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Celebrities / Re: Mercy Johnson: Toyin Abraham Likes Food More Than Me (Video) by MrCuteAndLoaded: 3:40pm On Mar 25, 2021
NwekeUG:
Mercy Johnson: If You Think I Like Food, Wait Till You Meet Toyin Abraham (Video)

Popular Actresses, Toyin Abraham and Mercy Johnson are close friends. The duo have been seen hanging out a lot on movie set and Mercy recently revealed a funny secret about her friend, Toyin with a hilarious video to back up her claim, IgbereTV reports.

Mercy Johnson established a fact that she loves eating a lot but she admitted that she was no match with Toyin, when it comes to eating. In the video, both women were seen eating together.

Sharing the hilarious video on her Instagram handle, Mercy Johnson wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CMzA1ltCWso/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJV7kwd2E9c

Na the kain thin wey depression dey cause be that o. I notice that as wimen get older tbey worry about being out of vogue and context - We all know men, even old ones love them young, buxom and firm

Food and sex are always the go to in this case. Abeg make we leave the 2 old mamas alone make we talk of the likes of Regina Daniels ojare
TV/Movies / Re: Between Tom And Jerry, Who Did You Support As A Child? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 6:31am On Mar 25, 2021
Lagoon0:


Lol the Dog is also a celebrity grin . and there is a popular female cat tom always crush on. Tom was just a nice guy..


My elder sister develop sense b4 me and stop supporting jerry when I was still drumming support do jerry sad .

I couldn't believe brain when I started to see the real picture.

��� I doubt if Tom ever bags the girl sha. Jerry gets so jealous when Tom shifts attention to the girl away from him and Damn! Tom suffers for it o.

The memory of Tom and Jerry will forever be in our hearts. It was such a delight to watch!

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Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 6:28am On Mar 25, 2021
Venom442:



The village is not the problem. The problem is you that brought her to such Femicentric Countries.

Woman cannot handle power Shikena.

So true
Romance / Re: Should I Tell My Ex-Boyfriend That I Want Him Back? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 4:29am On Mar 25, 2021
margarita:
Hello people, just came across this site and thot you guys might be able to help me. My ex boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago. He actually said we should break up and even though i understood where he was coming from(we had drifted apart), i was very hurt. Recently, just when i thought i was getting over him, i've started thinking about him alot. I really do miss him. We don't live in the same town and yesterday i came up with a plan. I would outlinethe plan below but i need u guys to tell me whether i should carry out the plan. Or maybe some of u(esp guys) can tell me what to do. Thanks.

Plan: Go to his town, he'll know am coming but he won't know its just to see him. Tell him how i feel but stop short of asking him that we should get back together. Tell him i don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me but i felt the need to let him know how i feel. Then tell him i came from my town to tell him that and pack my load and leave. What do you guys think? Should i tell him or keep it to myself?

For the guys: What would you think if an ex told you how she felt?

Thanks for your help.

I will tell u from mans perspective....move on because us men lose attraction for women who do this. Yes he might agree but he just wants to eat extre puna before he bolts off for good. My advice will be for u to level up...look sexier...work on yourself and then denge pose your new transformation on fb or Ig. Men are drawn by what they see. I assure u a double win here...he either comes back or u bag yourself a better guy
Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 4:11am On Mar 25, 2021
luminouz:


What about ya kids? You don't have access to them too? Are you not going back again?

What is your wife now doing to cater for them? What of her family back in the village? Surely, she wouldn't do such without her folks knowing/agreeing to the plan?
I speak with them on Whatsapp. Since she applied for a restraining order against me, just kidnapping the kids will be dangerous. Its 6 years imprisonment. I just hav to wait till they are 18 years. Meanwhile, I don dey plan to marry another one in Naija ensuring that i no bring am come Yankee. Also I will sign a prenup this time.

In a case like this, the Yankee govt will give her child credit about 300 dollars a week plus unemployment benefit also another 300 dollars plus the 3 kids stimulus payment - now u see y she did what she did

Her village people knew but what can they do. She is their bread winner and she threaten to cut off their supplies if they talk about the issue again. Mine was the 17th case out of the 26 similar issues like these that occured last year among African couples. In fact some men have come back to kill the women as u must have read in the news but as for me, there is hope. My hope is in my God and He alone will avenge my case.....

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Romance / Re: What Do I Do, My Best Friend Wants Me To Sleep With Her by MrCuteAndLoaded: 3:30am On Mar 25, 2021
kross01:
she's a very good friend of mine, we've had our good times and not too good times. we were class mates at the university, we seek each others advise and on very confidential issues too.am 25 and she is 28 and a virgin at that. the problem is she wants me to disvirgin her cos she thinks she's tired of being one since all d guys she's been meeting does not appreciate her. she respects me a lot and i kind of find this a very hard pill to swallow. i dnt wnt to cos am in2 a relationship presently and i want how best to talk her out of the idea without hurting her feelings nor loosing her friendship.

introduce her to me. I don dey look for virgin to marry nah. Im sure shes pretty. Im serious o. I just hope your story is true sha
Romance / Re: Spending Money On A Woman You Are Dating Is Stupidity - Reno Omokri Tells Men by MrCuteAndLoaded: 3:26am On Mar 25, 2021
envoymedia:
"Spending Money On A Woman Because You Are Dating Her Is Not Generosity. It Is Stupidity" - Reno Omokri Tells Men

Reno Omokri has told the men that spending money on a woman they are not related or married to just because they are in a relationship is not generosity but stupidity, IgbereTV reports.

Reno in a post shared on his Instagram page earlier today had written that it is not proper for a man to even give gifts to a woman he isn't married to.

He wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CMzW1N6DBto/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link


An Instagram user, @stellaababy_ saw his post and left a comment which reads:



Responding to the comment, Reno said he isn't stingy and went on to state why men who give money to women they are dating are ''stupid.'' According to him, many African men settle for older white women because those women don't require financial maintenance.

Reno wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CMzasoxDlCu/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Lalasticlala

Blame the effing Simps that chop woman one time and as a result wan die on top of that one puna! To create a win win situation for una self guys, take the girl on a date and spend till she open am for you. Dont just bleep her but burst her brains with amazing sex and afterwards follow Renos advice. Dont spend a kobo and withdraw no matter how sweet the kpetus. Most girls will start chasing u becase of the mind blowing sex and forget about the money. Now if she waka go because u no spend again, u still win nah as u don carry her trophy already. If she become presido tomorrow u fit brag say u don chop am. In fact newspapers will want to book u. To me sha, once i don chop one time, I don conquer the territory be that nothing else wey happen afterwards matter ojare...

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Romance / Re: She's Married But She's Stalking Me by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:53am On Mar 25, 2021
IamBroke:
Okay there's this lady I met at a friend's place. She's free spirited and kind of nasty.

She's married with 3 kids but she's not living with her husband, reasons I don't know.

I believe she'd be 5 years if not more older than me but yet she calls me like I'm with her kidney...
I can't even believe the kind of stuff we do though we've not had sex but she's pushing me that way but that's one thing I don't want to do cause she's married and I'm feeling guilty.

I don't want to hurt her and I don't want to continue this stuff with her and I don't want to avoid her either.

So what do I do now?

Advise me on what to do please

Ive seen guys like u gunned down by the real husband out of vengance! My guy...block her and stay away completely! U sef...an after 3 woman when single girls beaucoup berekete for ground. Abeg Japa asap!
Romance / Re: Men! Stop Offering Your Joystick To Any Stranger You Meet For Mouth Action. by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:20am On Mar 25, 2021
Jenny1010:
Men are known to possess high level of sexual urge, and can easily lose control of themselves and become irrational when sexually aroused especially when the opposite sex is on sight, they literally starts thinking with their joystick. Whatever you do, for your own safety stop offering your joystick to strangers ( prostitutes, one night stand, etc) for mouth-action. Stop risking your life for few minute ecstasy. Only enjoy mouth-action with your wife or girlfriend whom you have known for a longtime.

I heard a shocking story yesterday, although unverified, but I believe people should learn from this story. The victim, A final year student of one of the university in Nigeria, invited a girl he met on Facebook to come visit him. Around 1am in the night, the hostel mates were woken up by a loud scream protruding from the victims room. They rushed to find out what the problem was, but the door was locked. After several knock on the door without any responds, they decided to force the door open. When the door was forced open, they were meet with a shocking sight of the victim naked in pool of blood with his joystick almost detached from his groin. And in the other side few distance from the victim, is the girl naked and making a rhythmic movement of the arms and legs, which signifies she was having an epileptic seizure. She was giving the victim a mouth-action when the seizure started.

Seizure in Epilepsy patients is often triggered when the brain is in a state of high excitement or anxiety. The experience includes stiffen and tight clicking of the teeth for several seconds to a minute (imagine your joystick in her mouth at this moment) and then having an rhythmic movements of the arms and legs. Often the rhythmic movements slow before stopping. The return to consciousness is gradual and the person may be confused for quite some time --minutes to hours.

Have you ever consider if that stranger you are offering your joystick for a mouth-action is epileptic? Like HIV/AIDS , epilepsy is not written on the face . That handsome or beautiful face might be suffering from epilepsy.

Better be warned.

My own occured when I take the woman go Suya joint con give am lollypop to lick afterwards. I suffered mehn! My punana was so hot i could not sleep! Never again
Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:15am On Mar 25, 2021
psyco:
why olopa no hear your side? Which kain yeye be dat?
Till today i wish i could provude answer to that. Yankee truly na woman country o. U no see wetin dem do Mr Floyyd? RIP. Those olopas are devils
Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:14am On Mar 25, 2021
vhuqnl:

At this age, people still go to village to get wives? She never collect am. Nonsense. Why didn't you marry and keep her in Nigeria?
Big mistake on my side. Big regret indeed. I don learn nah...

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Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:12am On Mar 25, 2021
psyco:
why olopa no hear your side? Which kain yeye be dat?
Till today i wish i could provude answer to that. Yankee truly na woman country o. U no see wetin dem do Mr Floyyd? RIP. Those olopas are devils
Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:09am On Mar 25, 2021
mofedamijo:


Sorry boss, hope you're fine though?? God, jux look at what she's doing to you.... Damn.

Thanks my fellow Nairalader. I have left all to God. infact they wanted to freeze my account for child support but thank God I cryptoed all my money so they cant have access. Thankfully it paid off as i got 5 times more after selling later when i moved to Naija

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Celebrities / Re: Williams Uchemba New Cars And House (Pictures) by MrCuteAndLoaded: 12:39am On Mar 25, 2021
IYANGBALI:
boat of them are correct. One is American English, while the other one is British English
Boat or Both?
TV/Movies / Re: Between Tom And Jerry, Who Did You Support As A Child? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 12:23am On Mar 25, 2021
NoApology:
Between Tom and Jerry, who did you support as a child??��

Although it used to be Tom, I at one time suported both when they both lost their babes to the rich big bois in the block and they sat down dejectedly by the railway line wanting to commit suicide. I vowed from that day onward never to be poor....

Come to think of it. No one ever mentions the dog that occassionally appears in some episodes..

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Romance / Re: What Is That One Thing You Miss About Your Ex? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 12:08am On Mar 25, 2021
SteveOfu:
what is that one thing you miss about your Ex?
Me:
I miss his intelligent personality, communication skills, Monthly alowwee, and his big you know wink, so caring, lovely and friendly but I definitely knew that I can't marry him bcuz he doesn't share the same faith and believe with me so we had to path ways even though non of us is happy about it till date but I've moved on

God forbid! its a shame that op could still be thinking about an ex in that manner. It shows u r not over her yet and as the saying goes, the best way to get over an ex is to get under so many babes. My new babe makes my ex look like grandma. Anytime I think of my ex is when im sucking the huge bobbie of my new babe compared to hers that looks like fried egg with 2 ofios on top
Romance / Re: What Do You Miss The Most About Your Ex? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 11:58pm On Mar 24, 2021
Mokason288:
Tufikwa ...

Missss ur ex

Is like going back to your vomit

correct! God forbid

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Romance / Re: What Do You Call D Person You Love? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:53pm On Mar 24, 2021
oreoluwa:



HELLO GUYS! well i just wanted 2 ask if you prefer calling d person you love BY NAME or BYE NICKNAME and please give reasons. THANK. grin

Babes or Honeyporn
Romance / Re: Is It Right To Take Back Gifts After A Failed Relationship? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:51pm On Mar 24, 2021
Dont buy gifts for girls in the first place....Always go with a gitl that has assets - free Kpetus with no expense. They exist if u search diligently

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Celebrities / Re: Ruth Kadiri Celebrates Her 33rd Birthday With Stunning Pictures by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:46pm On Mar 24, 2021
The girl no fine nah....go see Omotola pics nah..
Celebrities / Re: Ruth Kadiri Celebrates Her 33rd Birthday With Stunning Pictures by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:36pm On Mar 24, 2021
clockwisereport:
The future is female
yes nah...after your leaders don spoil am finish
Romance / Re: 20 Codes That Commands Fear And Respect From Your Wife Or Girlfriend. RAW TRUTH by MrCuteAndLoaded: 3:48am On Mar 24, 2021
TkhGuy:
Things you should never do with your wife or girlfriend if you want to be feared and respected by her. ............ Pay attention....................

If you show her you re scared of loosing her, she will tomment you feeling at ease of loosing you, but if you make her feel it's no dime thing to loose her, she will get a grip of you.. each time I tell her it's over, she acts like it's no damn thing & give me time to test my emotional power, when I don't call or receive her call & text her for a month or even 4, she comes back crying on my shoulders, she won't stop bugging me from what's app, call, text that's the reality of girl and guy life program, opposite sex, opposite character. When I tell her I don't need her love that's when she gets crazy the more. It's not a charm, most women will prefer who they already know than starting fresh, that's why most of them still have feelings for their x..xxxxxxxx

A great men seeks no love or compliment but fear and respect.

Poor men seeks compliment & love and you will see lot of them in the comments, scared, cowards, Waring you not to try this, those are generation of simps bunch of friendzoned nice guys.

I know a poor man that have 3 wives and not one of them cheat till old age now cos of how tough and strict he is, I know another rich man that have one wife that the wife brings a guy to come and bang her in his hubby bedroom a FG commissioner now the man is dead the wife seats on his money and won't allow him use it to perform surgery in India.

Criticism put not only tension & hardwork on people but also command fear and repect

90% women loves horing naturally, so if you failed to use this code you will be a semi husband, house boy aka hubby, you will be busy raising another man's children cos when your wife doesn't respect and fear you, anything goes she will open her pussy for any guy who wants it at no cost..

This is not researched based codes, these is out of my experience other knowledge from powerful men I have rubbed shoulders with,

A women that easily gets upset at you wants to get you to be under her shoes, so you will be so soft and apologizing so simply, check those girls that always makes you to apologise to them never apologise even when they did the same thing that you did that they prefer loosing you if you don't apologise, but she does it and it's no dime thing no remorse no apology, a girl that gets angry at and mad at you wants you to be submissive, a girl that disrespect you wants you to be resepecting her, a women that never adored you constantly gets adored by you, a women that constantly complain has been getting so much from you and many other ghost guy you don't know, a girl that careless about you have been receiving so much caring aid from you a girl that will not start conversation with good morning either sir or babe but hi howfa hay is getting lots of dic from another, a women that tell you that your dik is small have been horing around.. I was not there with you but that's how it has been going with you pussy suckers, most women thinks that fcking pussy makes you their age and worth no respect. but most of you asshole here think so,

[b]question before you continue, please how many times have your girlfriend adored you? How many times have she pampared you after stepping on your feelings? How many times have she giving you gift out her hot sweat without expecting anything? How many times have your wife looked at you and tell you, you are the best man in the world and no matter what I will never disrespect or share my pie with another? How many times have your wife or girlfriend compliments you on and even when no body does expecially in hard times? How many times have she saids thank for being there for taking my burden and troubles? How many times have she looked at you without you buying her expensive stuffs and she said, I am blessed to have you in my life? How many times did she apologized honestly & never repeats it again? All you get is complain and compare, most of them takes pleasure in upsetting you, cos they have a Target of making you submissive, all they do best is what you didn't do for her as Mr a did to the spouse, you think it's a coincidence? No it's a tool of manipulation to keep you trying hard to make her appreciate your efforts.. how many times did your wife or girlfriend tells you that you are handsome? Does it mean that all men are ugly, I hear women call other men that aren't their husbands handsome good gold oil sugar angels but their own bf and hubby is always an ugly witch that deserve no credit or compliment
This is Most women attributes[/b].......

I have fall crazily in love time after time with different girls, I was so emotionally attached I was so caring but all I get is broken heart and exploitation from girls, look it's not that I am falling for the wrong girls as you would think or say, but cos I was too loving, caring, always there, needy, emotional, scared of of loosing them, soft that any girl within 1 minute will notice it from my eyes and tone. I started getting results when I changed from being a Romeo guy to careless mindless person. I used to call her like 3 times a day aside chat but now, I won't even watch her status or respond to her chat, call text and that's when she gets crazy about me..


If you consider these codes of mine hash and mean, that's what 90 of women gives to guys and I am here to revise it in a clear terms, it's call reverse psychology
.

Firstly, you have to be familiar with these terms and know the right timing & applications,...........

Opposite sex, means a reprocation of what you did to her in ironically,

If you treat her hash get tough with her, she gets soft and treat you carefully with caution, if you respects her she will disproportionately disrespect you, if you admires her she will find you unattractive. If you get hot with her, she will get cold with you........Check

If we met a very beautiful lady right now and you tell her that she is an angel from heaven, she will step on you without thinking about it, but if I tell the same lady that she is as ugly as vulture, or too ugly to be seeing with me, she will get angry but at last she will follow me.........

The strong men are strict and strictness codes that commands attention and respect is what I will be coaching you guys today.



If you are sure you want to be constantly in charge of a woman who is your wife or girlfriend.

1. Never compliment her in any way, never say it or write it as text just overlook it like it's no damn thing.
2. Never argue with her, arguing with her makes you a weak man, a strong man will slap his wife or girlfriend if she over steps her boundery & she will render a solid apology..
3. Be a new guy or man to her Everytime she met with you, be unpredictable & full of surprise
.
4. If she did something wrong, scold her hashly so she will feel terrible about it, else she will do it again.
5. Be strict with her, let her do the worry if she asked you why you are strict, yell at her.
6. If she jokingly insult you, hit her if you have to and yell & rebook her to never try it next time.
7. If she starts a conversation with anything other than greetings like good morning after or evening
Ignore her, or Rebook her and rain insult on her about how untrained and stupid she is.

8. Don't call or be first to start a conversation with her, that will show you needy if, she start, try giving her a short and brief reply.
9. If she ask you how did your work go today, reply fine.
10. Don't tell her secret that only her knows or making her feel special..rather make others feel special so she will get puzzled up why you hate her,
11. Don't give her your pin number or making her a signatory to your account and no joint account.
12. Don't tell her stories or listen to hers, if you have to, tell her stories that ends with her knowing her boundery..
13. Don't tell her where you are going and when you will be back, if she ask you, tell her you will be back.
14. Never drop her what's app message if she is not online, or better still don't chat with her on WhatsApp and never ask her who she is chatting with on what's app or any social media that she is so busy with, but if you find her getting on long chat that she doesn't give you attention, snatch the phone & smash it to pieces right before her.


20. Be scares, like give her fraction of your time, let her fight to have time with you, when she gets it, be brief, women who hardly see you will not stop missing you and will never trade the opportunity of seeing to think of starting a beef with you.

Once you conquered your wife, every woman that sees you will trade with you with fear, carefullyness and respect..

She will submits, most of them like 98% will stick with you hoping you will change, or try to change you by any means possible, that's why a strong and powerfull man are rare and never empty,
Provide her matterial needs but hold Her emotional needs with your strictness.. she will not stop reporting you to her mother & other women,, some will want to put love spell in your food, but if you have become a don, aka Odogbu you don't need to eat any food cooked by her or use any restaurant she visits.. [/b]

Women don't leave a man who have money that cheats and bully them.
But if you can't take care of her materialistic needs if you beat her she will want to fight or leave.

No woman under this Earth that will not hands down for you, she will not get to monitor your movement, she will not even think about touching your smartphones not to mention asking you the unlock code, she will treat your guest with respect as much as your brothers mother and relatives, she will not even think about cheating on you cos you are too mysterious,


The man who faces the most disrespectfulnes is a married man, the person who disrespectf him the most is his wife. But that same wife of yours respects other men she sees outside, so what went wrong, is over familiarity..

The funny side is that she will be proud of you and constantly seeks to make you come down to her level if you are following this codes

I don't give a Bleep about anything any pussy sucker have to say about these, go & eat shit..! That's the best you can do.. and will continue eating your own shit if you ignore this code, you will become a house boy, she will turn you against your own self and against your relatives..she will have your millions while poverty and disease will kill you, she will use your money to rent a guy and bang in your bedroom..
Look at the picture I uploaded very well that will be your duty roaster fool..

Thats it my guy. All on point! However , you need to be aware of your usage of grammar and spellings e.g...it's 'Rebuke' and not 'Rebook'...nice one though...

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Romance / Re: My Husband Has Refused To Kiss Me: See Why. by MrCuteAndLoaded: 3:27am On Mar 24, 2021
babyBB:
I saw the recipe of snail pepper meat online and decided to prepare it just to try something new. This is my first time of eating it. My hubby told me he can never eat such a thing, I thought he was joking, when I was done with preparing it, he refused to eat, I ate it and enjoyed it but to my greatest surprise when we were intimate he refused to kiss me o, reason being that he is imagining the snail I ate. I was shocked, but he was serious about it until I went and brush o.

This is why some men need to be told off - You know you dont like it and rather than forbid your woman to bring it to yur house, you allowed her to cook and eat it and now u r depriving yourself of kisses which are vital part of any intumacy. Its to his own loss ojare. A man needs to have principles which his wife must uphold!
Romance / Re: What's Wrong With My Girl ?? (picture) by MrCuteAndLoaded: 3:22am On Mar 24, 2021
she is becoming excessive religious and boring ?
My guy..that of course is a chronically red flag o. She is going to be with you for the rest of your life so u need a rethink. Find yourself a funky and interesting woman on the side just in case...This one appears damaged. It truly was meant to be a funny pic nothing else....
Romance / Re: What Sort Of Devilish Wife Did I Marry? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 3:11am On Mar 24, 2021
opetu:
My wife has been a torn on my flesh, giving me headaches daily. It happens dat I met her in my final year in school (fellowship), we got close just as friends nd within 7 mnths of knowing her one thing led to the other nd she got pregnant for me, well i accepted my responsibilty. telling my parents also, It was actually a thing of mixed feelingz, bein dat i am the only child of my parentz, at least thats like having a second child for dem. Long story short i decided to marry her cos of the baby..wit the notion dat we woud build our early relationship in marriage ..

Now issue is dat My wife doesnt like d idea when my parent come see me in my home, alwayz grummble, she doesn have a close relationship wit my mom, mom is alwayz sad about this..I ve been married for 5years now, ma kids ve only visited my parents for a week, anytime i bring up d idea of dem goin to see them..we always quarell!! just last week sunday ma parents left their home so dey come take d kids for d nu year break, i ddnt tell ma wife, but she found out, it was a fight that happened ....wit her tearing my clothes.. my old man nd momma both cried seein dis, dey had to travel back dat evening seein dat my so called wife ddnt welcome dem in my home, Dis is just d little i can narrate !!

I have two kids now, i kinda hate having a second child wit her, now am thinking divorce, which i dnt want to, tried to b patient, but its like shez getting evil advice from sumplaces everyday, how many years more does my parents ve on earth dat i wont make dem happy at least to be wit their grandkids!! at first i thought dis was normal, or is it a normal thing for mothers to cling to their child dat way?? maybe am too soft on her!! sigh i wish i never married her d first place, i only wanted to rewrite my mistake by marryin her.


Ye!!! You are dealing with the Devil Incarnate. The same thing happened to me where she tore my clothes. i gave the torn cloth to my divorce lawyer as exhibit and i won complete custody of my kids while divorcing her ass. They now visit my parents everyday day . She later came back kneeling down and begging while confessing that people gave her the wrong advice so u r right! She is receiving the wrong advice. I chased her away with my dog. I later gathered that she don go kolo and she is in one mental hospital while i am happily remarried to a gentle and caring woman who is even a model. My mom praised me for my swift action! My guy u r the man here. Do the needful in time or else u will suffer forever
Romance / Re: Where Did I Go Wrong Here?- A True Life Story by MrCuteAndLoaded: 2:58am On Mar 24, 2021
Shakslayer:
Hello Nairalanders, what am about to relate here just happened over the weekend and it got me so confused, i told a friend of mine, who then asked me to join this forum and narrate my ordeal, i might get useful answers. So here i go.

A few months back, i met a lady on a social networking site, she is a Pharmaceutical student in one of the Universities in the South-South. We got talking, trying to psych up each other's intellectual prowess. i discovered she is a very good communicator, well read and highly versatile in almost every topic (politics, sports, social events, religion etc). She knew a bit about almost everything, and i too, am also an all rounder. So we took a liking to each other.

With each passing day, as expected, the issue of s*ex came up, i told her that i can never put pressure on a woman for s*ex on a first date, no matter how much pressed i am. I'd rather suffer in silence than do that. She said it's a lie, all men are the same, they appear nice and cute on the outside, but the moment a woman come into their life, the demon in them come out. I told her, am different, that the moment am focused on something, am focused, and unless the lady makes me believe she wants s*ex, i'll never ask her for it (on a first date). We both laughed and forgot the issue.

Just last week, i was sent on a strategic training session in her State, and i called her on Friday evening, after classes. She came to my hotel, we hugged, laughed, and said all sorts of nice things to each other (being the first time we're meeting), and we decided to spend the cool evening in a romantic resort. At about 8pm, when it was time to go, i called a cab to take her to her hostel and then take me back to my hotel. She told the cab driver to take us to my hotel first, that she'll pick a cab from there back to her hostel. I agreed. We got to the hotel and she changed her mind, said she would spend the night and go back early Saturday. I was curious, but didnt argue, we both watched SkyNews till about 10pm and decided it was time to sleep, she went to take her bath while i went downstairs to get a recharge card. When i came back, i saw her wearing one of the sexiest, silky pacific-blue lingerie, she was arranging her hair in the bed mirror, immediately, i knew i was in for a huge test, so i complimented her outfit, got my blanket out and made to sleep on the couch. She looked at me with the side of her eyes, mumbled some incoherent words and got into the bed. My mind was heavy and i couldn't sleep. After a while, i heard her faint snoring and immediately knew she has slept, so i forced myself to sleep too.

Early the next morning, she woke up with a chip on her shoulders, i greeted her, she brushed it aside, she made to the bathroom, brushed, took her bath, and in less than 15mins, she was on the elevator going back to her hostel. I was shocked, dumbfounded and too scared to even follow her, i tried to BB her, she has deleted me, i called, she wouldnt take my calls. I came back to Lagos yesterday, still tried calling with the office line, as soon as she hears my voice, she'll drop the call.

So guys, thats my story. Where did i go wrong? I think am attracted to her as much as she is to me. Matured responses would be highly appreciated.

Many thanks


Its so obvious you are still a learner. You started on the good ground by discusing that you do not bleep on the 1st date not knowing that you have subconsciously raised her interest. She loves your unpredictability and as you know that just as kids love the toy they can never have she saw the issue of getting you to succumb on the first date challenging and exciting - the reason for the coming over....
At this point, you for let her win nah. Wetin concern agbero with overload? u saw her as being sexy meaning you were attracted to her on that fateful night. Its a lesson learned sha. Next time, express your philosophy to them about no sex on the 1st date. This will get them wanting. Once u don reach box 18, my guy tear the shot like no tomorrow o
Romance / Re: Is A Girl Who Does This Every Man's Dream Girl? ( PICTURE ) by MrCuteAndLoaded: 2:43am On Mar 24, 2021
angry

nothing wrong in grabbing it, i grab it whenever i want to grab and he responds sharperly
cool

but sometimes i grab to suffer him too, just to beg me and make me feel funky tongue
Na the guy be mumu now! Shey this one na sex?? Guys this is what im saying...just bang their brains out with proper kondo and avoid all these non sex nonsense. If its not sex, dont go for it...period!
Romance / Re: Was It The Sex That Killed The Relationship? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 2:39am On Mar 24, 2021
Ekejoestar:
This question keeps ringing in my head after a girl am dating for close to two months stopped picking my calls and didn't reply my text even going as far as blocking my number with the phone I gave her. And the reason why I gave her the phone was because she's complaining that her exs' are still disturbing her and her phone doesn't have the block option.
Glory is her name and she is from Delta, and we never had a quarrel neither did we fought.
Well I've taken back my phone though it was a hard thing for me cos I was hoping that she will come back to her senses....


Pls has anyone experienced this, you dated a girl and got her a phone and after 2 days she stopped picking ur calls neither will she reply your text,,,,
Is that a sign of multi personal disorder?
My guy, I commend your effort for getting your phone back however, just move on! This girl obvioudly has so many exes hence so many drama and scars. The more their exes, the more heartless they become. Moreso na only simps dey buy phone for ladies nowadays. Alpha bad bois like us dey use them collect things from simps while we enjoy it alongside their kpetus. Wake up boi! Take the red pill!
Romance / Re: What If A Girl You Don't Like Loves You And Stalks You? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 9:10pm On Mar 23, 2021
chatinent:
Imagine yourself in this dilemma:

You kind of found yourself in an unpropitious situation. You traveled down to a certain place for sth personal only to stumble upon a lady who seemed cultured at first sight. She initiated a conversation, and also suggested you keep in touch on WhatsApp. You were waiting for your client.


At first, her benignancy made you feel she meant no harm -- there's no harm interacting with a nice person, you felt...even though you sensed a touch of pride and authority the way she spoke. She also walked with a bounce kind of.

Of late, the clock has refused to hit twelve. She has become your hunting shadow. You clearly told her you weren't single, neither were you interested in an affair nor can you offer anything more than a friend.

She wanted more. She proposed an alter ego, which you declined due to some craze she was already exhibiting. She's a rich spoilt brat.

She also suggested you lied to “whomever you are dating” she was your old-time bestie, which you also declined upfront.


You have tried almost everything polite without mincing words. There's no miscibility between you both. You have called her and spoken to her in camera, feigned anger, avoided her..but all your efforts seem to be to no avail.


How do you show this sort of person the nearest exit without being rude?

You be mumu man! She be vigina person now! Just show her what you are made up of and she go japa after you don tire am with Kondo.

I sense an ultra simping attitude here. How r u so sure someone no go dey chop the kpetus of the 'normal' girl u will eventually end up with. Im.surprised you are declining a free lunch 'Egbe boi'

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Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 9:01pm On Mar 23, 2021
mofedamijo:


And you presumed that Nigerian men who took their Nigerian wives to the U.S are not facing worse.

If i open U.S chapter for you, you will have high blood pressure any time you see Naija women in U.S.

Don't get me wrong, we have amazing naija women...

You dey correct o. The village girl wey i bring to Yankee don collect my house...Thank God I just began the mortgage, collect my car and kids. Im still in shock at rate by which i was dispossessed. She claimed I was talking down on her for not tidying up thr house so im a threat. Olopa no hear my side. They just ask me to waka comot. Its still like a miracle....well anti-miracle lol!

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Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 8:55pm On Mar 23, 2021
frenchman:
It can be said of the men too, th3y are also lonely sometimes

Na lie!...I live in diaspora and I sample 1 new lonely African woman everyweek! God bless the inventor of Instagram mehn! One even shed tears saying she was lonely when I ended it with her. Men are lone wolves by default. This is why you see cockerell mount chicken con dey go im own way...

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Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 8:50pm On Mar 23, 2021
athaboi:
I'm not lonely anything

Indeed Michew! Thats why you expose those ugly thighs for profile seeking attention! Mtchew! again

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