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Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 9:12am On May 26, 2023 |
CyracksMrBlogger: Karma from? |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 8:18am On May 26, 2023 |
Ccchat: Totally way offpoint. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 6:37am On May 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Tell her bawo? What will that do to help her? Hopefully it doesn't have to get to that. Tho I alrdy told my family what's up. |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 6:13am On May 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: So after all claims and counterclaims, what would you advice? |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 6:00am On May 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: There r libido boosting natural foods like dates etc. I cant even use drugs for that. |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 5:55am On May 26, 2023 |
blaise26abj: You know the issue i have with this kinda posts is that: you don't rly address the problem nor help in anyways. If i had deliberately not included the "other women" part, I'm sure you would av posted differently. Unfortunately, that's what the world has become. I decided to come clean so i could get more reasonable insights even from people with similar experiences. Its not a trial my friend and people do many more worse things in their closet. Thanks anyways. FYFI, i suggested separation for 2 months to rekindle the feeling which she vehemently objected and even locked the door against me. So that's a nongo area. |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 5:47am On May 26, 2023 |
SunMusk: I am not asking to be a nack star sir/ma. I just wanna nack my woman as at when needed. Its not quick ejaculation, its abt even getting the tool to slide in. |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 5:43am On May 26, 2023 |
jaxxy: I have only codedly bn trying to tell her that i feel Hot n get long erections while I'm away. But, as a man u know its only a matter of time before both families get in on this matter. She alrdy told my family n i am quite sure she's told hers as much perhaps they r only trying to be reserved by not asking me yet. So mentally I'm under pressure but then u also think "but i dont rly have a problem with my tool." So wetin man go do? |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 5:35am On May 26, 2023 |
WantsandMore: No I have not! Infact av seen a consultant like 3 times n they keep saying its a mental thing that I would get over it. |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 5:21am On May 26, 2023 |
linearity: U be thief! 😂 |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 5:16am On May 26, 2023 |
TheBTCinvestor: Perhaps there many more men facing this problem. I never had such issues too during courtship as everything stand gidigba so tey na she go dey say e don do...i dey even laff like Sholay for indian film telling her not to worry say she go adjust with time. What i also noticed is that after d wedding, Sex became like work for me, like something i must do to get my wife pregnant which she actually did but then we lost the baby after some months n then boom! Alaye no wan work again. All will be well bro. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 5:11am On May 26, 2023 |
jagorinho: It was distance then! I was working in another state. I did not even know the city she's residing then. So it wasn't about feelings. |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 6:46pm On May 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I try not to be judgemental! Having erectile issues will deflate any man even a Priest! Its not even about ego cos its my marriage and wife in question here. I am not looking to be a porn star in bed, I just wanna be available when either of us wants it n moreso for child bearing. A limp rod cant produce "cream". 9 Likes |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 6:28pm On May 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: We work in different cities about 3hrs apart. Its not marital separation. My primary concern is my marriage, if it weren't I would have tried to father a child outside. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 5:47pm On May 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: Honestly i feel u should just go back and read my first post with a more open mind. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 5:22pm On May 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Move on kwa? If i had moved on, i wont be here seeking help. 13 Likes |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 4:47pm On May 25, 2023 |
LLSAINT: Thank you so much for your time. Fortunately, I just got a better job recently which is gonna take me out of our current state totally. So inevitably, we have to move together. Regards, 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 4:43pm On May 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Kobojunkie, calm down. I read your posts normally n they always amuse me. However, your assertions here are not correct. My wife doesn't deny me sex n i dont deny her attention. Infact other aspects of our marriage are very good. We play and laff alot cos we both have great sense of humor. Despite not staying together, her monthly upkeep from me is at par with her salary. So there's no abandonment or punishment anywhere. Inugo? 12 Likes |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 4:35pm On May 25, 2023 |
Klass99: Actually, some Viagra meds can also act as anti-BP. I'm not yet off the BP meds as advised by the Cardio. An elder gave me some "concoction" to ward off the negativity. Now lemme burst your head: Wifey was totally against my "consultants" like i said she's from a strong clergy family but on a particular night, i took the herbs n said a small prayer to God to not fail me... everything worked great!!! 3 days ago, it was automatic though i ddnt take d stuff. 2 night ago, we went back to square 1 and surprisingly she started asking me to go use the herbs, which i later did tho but i have been scared to try again honestly. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 3:10pm On May 25, 2023 |
fyzaila: Yea thanks tho during courtship she was happy i wasn't a sex maniac. |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 3:07pm On May 25, 2023 |
Klass99: Your quote is a big ? for me. I did consult with some "elders" and they say in such situations, traditionally its an issue with the woman (something like a spiritual attack). During a recent public holiday, i got myself viagra, I couldn't sleep cos my head was banging all thru d night. I have taken herbs, exercises, weight loss, dates fruit etc but e be like na other people dey enjoy am! 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 3:01pm On May 25, 2023 |
Samantha124: Yea thanks. Tho quite extreme, i actually asked her for separation which she vehemently objected. So i guess that's out of the discussion. She wants us to keep trying but I always loose sleep/rest when it fails again. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 2:57pm On May 25, 2023 |
LLSAINT: Thanks alot! Your post is closer to my thoughts. Unfortunately for now, we dont stay together. We have discussed the strong issue of resignation to be together. I feel that with that, i can curb my weakness with other women. Notwithstanding, she's put me under subtle pressure for pregnancy. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 2:53pm On May 25, 2023 |
sisisioge: As a legend... 😂 I totally appreciate your post but like I said, sexual compatibility was something i wasnt too bothered with cos even the few times we had it, it wasn't this bad. My woman is from a strong religious background and we could have gone through the courtship without sex sef. Thanks anyways 10 Likes |
Family / Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 11:39am On May 25, 2023 |
pretydiva: Hmmmm thats worrisome! My wife's pretty, fair n endowed. Why is there no signal from my brain for arousal? 52 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Mokole2023: 11:17am On May 25, 2023 |
Dear Nlders, I cant say if this problem is peculiar and I would sincerely appreciate mature comments and suggestions. My marriage is just about a year old though I had an on/off online friendship with my now-wifey since 2017 before we decided to get serious late 2021. Our physical courtship was kinda brief - about 6 months - while we both resided in the same state but different Cities (about 3hrs apart). I used to be very sexually active in my previous relationships - trust me when i say I'm quite good in bed - but with my now-wifey, I decided to limit the sex part cos i felt at a man's age (tho my sisters also advised same) that there r other things to look out for in a woman. So basically, we did not get too intimate during courtship. Worryingly, even the few times we did it, I rarely got to orgasm cos she couldn't match my stamina. Fast forwards to 1 month into the marriage, I was diagnosed with High blood pressure which the doctors advised BP drugs might affect my libido but it will later regulate/normalize. Then the problems started! First, I get aroused normally with good turgidity enough to penetrate my Wifey's tight "body" but I tend to loose erection after some mins of thrusting and that's the end. Never comes back on again. Few times I was able to finish but that's not without alot of mental imagination to make me finish ontime. Very worryingly for me, I decided to check myself with other women and dear readers, I achieved stronger turgidity and no fail moment. That was my first shock. Summarily, my wife and I still dont live together but this situation has gone worse now. I got no sexual feelings towards her and na by force we dey manage run 1 round in weeks. Meanwhile, I get sex requests from other girls on a daily. I'm very sad about this situation especially when i look at my wife because she ought to be enjoying this thicke alone forever. As a man, you can imagine how you'd feel when your woman feels ur impotent while other women are bugging you for your time. Various extreme thoughts have crossed my mind and I'm seriously bothered which isn't even good for my health. Should i confess to my wife? I await your responses, suggestions and advice. Many thanks, 30 Likes 2 Shares |
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