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Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by mondayaudu(m): 1:28am On Apr 02, 2019
Obviously, there were clear sign during your courtship but you ignored it believing she will change after marriage. Bros you are making same mistake again by spoiling her with gift. My heart bleeds when I hear stories of nice guys like you with zero self esteem.
I wouldn’t be surprised if she decided to go her separate way when she travels. Of course, having studied women for years, she might pull out soon or it will just be the case of for better for worse. She will kindly resign to fate and live sadly with you.
A costly mistake from you. You rushed and married her because she has a good career not minding her feelings for you.
Solution
Talk to her on the need to see a relationship councilor. If she refuse or you observe she doesn’t show any commitment, kindly withdraw and give her the silent treatment. Ignore her completely like she is not your wife. Get close to other girls, chat with them, just try to make her jealous. Please note, I am not advising you to cheat ooo. Just deprive her of attention. Once she doesn’t care, my Broda, just start counting your losses, simply put, her feelings for you is zero.
Don’t make the mistake that she will accept you because of your promising career. Not all women give a damn about money especially when they have their own money.
I am very surprised that you as an architect couldn’t analyze your relationship and spot red flags earlier on.
Finally, if she fails to show commitment you can walk away let her come to her sense, I am sure she will. I wouldn’t advise that you walk out of your marriage because I am a Christian but give her some space, let her understand that you can do without her, let her sort out issues with her side guy.
Finally, you can leave it to fate since you ignored all the red flags and hope when she travel, she will still wear your ring.

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Education / Re: 2018/2019 UI Postgraduate Discussion Thread by mondayaudu(m): 1:06am On Mar 12, 2019
Please any one in entrepreneurship education here. I need to link up urgently.
Autos / Neatly Nigerian Used T4 Volkswagen Bus by mondayaudu(m): 1:05pm On Feb 21, 2019
Two years old in Nigeria
14 seater bus

Color: White color

Engine type: 4 plug, Diesel engine, electric(meaning, it doesn’t use heater)

Location: Ajah Lagos

Contact: Watsap or call 08143308014
07034720402

Price: 650,000
Negotiable


Buy and drive, no repair needed. Top-grade.

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