preccy69:
not yet

that's where you lost it... go write it down! And when u do, remember I told you it will happen.

ogorwyne:

na where I got dey?

u are too pretty to be far from me na... hian.

preccy69:
hey,I fell in love couldn't help it

lol. U had to answer. Actually, I don't take girls serious who say they are a virgin and want to wait after marriage. Let me ask: Are you in the uni already?

rosieluv:
so many emotional sturvs on this thread

don't you have anything to add ni? Omo nack ur own jor.

ogorwyne:

talk your own na make the thread sweet. just find something talk

why u come go dey Delta na?

ogorwyne:
I know I was harsh, but the trust was lost. Hope you get to understand how.

na wa o. Give him a second chance na.

darbeelicous:
im done with all d drama..... Just like the day I said YES.... Today I'm saying ITS OVER..... Although it has been over for awhile now. I knew it was never real...... Just a mirage!! Ive acknowledged reality.... I'm not regretting anything, and I'm not sad or down in anyway..... Matter of factly, I'm glad I'm free..... I know ull see this..... GOODLUCK! ******.

Hello Sugar, make me your pillow. I won't hurt you, in fact na u go hurt me.

LalaLushness:


They are not men .. boys Attitude (they are extremely insecure)
A mature Man who knows there is more to life than one lady saying No .... CAN HANDLE

it would have been better if most of you do the rejection for good reasons BUT it's often for some silly reasons that makes y'all look more stupid.

I know an idiot who got messed up by a guy during NYSC as in, complete use and dump BUT she stuck even told my bro who wanted to date her with possibly marry her that cos the guy said he is not ready doesn't mean she should leave him.

Worse is that the dude is much younger than her.

She left NYSC and still claimed to my bros that she has someone else and so she can't have him even at over 30

Most of you are just one kind of idiotic in your "reject him"

I have told my bros to let the slowpoke go cos she doesn't know what is good for her. The only reason dude stuck was cos of her character. She cool, homely, beautiful BUT BUT her choice of men who waste her time is her undoing.

If we drill most of you now, na silly reasons una go dey give. SPITS

Well, I can't really tell but it's nothing new.

preccy69:
I don't knw hw to start,ok
am just 19,we've been dating for a year nd six months now,we r crazily in love,I think I love him more,recently he's been acting strange no love texts messages,kisses, nd all d things he used to do,I miss d man I fell in love with, he's changed everything about him,so I went to see him on Saturday, nd he was on bed with another girl,he didn't even notice dat I opened door till I shut,den he came after me,he's 24,up to dis moment I can't bliv he cheated on me truth is we r nt having sex I asked if he could wait till after marriage nd he was cool with it,I confronted him nd all he could say was how long was I expecting him to stay,without sex,guys is it fair??u have a girl dat loves nd respects u,cares for u,its nt like he even asked me for it,I feel so hurt,he's been banging her for months nw,but is it all about d sex u guys getis itu myt b thinking dat it has to do with money but its doesn't I just wanted to b happy with him,dats all,we were close to taking an oath last year,but cos of his exams he couldn't come,he later convinced me to drop d idea my question is, are their good guys,is it all about a pair of legs dat spread

You can't wait till marriage... FACT. That guy just hasn't understood your button. When the guy who knows how to press it comes, you won't know when those legs will be spread.

You don't want sex, what are you doing in a relationship?

kullozone:
I must swear for this murthafucker.... Nothing/nobody go fit stop me or change my mind.
Just imagine!!! See the way I serious dey read the story sef, I didn't even know that was the end.
Na this kyn thing dey make me kill people anyhow. Mtcheeeeew!

kuku ki mee...

irewoleola:
Like i usually say

these girls dont worth the stress

brotherly, na so ooo.

subtlemee:



By their names you shall know them

lol. Don't judge a book by its cover

subtlemee:



No p....but you are motherfucke*r,how on earth am I gonna be able to cope with that?

I am the opposite of the name... so fear not. What ya say?

subtlemee:
To have money is good o,everything is celebrated at ease without questioning or anyone raising an eyebrow

come let's hurstle our own money together na.

Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..

My ex needed money for tooth ache and she couldn't talk well.. bros, I DID NOT GIVE. Do same. Even if that said ex was dying, I will not make any move.

bjhaid:
guy u are here again

Please make una no derail abeg. Take it to PMs thank you.

BabaRamota1980:
OP,
I read your story. Sonnu fa! Pele, s'ogbo.

It seemed you had your hopes high to begin with. Let me share something with you. Girls are naturally beautiful, thats what they are created to be, nothing less! They have learnt ways to enhance and uplift their beauty in ways that make them irresisitible. They know how to use gaze, smile, voice, sway, scent and touch to bend a man's will and make him weak. We call it flirting. They do this unconsciously and dont even have to think....it just switches on. So if you add their nature to their cosmetic allure with their magical intrigues you will realize you are dealing with a "deity". Yes, a deity, thats what women are. Nobody walks into a deity presence without preparation.

So you had your hopes high with the girl, you were trying to attach to her. Let her attach to you. Make her prove she is girlfriend material, until then treat her as a ho.

You made mistake by dismissing her. She likes you for a different reason that she likes the store guy next to you. You are yet to understand and perfect the skill of worshipping deities. When you understand the relationship you will instinctively know how to bring pussies under your will and make them do for you.

Assalamalekun


Omo alhaja

Thanks boss. Well, she will find out soon if I am better than the store guy.

khiaa:


You really should change your name because it's disrespectful to your mother. There is a true story behind that word

what do you mean by true story behind that word?

Besides, it's juts a moniker on there.

general1970:


She's a fashion blogger and entrepreneur. If she post on IG what she sells is all about attracting followers and getting traffics (CPA CPC and CPO) to her website which result $$$$. Know her very well before throwing stones at her.

lol. Fashion blogger for where? Who dash her? The one that rode on her sister's fame is what you expect me to take serious, a woman that feels so sick except she has all eyes on her?

Anyway, she knows Nigerians pay attention to frivolous activities and they like her kind of nonsense. In sane climes, this one no go even get much gaze, not to talk of attention.

dacblogger:
She looks good tho Buh this is not the time for social media,she should be preparing herself for motherhood n not be posting pictures upandan...

The way people pick wife these days all in a bid to look westernized will always come back to haunt them...

labonita1:
i know the song jare

make una carry una love go the other room biko.

Happy Sunday to y'all.

missyadorable:
@OP
You invited a girl you just met to your house to screw her,she failed to turn up....You called all Nigerian girls useless

If she had visited you and you succeeded in your plans,You will still call us Useless.

You need deliverance.Bloody loser

What is wrong with all of you? Do you read to comprehend or you read based on emotion or notion of your mind?

Did you see "ALL" in my title or "Most"? It's even clear people like you don't even understand simple punctuation neither can you interpret it in any context.

If it's "Most" I wrote, then woe betide you!

Go back and read everything again...

Sex ko, sexy ni... you think it's every guy that is carried away by the hole between your legs?

My annoyance is the disrespect!!! I use Q5 and she collected an android phone from the guy we sat at his place to watch movie in less than 2 minutes of her arrival...

She went back there 3 days later to continue watching the film. On same day, I was hinted by my pal that she came there earlier and told the guy she will come back AND GIVE HIM HER NUMBER.

Now, this issue here is KEEPING HER PROMISE with the dude but failing the one she had with me. Making it look like she valued him more than myself because of ANDROID phone.

I felt disrespected and let down... a girl who does that can stay in any guy's friend's place she had just met all for "shinny object" remember all that glitters is not Gold.

Me using a Q5 does not mean I can't afford an android phone. I deny myself lots of luxury because of what needs the money most.

Some people feel she doesn't know me and so didn't want to follow me. Does she know the guy she came back to his place? Why did she promise him she will come back and she did? And when I would meet her, she had his phone on her hand watching videos!

What do you call sure girl who is carried away by Phone and Videos and concluded that I don't have much because I use a Q5.

Even if we eventually settle and move along, she has placed herself in a very vulnerable position and a untrustworthy status earned.

Most of you don't have the brain to understand unspoken or nonverbal vibes and I don't expect you to understand the body language she exhibited and that's why you feel I am at fault her.

I learned to read what people imply most times, whether verbally or nonverbally, long ago, I am a master body language reader...

The last thing I want in my life is a materialistic lady.

mikkyphp:

Bra, i dont think you have a marriage. What you have is an "Alliance of Convenience". i dont see how u can be whole again whilst remaining in that marriage. A woman that can say she had sex with someone with a bigger joystick than yours isnt a life partner, let alone wife!
Be Wise, cut your losses, pay child support and move on with your life either alone or with someone that actually loves you.

My 2Cents

Wisest words...

rogovo20:


Thats why I tried to interrogate her to know if they saw each other, she said they never did, theres no how to know that, only Jah does. But the only thing that gave me a feeling they saw each other was the ring she pulled, her version of the reason why she pulled it sounds RED FLAG to me. In modern days now, some men and women who cheat always remove their ring aside.

You can know boss. Hire guys to track her and take pictures of her every move. You can even buy a tracker online, put it on any clothes she is gonna wear and track her asss.

My elder brother and his friends were used to track our neighbour in the 90s and they caught the man with another woman and then came back to tell the wife. My mum was mad at my brother back then but the truth was revealed and eventually a child from outside became a member of the family. The man had 3 solid boys o.

TRACK her down boss... it's as simple as that!

Sebastine1994:
My brother. The truth is that you have more money than sense. Let me explain.
1. Do you have to go to the extent of telling us how Many carton of tiles you bought? That is a sign of a person with inferiority complex.
There was a time I used to think that I was smarter than everybody until my professor changed me.
2. You told us you had not subscribed for a long time, do you have to tell us why.
You said you had money to subscribe but no time to watch. Nobody asked you that part. Inferiority complex at work
3. Why would you invite a strange person to come to your place. If not for sex.
4. You had no interest in her at first but when that other girl insisted you agreed.

My brother from your write-up all I hear is a fool calling a wise man a fool. I bet you learnt a trade from an oga

Are you done? When you want a girl that will disrespect you, I can find a lot of them for you. A girl who gets carried away by ordinary phone is one you are defending. What's in a phone that she had to come back 2nd day to sit her ass without realising the message she was passing across.

The only reason I mentioned all to things is so that some folks like you don't assume I have nothing to offer since I mentioned I am using Q5, mind you I had smart phone I bought in 2015 that was stolen and considering the money I spent (when Naira still had better values) I decided not to buy another phone....

And bros, sex is not reason for asking her to know my house and did you miss the part where I aborted the idea of her to know my house but opted to go know hers? If it was sex, why didn't I insist that she must know my house, why did I decide to forget that and then asked her to take me to hers?

When a woman disrespect you with a stranger, don't feel bad, remember the day you cheered one as hero, remember this day!

Pwhitelaw:
So that is why you said most girls are useless.... Better face the tiles Wey you dey sell

lol. This one say I dey sell tiles... chai. Nigerians... everybody with different eyes of viewing things.


Bros, I get better tiles, u no go buy for ur house?

Jkfc:


Hehehe...
U attitude is a bit okay shaaaa....
Just try change your phone, as you dress is how you are addressed. And leave Trash for LAWMA

yeah I understand. I look cute but I am damn too serious with life cos of challenges confronting me and so I am hardly able to tolerate the kind of things I used to overlook. People are getting to surprise at the way I get angry, I mean my folks like I said earlier. I have been chasing a contract which the tile seller linked me to and the last few weeks has been really challenging for both of us... as a matter of fact, I lost 400k to some wrong decisions this year but I know all will be fine...

seriously our girls needs to be a bit patient and get to know the core of someone most times. I am calm down. I wasn't jealous, just felt disrespected and looked down on that's all.

I sabi play o. I give lots of sacrifices for people but day by day, I find myself struggling between being my real self and front as an aggressive personality especially around girls, the latter is not me.

But God knows best

Jkfc:


Yeah I am very much happy, you are at fault....

hahahahahahahahaha....

Jkfc:

Ask her to-go somewhere else... For you to had be calling, asking to see her etc, then you want something else.
A matured lady wouldn't be shocked if a guy wants something else. So your game plan is just to act like she's your normal friend then later start changing game plan.
That doesn't always work.

okay. U win. I am the one at fault. Are u happy now?

GodsLastBorn:
she might explain which will lead to more convo on the issue or she might decide to sweep any bias that made her act the way she did under the rug in order to continue enjoy the good time you're giving her. From her response you will know what to do, tell her how u see her as a smart, beautiful, interesting lady and attach references to most of these to mske it seem real for e.g shes very smart, the way she did this or that or how her good command of English, a story she told u or whatever u observed abt her that u can link to the word "smart" do so but if u cant find then leave it at shes smart move on to d other qualities then maybe you can say well its all good sha dat u were longing to see her beautiful smile that makes ur day that she had been denying you since but oh well she's here right now with her smile that makes your day, basically make her feel great and important (things we do for pusssssi smdfh but we need the wet cat anyway :-) ).
Then enjoy the rest of the evening and end it in a merry way when she's all happy drive her home or give her transport fare, don't ask her when is she coming to your place. Don't invite her for now, when u get home call her and show some love/care. Have you reach home and other things but don't make this call long, make it short and sweet then say ur byes.
Text her the next morning by maybe six a.m, start ur day. Don't call her until in the evening, pick time maybe be 7/8:30 p.m to ask about how she is and how was her day, hope she had a splendid day, dinner and other lovely things they like and sometimes call her in the morning when she starts reciprocating. Do these call schedule for maybe 4days then in between the 4days call her randomly and tell her you are thinking about her, chat a little and drop the call, be observant if she's feeling you and if she is she will start expecting your call and wanna hear from you. She will start calling you at least from the second day and I bet within this new week she will come to your place but these all depends on two things which you are to finesse like a motherfucker;
1. How you go about it, basically your GAME.
2. Is she feeling you (#1 will determine that), if she is then half the job is done. It seems like she was feeling you but something happened but forget all that. It's a new adventure, catch fun bro its not a do or die affair.

She was feeling me based on the way I spoke with her on phone, I have my way around that and I believe that was why she kept looking for me after that day because the day I took note of her, her eyes never met mine and she was completely oblivious of my presence.