As a woman, you are many things to your husband and as a man, there are 8 things you should be to your wife.
Don’t marry a man because of what he drives but what drives him
Seduce your husband. Don’t always allow your husband to ask for sex. As a woman your under wear should match
You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Be creative. Don’t be predictable. Give him what he wants.
Everyone woman has an influence. If you lose influence over your husband you have lost womanhood
You must learn to synchronize with your husband. Be part of his plans
Don’t have too many children. Sex is not all about making children. Dress to please your husband
Don’t fix time to have sex with your husband.When a man is sexually satisfied he is emotionally stable
As a woman you should invest in yourself spiritually so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as a prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life.

I agree with almost all but why must my husband provide for all my needs? Is he a money making machine?
Secondly, why cant I provide for my husband, afterall, iron sharpens iron, they say, if he can buy me something, I should be able to reciprocate, isn’t that romantic?

As a woman you are a helper!
The one who you are helping must be stronger than you! Once you are married, you are somebody’s helper and the helper is meant to have what the person’s need! As a wife, you are meant to surround your husband! Women are natural keepers; men take care of your wives so your life can be long! The woman is your helper. Treasure your wife, let her feel important!! Let your wife know that she is important. Women, you are your husband’s helper, stop looking helter skelter! You are there to help him and God will reward you.
As a woman, you are a builder!!
Proverbs 14:1- A wise woman buildeth her home! We need wisdom to build. You must know when to speak, when to keep quiet, when to comfort, when to build!

As a woman you are a servant!
Titus 2:4-5- These older women must train the younger women to love their husbands and their children, 5 to live wisely and be pure, to work in their homes, to do good, and to be submissive to their husbands. Then they will not bring shame on the word of God.
You are a cook, cleaner, laundry woman and nanny!
When last did you love him and lay his head on your chest? When last did you run up behind him and kiss him?
Once a bride, always a bride!! Stop calling him daddy or papa Joseph!! He is your husband! You are a servant, not a slave.

You are an intercessor!
Prayer cover him, satan proof him, Delilah proof your husband! If God has blessed you with a husband, pray for him. The praying woman is a winning woman; at certain times, just pray for your husband!! No matter how happy you are in your marriage, never stop praying for your husband! In case you don’t know, some people are not happy that you are happy? That husband you think is useless, some people are queuing to marry him. Take care of your home; no matter where you go, come back to your home!

As a woman, you are a lover!
Some women forget that you are a lover! Every man is attracted by what he sees, while a woman is attracted by what she hears. That is how we are wired! If you are an old bride beside your husband, you will push him to a Delilah! The male species like variety, even Christian men can be tempted! Therefore, you must be many things to your husband! Become unpredictable in marriage! Wear your hair differently, dress differently!

You should have two types of nightwear, the general ones and the ones only your husband can see you in; you know what I mean. Look lovely for your husband; remind him of what he has. Make the room you share have a wonderful ambience!
Touch your husband! A woman needs 13 meaningful touches a day! Remain romantic! Don’t be an old ugly bride around your husband; walk hard to retain your shape! You must be romantic and spontaneous! Befriend your husband, if you don’t befriend him, you will wake up one day and find a huge emotional gap! Don’t let your ministry or career cause a rift between you

As a woman you are a covering!
Look at Genesis 21:9-10
What a man can’t see, a woman can see! So, as a man learn to listen to your woman! Be careful when your wife warns you about a particular business or a friendship or woman, listen to her and try to understand her! Don’t tell your wife to shut up. As a woman, protect your husband, defend him!

You are a keeper, an assignment!
For example, he gives you sperm; you keep it, deliver a child and nurture that child! He tells you his vision, you keep it in mind and help nurture and bring it to pass.
May the lord give us Good understanding amen

Article from Rev. Funke Felix Adejumo

charlyxx9:
who are the other prominent men of God that were there pls

Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor

Dr Paul Enenche

Hello Nairalanders,
this cracked me up somehow and I sincerely need need your matured comments.

The beauty of CHINA is technology.
The beauty of INDIA is PHARMACY .
The beauty of ISRAEL is military MIGHT.
The beauty of GHANA is GOLD.
The beauty of BRITAIN is EDUCATION.
The beauty of SOUTH AFRICA is DIAMOND.
The beauty of LEBANON is CEDAR.
The beauty of MALAYSIA is PALM OIL.
The beauty of SAUDI ARABIA is TRADE.
The beauty of KUWAIT is CRUDE OIL.
The beauty of UNITED STATE is AUTHORITY.
The beauty of JAPAN is AUTOMOBILE.
The beauty of ITALY is TEXTILE.
The beauty of CZECH is STEEL.
The beauty of GERMANY is MACHINERY.
The beauty of ARGENTINA is BEEF.
The beauty of INDONESIA is WEARS.
The beauty of IRAQ is AMMUNITION.

Please what is the beauty of NIGERIA

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You all keep talking abt teebillz and tiwa and am just here thinking..." what if 2face is the father of the child??"

Just thinking out loud!!!

Comment from matured minds only.

Walahi CCT no know their work

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Huuummmmmm.... Wetin concern us

Later she go tell us sey na husband dey go market for her

Oshi ati Iranu...

Dsholla:


I wonder why souls cry out and feel disturbed when used for money rituals but we chill wen we also been robbed and deprived of our fortunes

Fighting a First-Class Politician like Atiku is difficult & risky!

Wetin concern us?

Endurance

When I applied for a marriage license a year after I had graduated from college, all I had to do was pay a fee.

There was no training, no video and no job description.

In spite of the fact that I lacked many of the fundamental skills on how to make a marriage work, the license was granted!

I know there are many men today who are trying to figure out exactly what God expects of them as husbands.

So I came up with a list of the things I believe are central to being a godly husband.

1.Be a Spiritual Leader

Your wife probably came into the marriage with some idealized image of the 2 of you beginning each day around the breakfast table with some fresh-squeezed orange juice, doing devotions together.

She imagined you leaving for work and saying, "I'll be back this evening, and we can have devotions again."

About a month into the marriage, your wife was probably thinking, What happened? Reading the Scriptures and praying together is so important. If I could rewind my marriage and start that practice earlier, I would do it in a second.

No matter how long you've been married, now is the time to develop a pattern that can work in your marriage. Remember, it's a husband who ought to initiate this.

"A man may not be a vocational theologian," says Doug Wilson, author of Reforming Marriage.

"But in his home, he needs to be the resident theologian."

2.Lead With Humility

The reason there is such a debate about whether men ought to be leaders in a marriage relationship is because too many men have not led with humility.

Men may be called by God to lead their wives, but our leadership should be selfless.

Philippians 2:3 says, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves" (New International Version).

Put this verse into practice, and it will solve 95 percent of the issues you face.

I have never met a woman who says, "I resist my husband's leadership even though he is very humble and Christlike."

The women I've met are craving godly leadership in their marriages.

3. Be a Godly, Courageous Man

First Corinthians 16:13 gives a clear definition of biblical masculinity: "Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong". Before we can be godly husbands, we must be men of courage.

Wrapped up in that definition of what it means to be a man is the idea of courage.

And the essence of courage is to have such a great fear of God that you fear nothing else.

4. Be a Provider

The husband should bear the primary responsibility for the financial needs of the home.

In fact, 1 Timothy 5:8 says if a man fails to provide for his household, he is worse than a pagan. That's not the kind of reputation I want to have in the community.

Part of the root meaning for the word provider means "to look ahead."

A provider is one who anticipates and does the strategic planning for the household. He thinks about the goals. Not just the financial goals, but the spiritual goals and emotional goals.

In a sense, he is chief executive officer of the corporation. It's his responsibility to set the direction.

And many times his wife is the chief operating officer. The 2 of them need to unify their direction for the good of the family.

5. Love God More Than You Love Your Wife

After 3 years of dating Mary Ann, we began to talk about marriage. A little while later we broke up. I was devastated.

While praying one night, things became crystal clear: Mary Ann had become an idol in my life. I cared more about what made her happy than what made God happy.

It was as if God were saying, "You will have no other gods before me, and if you put something or someone else in My place, I will remove it."

In 25 years of marriage, I still run into the same problem. I keep myself in check with this question: Whom do I fear more: my wife or God?

The level of pain may be more immediate or more pronounced when I don't please my wife. Because when I don't please God, He doesn't go into the other room and get silent on me.

But God reminds me, "You do the right thing, even if, for the moment, it doesn't make her happy."

6. Love Her Biblically and Extravagantly

To love her biblically, we need to ask, "What is God's love for us like?" The essence of His love for us is reflected in His commitment to us and His sacrifice for us. That's what our love for our wife needs to look like too.

For me, it often means placing her needs ahead of my own. And it means that I will still sacrifice for her even when we disagree. She must be my priority.

Remember the little line in the marriage vow, "Forsaking all others, until death do us part"?

That means your relationship with your wife is more important than any other relationship -- friends, your boss or even your children.

Put simply, we must love our wives more than anything on earth; that is the essence of the marriage relationship.

D.L. Moody summed it up best: "If I want to find out whether a man was a Christian, I wouldn't go to a minister; I'd go and ask his wife.

If a man doesn't treat his wife right, I don't want to hear him talk about Christianity. What is the use of talking about salvation for the next life if he has no salvation for this life?"

This past May, Mary Ann and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary in Maui, Hawaii. The surroundings were incredible, but really we were just happy to be together.

Over dinner that night, we could both say that in spite of any challenges that have come our way, we wouldn't change the outcome of our shared 25 years.

That's because God has used our relationship with each other more than anything else to make us more like Christ. And ultimately, that is His purpose for marriage.

Source: https://www.cru.org/train-and-grow/life-and-relationships/marriage/six-tips-godly-husband.html

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A photo of American superstar rapper/producer, Kanye West
kissing himself has completely gone viral.

Kanye West has now been immortalised in a 20ft mural, thanks to
Australian graffiti by a talented artist Scott Marsh.

The immortal image painted by the Sydney-based artist shows a photo of
Kanye-on-Kanye mural in Chippendale neighbourhood, inspired by the
infamous photoshopped image of Kanye making out with himself
(replacing his wife Kim Kardashian's head) at the Grammys.

We dey feel all the lies wey you dey help APC blow for tv.

I hope Taye Married Taye & Kehinde Married Kehinde, cos it will be superb that way.

This is deep

Oya o MODs FP pls......... for the people wey they find work.

This happened in Nigeria and not in the oyinbo's country

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Snake na snake.... ejo le jo nje

Nairalanders, is this real or photoshoped?

Hello Nairalanders,

I stumbled on this online and I feel that I should share it with you and know your thoughts.

Best Regards.

Na film/drama dem dey act

nothing is wrong with that.... op