I got married to gain Mrs title and societal respect and acceptance that comes with it

mamagee3:
Okay guys, there's this guy that I met few months back keeps making all sorts of excuses to avoid taking me to a restaurant to eat out.

We only hang out at his house or my house for weeks now and he only talks about se.x and nothing more. He even asked me for se.x and I have declined every time.

I initiated the discussion about us going to eat out at a restaurant last week and we both agreed to go this Friday. Now, he's making excuses about being busy on that day even though he usually works at night and has the whole day off. He has now rescheduled our eating out appointment until May.

But he wants me to take him out for some reason. mean what kind of man wants his lady to take him out first.

I'm getting tired of this nonsense. I feel like my time is being wasted, what do you think?

The guy has shown you pomp and plain that he only wants sex and nothing more....Is it so difficult to shun him if you ain't game? Na wa for some ladies

Op,if you have ever had unprotected sex with her and tested negative doesn't mean you are indeed negative.Do a confirmatory test 3 months after...you could be in the window period.

Don't rejoice yet!

This is why God admonished us to stay from from fornication and adultery but people of the world will not agree

Specialbaby:
The state of the economy has turned the meek to angry men!!

My father did worse to me and my siblings in the 80s and 90s,it didn't come to the public cos there was no social media.

He would first of all lock our mother outside,then brutalize us wt any available weapon..til we bleed

I thought we would die but we survived.Today,we all are living on our own happily.God will continue to punish him wherever he is all the rest of his miserable life

Of course! When you have to give a man your money,he surely doesn't want to and will never take you serious

Any woman who spends her money on an African boyfriend,esp Nigerian is a foooool and willl only be used and dumped.

20 years ago,she was wearing clothes that covered her properly

Now,she is wearing skimpy wears

Nudity has paid her better

It's because of dog you pple are full of "sorry bro"..if I didn't see the headline n read the story,would have thought it's somebody's mother or siblings or child....


God knows I hate dogs

emusmith:
Still A Christian, When Was The Last Time You Did Any Of These?


Some will say, it's not 'works' but 'grace'. The same Grace Jesus had yet He worked all day and night for His Father.

If you call yourself a "Christian" and haven't done some or all of these, 3 things are involved;

- You are backslidden.

- Your church doesn't really teach stuff like these or...

- You have chosen to ignore the demands/promptings of the Holy Spirit.

If you are (or really, badly want to be) a true disciple of Jesus, these seven things should not be far-fetched from your habits:


1. Evangelizing

I laugh when I hear people, 'My money can be used to preach the gospel, as for me, No Time!" Yes, you can't preach globally, what about those sinners around you? Your siblings? Friends? Neighbours? This is the GREAT COMMISION for ALL! You drink or sleep with them but can't preach to them.


2. Praying for those who don't want you to succeed.


In a world of ours, 'anyone against my progress, DIE BY FIRE', is now the norm. Is this only what Jesus taught us? There is more to prayer than "FALL down and DIE!!!" Prayer for others is a mystery that reminds God of our own needs.


3. Loving Our "Haters"

I still remember that doing so "will HEAP COAL OF FIRE on their heads" as the Bible puts it. When was the last time you showed mercy to the merciless? Do you testify in church just because your prayers in rendering an innocent man a widower was answered? What of apologizing even when you're palpably right.


4. Really read your Bible

It's true, "social media sites are gradually stealing away God's people". I have been guilty sometimes too. If only you can spend half the time you spend on Facebook, BBM and whatsapp! This BOOK will keep you from sin and sin will keep you from this BOOK - Immortal John Bunyan. Each time I've fallen, I wasn't reading my Bible.


5. Gave God an ample sum of money and didn't announce it.

You'll see people give with one hand and broadcast with the other. Little wonder, the seed fails to reproduce maximally.


6. Humble yourself enough to sit wherever the usher asks you to.

The usher sef, her shoe and appearance aren't as commanding as yours and she wants to command you to sit in the front row. I even kneemw when she started this church and gave her life to Christ. Hmm


7. Pray till you had an heavenly experience


I have come to understand as a Christian, 'you are as weak or strong as your prayer life". Of course, I'm not talking about, "Gimmie gimmie kinda prayer". A prayer of Consecration or Dedication always and have proven to be more powerful than the rest.

Mid-week services and Cell fellowship are OUT of some folk's programme. They may be leaders in church yet so busy to do the First works- First Love.

When was the last time you spent quality time with your Father? Not in church but alone. This is a question for all of us.

#Godbless##Goodmorning#

So after doing all these,the person cannot say No to fornication and adultery...Is he/she still a christian?

Celmatador:
I hate bayern.... They made me lose my bet. Just imagine?

Sure, you are happy now

I didn't give up on Bayern

Kept telling my hubby they will equalize and go to ET

In the ET,while he was saying it will enter PK,i insisted Bayern will score again and win

As I was saying it,they scored

As I was celebrating,they scored again

I love Bayern Munich!

alexistaiwo:

jeez i can sense desperation here. judging by ur confrontational stance, am guessing u are way past the marriageable age without anybody foolish enough to marry a wasted loose material.
Dont worry u can always be a fourth wife

Hehehehehe! Sorry Boy,i got married last yearpreparing for motherhood and am far away from 30...you need to grow up and I wish you get a job cos frustration is so written in your response.

alexistaiwo:
Thinking of marriage in this current political administration and econmic situation coupled with the kind of nigerian ladies of nowadays is like signing your own ticket to hell.
Hit like if you agree

Obviously,nobody agrees to your sh*tty opinion

Am sure you are not yet matured and ready for marriage
A lot of people are still geting married

For every 1 story of a couple who met on social media and got married,there are 10 stories of those who got robbed,raped,killed...


Wisdom is profitable to direct

When will I get this type of news about my father?

Can't wait!

Small dic

These days,once I hear somebody being called Pastor...my mind goes to one thing:A criminal who hides under a title to commit all sorts of atrocities esp relating to money,sex and murder

After using over 100 people for rituals via collapsed buildings,why won't he have 100,000 naira to give 39 people each? Fake Prophet!

Stepmothers...Maltreating their stepdaughters

Stepfathers...Sexually molesting their stepdaughters

Nobody TAKES CARE of a child like his/her biological MOTHER

Thank God for keeping my mother alive to care for me. Pls keep me alive to care for my kids else a wicked stepmother kills them.Amen

K

Rexhenrex:
wow,so a guy should only give his girlfriend gift and money when she offers him sex? Am touched then there i no dichotomy between her and a call girl i must say.

It's a pity you can't read and understand simple English.Where in mu comment did I say a guy should only give his girlfriend gift and money when she offers him sex?

You must be mentally retarded

I repeat no sex,no spending = Fantastic relationship..Go and marry so you can have all the sex you want,obviously sex is your problem

Ladies,Keep your legs closed

Guys,Keep your palms supertight fisted

No sex,No spending= Beautiful relationship

Everybody hold your side

Nobody is cheated

No heartbreaks!

Dojupyo:
Happy Birthday Chioma..
She's been married for over 15 years but you will never hear any scandal about her marriage.. This is the way it ought to be..
Celebrities should stop making their family known to public..
As unpopular as her husband is, she still didn't make him popular.

An epitome of beauty

Not just celebrity.Applies to everyone

The less you keep your relationship and marriage ish private and away from social media,the better for you

sprinter101:
They deceive young girls every day,take them to Libya and other neighbouring countries for prostitution and it is common in Edo state.

They don't deceive girls in Edo state

The girls there are well informed of their job disposition over there

And they go with the full support of their parents

And Europe is their main destination

MadCow1:
He is taking off her garter.






He will then throw it to his Grooms men.. Whoever catches it is supposed to get lucky and be the next to marry.

Really? And when did a married man become "lucky"?

Gooooooaaaaallll!


Oya,chelsea over to

Ntoorrr!

Whatever rocks your boat

I did court, traditional and church..in that order

Church marriage is just for formality where couples go recite vows they won't keep after their Pastor

Court and traditional have value and meaning..

LastMumu:
So because she is driving a cab she thinks she is better than her counterparts earning 'peanuts' from accounting firms?

Although I admire her spirit, I believe her viewpoint above is rather myopic.

That's a very wrong statement to make

There is dignity in labour.How can she sound"proud" that she studied Accountancy and graduated and instead of working in a firm,she is driving a taxi? Not cool

McCarlito:
Why are these calabar men always bloodthirsty..

U murdered a 10year old child in cold blood and now u are blaming ur villagers

This man have no conscience and I know even the devil will be shocked at his deeds and this stupid confessions he made

The northern part of hell is surely reserved for him because even the devil will be disappointed in him for this...

He is not calabar

Calabar is not a tribe or ethnic group but the capital of cross river state

This man is from the annang tribe in akwa ibom state.

Am not surprised cos a "typical" annang man is very violence esp when he is holding a cutlass/machete.

Pumpkin34:
I will never be a baby mama nor use a baby to tie a man down but my dear you don't know what life holds for us. 95% of baby mama's didn't plan to be one too, it was just circumstances.

I can't and don't agree with you.Many ladies nowadays use pregnancies to tie men down,into marrying them.it has worked for a lot.some are just unfortunate..The point is pregnancy without marriage is a shame,dont be a victim of single motherhood....prevention is better than cure.I knew life doesn't hold being a baby mama for me.A teenager knows if she has unprotected sex with a man,she may get pregnant,how can you say adult females don't know what life holds for them?if you don't know yours,i know mine and being a baby mama is not one.i got married properly before pregnancy came, so spare me that talk

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Pumpkin34:
She would have told you from the beginning, if you really liked her you would have stayed. Been a baby mama is not a stigma, so she was wrong but if you really like her then overlook that and look at the brighter side of the relationship.

Stigmas in our society

1.Pregnancy outside/without wedlock

2.Being a spinster

So madam,being a baby mama has too many disadvantages including school drop out and stigmatization.

I rather abort than have a child without marriage #justsaying

Naija men like unprotected sex

But Hate abortion and single mothers

I wonder why ladies are not smart enough to play safe even when they know the stigma this "society of men" have placed on single mothers

Step 1: insist on use of condoms

Step 2: postinor 2

But they won't hear..op will just behave like the typical man,bleep her and dump her.end of story!

I can support my husband in terms of providing food,kid's fees and upkeep,etc

But NEVER to add my money to buy / build a house,or other properties(in case 2moro,he decides to kick me out n bring in another woman,men are very funny)...Or give my husband cash in any form.

My family can't be hungry when I have money

Your fiancee is rather too rash

But anyway,thats her opinion

Dump her,if you like

Another guy will marry her.

Seems you are interested in her because she is from a rich family and you thought she will be using her money to run the home and now that she has made her stand clear,you no longer see where and how you will benefit from her.