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Family / My 13 Years Old Has Become Terrible! I Want To Send Her Back To Nigeria by Mrperfecto: 6:40pm On Feb 23 |
I will just be brief without writing too much. We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home. She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet. I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed. My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities. Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue? 70 Likes 6 Shares
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Family / Re: I Am Confused � by Mrperfecto: 11:42am On May 21, 2022 |
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Family / Re: I Am Confused � by Mrperfecto: 11:13am On May 21, 2022 |
Mindlog: Thank you for this great advice |
Family / Re: I Am Confused � by Mrperfecto: 11:12am On May 21, 2022 |
ThatPetiteChic: Thank you |
Family / Re: I Am Confused � by Mrperfecto: 10:34am On May 21, 2022 |
ThatPetiteChic: I am trying so hard to keep my family together but the way things are getting worse day by day, you know school teaches our children that chikd abuse is wrong and if they are at risk, they should report to the teacher. if one day my daughter has decide to report her mother to the school. Do you know that we are going to be at risk of losing all the children. I rather act now before it get out of hand. |
Family / Re: I Am Confused � by Mrperfecto: 8:19am On May 21, 2022 |
UpInTheSky: Thank you for the advice, taking her to her mother is not an option for me but I am thinking of renting a one bedroom apartment for me and my daughter. But I don't know if it will be fair on my other children and I strongly believe that if I leave , she will stop me from seeing my children. But I have to do it for the sake of my daughter well-being. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / I Am Confused � by Mrperfecto: 1:18am On May 21, 2022 |
Hey guys really need ur advice since I can't sleep. This evening when I came back home I met my 11 years old looking so sad , I asked her what was wrong and she said nothing. Later in the evening when I was sitting ouside in the garden to get some fresh air she followed me and asked me what does bastard mean.. I asked her where did she heard that from and she said her mummy call her that. I asked her what did she do to mummy she said she was carrying her baby sister and she accidentally caused her to hit her head in the door, mummy got angry and call her a bastard . It really shocked me and I had lied to her it doesn't mean anything bad but she said she knows the meaning because she had googled it. I wasn't happy with my wife no matter what the girl has done she doesn't have to use such words to her , despite being angry I was patient enough waiting for the little ones to go to bed. I have confronted her calmly but I was so shocked that she has taken it to another level accusing me to be sleeping with my daughter mother. We had a heated argument which she held me by shirt shouting at me if you are a man hit me without minding she is 7 months pregnant. She knows hitting woman is not my nature and she was tempting me to hit her so she can call the police on me because she knows that we are in abroad and not in naija anymore. I have quietly left the house for her and I am now sitting in my car cooling down and I don't really know if I want advice but I just felt like to vent. Sorry for the long post |
Family / Re: Is My Decision Right Or Wrong by Mrperfecto: 11:10pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
stupidity:Well in that case I know what to do. My daughter comes first she will stay and I will send my wife back to her parents 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Is My Decision Right Or Wrong by Mrperfecto: 11:04pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
rain21:To be frank with you I had no issue with her old school she started there since nursery2 until she left in primary 5. My elder sister enrolled her kids at the new school last year and I just like everything about this new school and because I could afford it that was why I have changed her. The amount that I’m paying for her in primary 5 it’s very fair to me but for a 2 years old I think it’s waste of money. It’s not like my 2 years old will be at the old school forever , like I said earlier I promised my wife that he will join his sister when he is in primary one but my wife still not satisfied with my decision. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Is My Decision Right Or Wrong by Mrperfecto: 6:08pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
She lives with me Pavore9: |
Family / Is My Decision Right Or Wrong by Mrperfecto: 6:03pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
I have 3 wonderful children 9,2, 5 months. My first daughter is from my previous relationship. I recently changed her school to an expensive one 50k more than her old school. My son still attending the old school which is a good school with expensive fees too. My wife is not happy and accused me of loving my daughter more than her kids. I love my children equally and told her I don’t see the point of changing his school Now , he is only 2 in primary one and has promised to change him to the new school when he is in primary one. She has been acting funny and treats my daughter like her worst enemy , which I reported the matter to her mother. She supported my wife and said I should change his school for peace to reign, I was shocked I taught she would talk to my wife and makes her understanding instead she sided her. Anyways I still stick to my decision of not changing his school and my wife is still mad. Is it worth it to move him school ? I hope I’m not wrong with my decision ? |
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