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Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 2:13pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
thorpido:PM'ed you |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 1:21pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
yetseyi:Thanks dear. |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 9:12am On Oct 24, 2016 |
thorpido:Single not lonely |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 7:36am On Oct 24, 2016 |
thorpido:No na. I mean that should I go ahead with it, it will likely be lonely years ahead |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 12:01am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Amelian: The thought of the loneliness scarez the holy crap out of me. |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 11:22pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
thorpido:Really I don't know. I don't know how God makes a man who for you, for whom you will have to weep your eyes out every night. That part I don't get |
Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Missolivea: 11:14pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:All this is because society stigmatizes the unmarried ladies and baby mamas. And the oyinbo women too will never learn. Always going after the sexual virilty of Nigerian men and the opportunity to have half caste offsprings whom they can whisk out of the lives of their fathers forever once they decide to kick him out of their lives. Later they go online trying to tarnish the men's image 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Missolivea: 11:07pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Does it mean that all of you guys supporting this attitude will do the same thing if in their shoes and you don't mind hurting the feelings of that Nigerian lady who will live a marriage of your perpetual and constant absenteeism. And that oyinbo chick you tie down for years deceiving and manipulating her. Is it fair? Look at this and give your opinion. Its the same scenario here https://www.nairaland.com/3424710/nigerian-man-based-abroad-oyinbo 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 10:24pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
carmag:Pls expatiate on what you mean by win-win situation in this context. Is it for me, for him or for all parties involved? |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 10:14pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
thorpido:Like I said I don't want to marry for the wrong reasons, not for janding opportunity or hard currency and I know that there's a man out there that God made me for 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 10:04pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
KissChris:True talk. |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 10:02pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
carmag:My dear I didn't want to go deep into the outcome of that prayer but it was not an outcome that said definitely go ahead |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 10:00pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
thorpido: My dear. I know some people do it. Was wondering whether they had some valid reasons. Its good to ask questions sometimes before one will think one is being too difficult |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 9:58pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
thorpido: My dear. I know some people do it. Was wondering whether they had some valid reasons... Its good to ask questions sometimes before one will think one is being too difficult |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 9:52pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
KissChris:Gold digger is a good qualification for this. Seems the oyinbo lady is living in a fool's paradise with him |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 9:48pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Winneygirl:Babe its real. People find themselves in this position everyday, some unknowingly. |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 9:36pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Ishilove:Sister you ought to know how we operate here. We don't use our original accounts for sensitive posts. Thanks all the same |
Romance / Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 9:08pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Nairalanders I'm in need of your advice here. Please let advice be mature because every advice is important to me. I met this guy in church December last year and we got talking. He actually came home to visit because he is based abroad. So he went back to his base and kept in touch. He calls me often and we chat often. Along the line he made his intention known which is to date me. And I considered everything, he's being abroad and all. So I said ok let me pray about it. Then he told me that he has an oyinbo live-in girlfriend who has been very good to him, in fact she has helped him out of trouble with the authorities severally because of illegal business. So he's that indebted to her. So I asked him what he wants with me then. He said that he's telling me because something might come up along the line to make him marry the oyinbo girlfriend considering that she can help him out with the authorities. But that he seriously wants to marry a Nigerian girl. So nairalanders this is my dilemma. Should I or should I not? It seems that some Nigerian girls actually do this knowingly. Please mature advice is needed. Thank you all. Lalasticlala mynd44 ishilove seun pls help move this to FP. I created a new acct for this purpose Y'all might want to see this https://www.nairaland.com/3424731/why-nigerian-men-come-back/2 |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 8:16pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
ElsonMorali:I don't want to marry for the wrong reasons at all 1 Like |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 8:12pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
ireneidiva:Thanks for your advice. Its much appreciated |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 8:10pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
teemy:My dear if he has the probability of being a trickster, then any response he gives to such a question will be carefully tailored. I'm wondering why he even wants a Nigerian wife at all. Why is the oyinbo not enough? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 8:07pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Eyekandi:Babe would you do it if you were the one? |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 8:06pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Ziyadah: Your are getting it mixed up. The question is should I agree to it or not? |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 8:04pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Talasuma:No I've not decided or I wouldn't be seeking advice. |
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 8:02pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
keepingmum:I have thought along these lines too. I was wondering what makes some other ladies do it and if their reasons are valid. Thanks so much for your advice |
Family / Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Girl. Advice by Missolivea: 6:27pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Nairalanders I'm in need of your advice here. Please let advice be mature because every advice is important to me. I met this guy in church December last year and we got talking. He actually came home to visit because he is based abroad. So he went back to his base and kept in touch. He calls me often and we chat often. Along the line he made his intention known which is to date me. And I considered everything, he's being abroad and all. So I said ok let me pray about it. Then he told me that he has an oyinbo live-in girlfriend who has been very good to him, in fact she has helped him out of trouble with the authorities severally because of illegal business. So he's that indebted to her. So I asked him what he wants with me then. He said that he's telling me because something might come up along the line to make him marry the oyinbo girlfriend considering that she can help him out with the authorities. But that he seriously wants to marry a Nigerian girl. So nairalanders this is my dilemma. Should I or should I not? It seems that some Nigerian girls actually do this knowingly. Please mature advice is needed. Thank you all. Lalasticlala mynd44 ishilove seun pls help move this to FP. Pls I created this new acct for this purpose. Y'all might want to see this https://www.nairaland.com/3424731/why-nigerian-men-come-back/2 1 Like 1 Share |
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