God instituted marriage, and he has set rules and standards for it. U cnt ignore what God wants for marriage, and not expect to fail in it.

Dat is y it is gud 4 both to be God-fearing cos it takes only a God-fearing man and woman to love and submit indeed.

ebamma: before you expect your wife to submit to you,you have to make sure that you are paying the bills,if she is the one paying the bills in the family,don't expect her to submit herself to you.

Really? U r wrong dearie,weda u earn more than him or not,d rule is wives submit to ur husbands. Afterall,as a virtuous woman and a help meet,u should "bring ur food 4rm afar...n give meat to ur household" read provs 31:10-3-1. If he doesn't earn much,u should help him. When it is bad is when he decides on his own nt to care even when he earns more than u. The bible says,such man is worse than an infidel. U, do ur part by doing ur best n leave the rest to God.

Am nt sure dis person is ready 4 marriage oh! U beta retrace ur steps,else u might remain singe 4life.

Pls hold on still...Pls stay alive. I love you! Hugs&kisses...

Marriage is a covenant relationship.

Dat's true but then,talk is cheap!

lol especially cos of d lil kid.

Isaactop9: really got me smilling

same here!

Not in love but in lust.

Did u say mistakenly? Hmm...lol! He should just confess to his wife. N they wld both agree on wat to do.Person no go die twice na...it's just once.

They r all beautiful. So confused of who 2 vote 4. They r all beautiful. So confused of who 2 vote 4.

Kpakam: I av bin pondering Over this Question,I Mean The Devil Knelt Down and Cried,since God is Merciful,Won't He Forgive?Your opinion plz

u wish...but the devil can never do that cos he is a proud man. A man that wants to take the place of God.

ENZO SCIFO: .
Abi thesame way he does not know wether those armed robbers, prostitute and indian hemp smokers all ask God for forgiveness but he does'nt spare them on his evil pulpit.Confused soul.Imagine second divorce from a so called Pastor. Yeye person.

hmm...MAY GOD HAVE MERCY AND GIVE US THE GRACE TO CONTINUE TO RUN THIS RACE WITHOUT BEING DISCOURAGED. smh!

ENZO SCIFO:
May thunder fire you for making insinuation that people are judging the man of God(?),how many times did him and his likes go on the pulpit and talk about (condem) members who do not pay tithes? But when they do u say they are preaching the word not judging those souls, now that he has done things that are not scriptural and people talk about u say they are judging.
Okotie is just a serial polygamist simple!

wat has brought thunder firing you? Dat was harsh...Didn't the Bible say look unto Jesus the authour and the finisher of ur faith? Did it say, look unto A man of God? And wat if he has asked God 4 forgiveness and God has decided to forgive him,will u question God? Smh!

Talk is cheap when u aint married cos u dnt knw wat it is all about till u r in .Y drink paracetamol 4 sm1's headache? Besides, if God says he will have mercy on whom he wld have mercy on,what can you do about it? Y nt leave d judgement 4 God n try ur own best to manage ur own marriage ist n work out ur own salvation with fear and trembling,instead of judging sm1 else?

Cos they r nt contented with wat they ve and sm dnt even knw wat they want. You give them too much sex and every other thing,they become tired n bored n then seeks external stimulation. You dnt give then enough,they become starved n still go out. Cos they r nt contented with wat they ve and sm dnt even knw wat they want. You give them too much sex and every other thing,they become tired n bored n then seeks external stimulation. You dnt give then enough,they become starved n go out. Hmm...afi suru!

I agree with her mum cos love grows with time. She should learn to love him. Yes,they wld both ve their difference s and flaws but the ability to put up with it all is wat is called love. Even if she thinks she wanna get married to who she "thinks" she loves,there wld still quarrels too n she wld still put up with it. So wats d big deal? D truth is just dat she is not willing to love dis guy. She just has to want to love him,else it wnt work n she ll be miserable 4life with him. Vouloir c'est pouvoir...

Dat guy does nt want her as a wife but as a Bleep mate cos who wld nt jump at d offer dat his sis wld sponsor d marriage. Infact dat guy is tired of her but doesn't just knw how to tell her n probably cos he gets free sex 4rm her anytime. Once pepper enta dat guy hand,she ll knw his thru colour,dat is when she ll be reminded of her past. Or he might start to frustrate her till she ll leave d relationship by herself. Well,Just tell her to go to God in prayers cos only God has d final say oh!

Wld fighting d oda girl stop them 4rm wat they r doing? Y nt dump d guy n move on with ur life? Life is 2 short n sweet 2 wanna disgrace n probably kill urself cos of a man.

Y wld i wnt 2 know if my husband is a cheat? Wat wld b my gain? After perceiving d smell of sex on him,will it stop him 4rm cheating? Some tins r better left unseen or unperceived. I wld rather play my own role in his life,to the best of my ability rather than hurt myself.

Nay!

Times have changed and things have changed with time and that includes marriage. Nowadays,most men are scared of commitment;so do u wanna force urself on a guy? Or r u ready to pay ur dowry urself? Do u prefer marrying and remaining miserable for the rest of ur life? Do you wanna rush in and rush out? Dearie,u just have to take things the way they are and be patient ooh!

It is normal to feel this way at ur age but u ve to be very careful so that u do not fall into wrong hands cos of ur desperation. Besides,it is not just about getting married but staying married. Use this time of waiting to prepare urself for the task ahead cos it is not a bed of roses...it is not for boys and girls but for men and women at heart and not just of age.Wait on the lord cos he has the final say.

Sinach, Asa, lara george

Nay! Nay! Nay!

Marriage is not a bed of roses...you do not expect both individuals to be perfect and completely compatible even if they have courted or dated for years. Change is the only thing that is constant in life...so as the changes comes,both just have to learn to flow with the tide of the changes "positively"...love is not blind,it only sees what matters. May God help us!

No no no especially if he is under the influence of Alcohol.smh!