was only thinking about my happiness
I did this prank because I love this guy so much and he was maltreating me, he didn’t care about me
He never loved me and I already fell deep in love for him, like head over heels for him, I decided to go along with the prank. I just wanted to let him know I was going to die so I had to come up with something to let him know the reason I was going to die
I was happy and surprised by his reaction, all the affections and emotions he had for me came out, I was so happy with it at that time but then I didn’t know the matter would escalate to reaching the whole family
Guys I love my boyfriend so much I don’t know what to do
Please I need your advice guys
And to add to it his mom doesn’t like me at all,
She detects the sight of me so much and to add to that my boyfriend really doesn’t care if his mom likes me or not, he too doesn’t wish to let me go, I tried breaking up one time but he said he sees thru me and I should stop thinking about all this and just be with him.
Please guys I would appreciate
Any criticism and advice

dawnomike:
Forget that relatinship my sister in the Lord.... If his mum does not like you; it will not end well.

Thank you very much

ojun50:
Them supposed sell you for NNPCL

I asked for advices not this, what’s with the selling?

I lied to my boyfriend about me being a Marine girl because I wanted to see if he would leave me or if he actually loves me
When I told him, I told him I was going to die, so he was begging and crying that I shouldn’t leave him
And then the next two days I told him everything was a lie, I manage to convince him that it was a lie but then again he had already told his pastor about it and his pastor told his mom
To cut the long story short, his mom told the whole family members including anuties and uncles
Please guys, I wasn’t thinking at all when I did this, I was only thinking about my happiness
I did this prank because I love this guy so much and he was maltreating me, he didn’t care about me
He never loved me and I already fell deep in love for him, like head over heels for him, I decided to go along with the prank. I just wanted to let him know I was going to die so I had to come up with something to let him know the reason I was going to die
I was happy and surprised by his reaction, all the affections and emotions he had for me came out, I was so happy with it at that time but then I didn’t know the matter would escalate to reaching the whole family
Guys I love my boyfriend so much I don’t know what to do
Please I need your advice guys
And to add to it his mom doesn’t like me at all,
She detects the sight of me so much
Please guys I would appreciate
Any criticism and advice can come in please