I share your views regarding banking in nigeria. However, i think u guys really made some hasty conclusions. first,as a banker, i know what marketers go tru to get non existing deposit but not all banks practise the unholy trade of dehumanizind graduates. i remember vividly the urgly experience i had when i was with one of the first generation banks in terms of verbal abuse and psychological trauma. you know, today, i am still in the banking industry, still  in the sales department, but more relaxed and better equiped in terms of knowledge and experience because i left for one of the best average banks we have in the country. And in two years time, i think i should be able to attend a course in Havard. I have a driver, a gud apartment, babe of my choice and a great life ahead. the challenges facing our banking industy is a micro reflection of how much we have failed as a country. Do you blame people working there? Each time an old friend whom we graduated 3 years back ask me for money, i feel bad for this country and feel grateful to God for his mercy. Jobs are hard to come bye. just this afternoon, i spent few minutes in front of my tv set and listened to the in coming CBN gov rattling nonsense when asked what he would do to stop abuse of female bankers, you know, the bastard could not say something tangible. he only begged the urgent question. but life must move on, poor man pikin must nail poverty and remain alive. in nigeria today, banking remains the brightest hope for young school leavers. anyway, i hate jumping up in the morning, rush to that God damn office, greet every dick and harry gud morning sir and pretend nice to every lollipop. But you know what, i am bidding my time.

i understand the hell you are pasing tru but i guess you 2 must be responsible for the present state of your marriage. i would recommend you read ''how to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie''. it just might help you to see your wife from a different light and save your home. Remember, divorce is the most tragic thing that can happen to a family. Gud luck, broda.

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i feel your pain. my mum went through something simila from my dad. it can be really painful. but you need to look up to God, ur kids and get yourself busy with profitable ventures. you must give him reasons to start running after you like he once did. i could sense your frustration but opting out would not be your best belt. show him unconditional love and do not expect him to appreciate it immediately. remember, u lost him to "them" so you need to get him back through patience and love. Do not quit because am sure you will no doubt regret if you do. my mum's moment of patience lasted 10 years but today she is happy and doing great. she nurturd us with love and God rewarded her pains by giving us good jobs. and guess what, the man is back! unusually humble and loving. kill loneliness with understanding and patience. i can be reached on this line:08062612341.