you better make sure they do not vote for Trump otherwise thats the end of it

I do not think your brother in law is a mind reader, if you want something done you have to ask. If you dont you wilk keep frustrsting yourself silently.

Qualer:



that makes it even better!! when are you available so we can go and see your parents?!

jaybee has already offered me a wedding, i will be available after 2weeks if you are interested in being assistant husband

Kondomatic:
Yes

and how many guest will you have at the wedding?

Qualer:



please o! where are you from?

south sudan

Kondomatic:
Total expenditure for the wedding including refreshments, if she's not happy then she should foot the rest. I can't marry one woman twice. I can spend a hell lotta money on traditional marriage but white wedding? God forbid.

correct me if im wrong N11k is about US$30 right?

jaybee3:


10M or £30k

just get me 30p ring and im good to go

PresVA:
My husband budgeted 1.5m for everything. . Introduction, bride price , traditional marriage, wedding and court certificate! Everything! ! And we didn't go beyond that....

It's best you have a budget according to your capacity and stick to it!!!

this is quite realistic. Well in my culture that amount would be bride price alone, but its paid over the course of the marriage and if the husband misbehaves the family can gladly take their child back

Kondomatic:
Eleven thousand naira cash.

is this the marriage officer's fee?

Angelberry:

Listen to yourself madam ladyF, the man is in pains and all you can do is type that rubbish to get likes? Why confess and ask for forgiveness when she don't want to quit?

why are you hell bent on breaking their marriage apart? Marriage is for better or worse, no one ever said it will always be perfect. You want to be forgiven no matter how many times you wrong a person but you feel the same shouldnt be done for others. Is it not hypocrisy?

PinkBarbie:
Seen something like this before?

there are dozens of videos on youtube

You are very good looking. Do not know if you are the most handsome on NL though

winexviv:
Yes indeed.

a child's complexion is determined by genes not the food his/her mother eats

FixAm:
Oga OP I hope u allow dis hit FP u have always denial me

Hey NL, I kind of want this topic as a talk show here to both male and Female NL! Who should apologize between a man and woman? Ok it goes like this you Wife its obvious was the one that start trouble so bad that family member were involved your mum,dad and siblings,however dis same woman you show much love her though she's quick to cause trouble now its at the point of divorce though its coming from her you both have kids together as a male u you move to reconcile or just allow the marriage end. Should the man just cross his mind and let it all end cos trouble and quarrel is inevitable or they should go for marriage counseling and allow for a very last chance?
To crown it all should a man apologize to a woman knowing well she offended you real bad? Pls mature respond only

no, continue to argue and drain each other emotionally, its better than setting your ego aside to apologise

cococandy:
After y'all will start hating on bleached ladies and gentlemen. Forgetting that you're sowing the seeds on inferiority complex in them from birth.

congrats on the baby

Fanirandele:
So much immaturity here , what happened to people debating like intellectuals Those talking about the Submission, based in that principle o other woman is "under" you except the one you married so let that ideaolgy stay in the home and each couple should do what works best for them depending on their beliefs . In the larger society all humans are equals and must have equal rights. The only men who are intimidated by women having equality in society are men who have nothing going for them except a penis. A real man (or woman's) focus should be about earning respect and people elevating you based on your achievements and not because you were born with a penis. Dangote is not respected because he's a man and neither is Oprah respected just because she's a woman . Your achievements are what will make you revered in society and not your sex. If a woman is better than you in your field, class e.t.c then in that respect She is superior to you and that is a fact. If your boss is a woman she's your superior and there is nothing you can do about it. Save all that women should submit to men for your marriage, no other woman owes you submission . If a couple decides equality within their marriage is what works for them then good for them. Live and let live, if you like traditional women go ahead and marry one and leave the men who like modern strong women like myself to marry the feminists. I don't see anyone forcing you to marry a feminist afterall

By the way it's funny that someof the people that are supporters of men committing adultery are always the first to talk about what the Bible says when it comes to submission I don't see the Bible supporting adultery for any of the sexes. It just shows you how people pick what suits them and the hypocrisy of Africans especially.

abi, thank you for this.

Truckpusher:
The fact that your quote is technically correct doesn't still make it right.

ok then

End time marriage

SenJoe:


Are you the Op?

What warranted that insult?

Pls, I don't deal with people that lacks respect.

which one of those words is an insult?

She looks good.

She is fat but still beautiful... She shouldn't let it get to her

SenJoe:


If you get there, make sure u create a good scene, and tell them u will be back in 48 hrs, if the refuse to refund.

this one wants to get you arrested

Go to their offices

lezz:
Insults Calling postman a fool was a complement, right? You haven't fired a shot yet at my submissions.

I want to take you fact for fact, hopefully insult for insult, but I'm recently disposed to bedding argumentative ladies than word-fight with them.

I'll go take a swipe at your DP and see if my demons will be awakened!

I'm sorry I want to spend the rest of my night watching TV. I'm not going to spend it making myself just as petty and frustrated as you are. i'm too happy with my life to be wasting my time e-fighting with you.

Jesus wept

lezz:
Ad hominem taken to a new height.

Where was the post shifted to, Wench, I'm debunking your assertion of feminism of 1912.

Tell me about telemundo, your attempts at advanced discourse is like a baboon attempting to master table manners!!!

its actually pathetic that you have resorted to insults simply because you realised you have were arguing over something you have no knowledge about

lezz:
Coincidentally, 1912 was when Titanic sank!!! You know that movie was a true life depiction. Rose was still being forced to marry who she doesn't want. That was almighty Britain, the forerunner of liberties. So much for your feminism. Ask Google when did women attain franchise in that country.

You snored away during your history class. Your cheap feminism rants is just the shortest route to fake sophistication and elegance unknown to your breeding.

Go back to playing ludo and use your tomato proceed for cheap history books.

We know delusional and disillusioned Beldame like you like pouring out your frustrations on men online, but we aren't responsible for your lack of male figure in your life.

Keep your agony to yourself and spare us your malignancy.

Life is hard enough without your tears of frustration sweeping us away in a wave of delusion.

shifting the goal posts isn't helping you. Next time just stick to things you actually know

lezz:
Coincidentally, 1912 was when Titanic sank!!! You know that movie was a true life depiction. Rose was still being forced to marry who she doesn't want. That was almighty Britain, the forerunner of liberties. So much for your feminism. Ask Google when did women attain franchise in that country.

You snored away during your history class. Your cheap feminism rants is just the shortest route to fake sophistication and elegance unknown to your breeding.

Go back to playing ludo and use your tomato proceed for cheap history books.

We know delusional and disillusioned Beldame like you like pouring out your frustrations on men online, but we aren't responsible for your lack of male figure in your life.

Keep your agony to yourself and spare us your malignancy.

Life is hard enough without your tears of frustration sweeping us away in a wave of delusion.

if half the time you spent on this post was actually used to do something more intellectual you would have been 10times less foolish than you are now like I said your case will take decades

postmann:



I like your foolish rants. But you once again yielded to my command --you're trying to sound smart and intelligent.

You actually obeyed me when I told you to sound intelligent. You have the potential to be a good female if some extra work is done on you.

I appreciate your effort trying to be an obedient female. But you still got a long way to go in shedding some of your ignorance and stupidity. Your prons for feminist movement have already been covered by my post in the first paragraph.

Would you mind trying again? And this time dont take forever. I have little patience for apprentice


And point of correction, my post is mine.

I'm glad to have contributed in my own little way, at least you are not a complete fool anymore. I'm sure it will take a couple of decades before you are transformed entirely, but hey you have to start from somewhere

lezz:
Your definition of fool leaves you looking and acting like one You're an event-thief!!! That's actually owing to world war 2 when millions of men where conscripted and many more died. Women actually started filling up the slots since then. Give the credit to UNICEF!!! 2005, I personally attended a workshop at hotel Concorde, Owerri, where so many southern states of Nigeria was acclaimed to have signed that declaration. I was the personal guest of Barrister Taiwo Akinlami. Facebook-search that now and Shush!!! The rest of your post are excessive emotional responses that bear little correlation to the substance of the issue under discourse.

Patch your leaking emotions and try again.

fools will always be fools! Feminism dates back to 1912. Was WWII before 1912? Was UNICEF established before 1912?
Like I said your are completely ignorant, you do not even know the history of feminism, yet you want to argue on it.please get off the thread and stop embarrassing yourself any further.

postmann:


Do this thread a favour; go back to where you're coming from.

Even the feminist didn't see your output as tangible.

You reek of low intelligence.

Take a brief look at the comments from cream.ish.
She sounded like she knows what's she is in for.
She can engage me intelligently.

But you,
you're a crowd - following, she-zombie feminist who can't defend her cause.

I usually prefer ignoring fools but the world would continue to have more of them if we do not make it our duty to educate them.

If it weren't for feminism women would not be able to hold offices that were previously reserved for men! If it weren't for feminism child marriages would continue to be to treated as a common harmless practice. If it were for feminism grown women would continue to be classified and treated as minors. If it weren't for feminism wives would continue to be raped by their husbands and it would not be regarded a crime.

You copied and pasted paragraphs of something you know nothing of. If your want to continue displaying your ignorance, by all means do. I will never lose sleep over it.

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