I am surprised your parents allowed her to separate the house.

Wrong people are hooking up for the wrong reasons.

You need to send your sister home. She is an adult and need to learn how to be an adult by living her choices.

If she doesn't find a job in tso weelks then she has to go home. You need to be sith your family Nd ur children are suffering.

Good luck

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You can pm the chatter privately by requesting to email them.....go to their profile and click on the link and folliw instructions.

As for chat....there is a chat thread in this section. Live chat would cost Seun his ashewo money.

Wait....I thought Africans aren't into colorism and that Blacks in the West are the inventors of changing colors

She will do whatever she wants regardless of your advice.

You have wasted your time.

Lol at tricking.

Me lub me sum kaila na!

vivalableue: I was just doing what we saw your women do in your movies. So no I felt like you!

You felt smart? Noooooooooo!!!

REALITY101: Buy Mrs. Chima 99cents and get D sense free

Lol.

Sis...where are you?

*Kails*:


don't be giving my husband a shout out!
wam tu you?

U know u husband is a ho right?

REALITY101:

Get a room

Room these nuts culo.

Hey Buffie!

*Kails*:


oh lord..here we go.

Imma get me a Jamo baby!

*Kails*:


lol. it sounds like tricking to me.
idk..

but i just want everyone to know NOT ALL CARIBBEAN WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT!
i know of some successful relationships btn caribbean women and african men.
as in genuine love and respect on both sides...so don't take what she said above for gospel.

i for one am appalled.

Hmmmmm as a Carriber inspired....I know but I am appalled too!

Psst I got some cute half African babies ready for adoption..they just like they ashy daddy.

*Kails*:


sis, you know some of our Jamaican men are just as shady as some Nigerian men right?
So no disrespect but your grandmother may be looking out for you but she went about it in an ignorant way.

and as for having a man but having a Nigerian man on the side...come on now.
Not cool .

True. Jamo men are good in.........

REALITY101:

Meanie

You were thinking it.

I have seen another one today!

The morale of this thread is be with the person rhat wants you for you. No hidden agendas and no bullshit.

vivalableue: Ok this is going to sound very harsh. But number 4 is the most obvious reason. My Caribbean and Indian families have always explicitly denied the girls in the family to bring home a Nigerian man. They refuse to think that not ask Nigerian men aren't fraudsters or polygamous. My Jamaican grandmother would sit us down and say that they all have wives back home and in Europe and UK and America and so on. So considering that you'dnever be allowed to pursue a serious relationship, we would honestly use them. Most Jamaicans instill hard work ethics on their daughters, but the fact that Nigerian men are used to spending on their women we'd just use you for clothes etc. No need to be the sweet industrious women we were taught to be because the relationship was a fake one. In Montreal,.we'd call it boopsing, where we already have out man but keep the Nigerian on the side to get us stuff. The best part is that 80% of us would never dream of sleeping with the boops because he just want to show his crew that he can date a light skin Caribbean chick.

For myself, I had one boops when I was around 19 this guy just wanted to drive me aroun in his BMW convertible and he spent like 20000$ on me in 3 weeks. I never did it again.

You felt like a ho huh?

I have always told people grass isn't greener on the other side. You may get the wife that can cook the best African dishes.....but does she make you happy and compatible with you? Many Africans and non-Africans are in failed relationships whether they are with those of similar cultures or different cultures.

It has nothing to do with where someone is from or how they were raised...people change directly or indirectly. It will never be the same forever except determination to make it work regardless.

Idowuogbo:
Burnt anuz, howdy?

Lol at the visual. Good but constipated!

REALITY101:

Kick me if I'm lying but please stay away from my balls..




Uhmmmm ok

I understand what u mean by foreigners but are you saying Nigerians will use fellow Nigerian Americans for papers? Haba!

Idowuogbo:
Harsh!

Limp titties.

Reality...u ode puta.

Smh.

*Kails*:


TRUE words sis.
it's sad because it's actually quite common.
a lot of people have or knows someone who has mental issues and are not aware of it.

Exactly. My coworker lost her mother to a guy that had dwmwntia...they thought he was a dopedin...he killed her ash after she broke up with him.

*Kails*:

Get out my mind sis!

In Nigeria