OneCandleAway:
Right now in Kaduna, a northern Christian child can't even aspire to be ordinary deputy governor with what El Rufai introduced.

Muslim Muslim ticket also means a northern Christian child can't aspire to be president it vice.

davodyguy:
Good development.

London Heathrow
London Gatwick

Ikeja Airport
Lekki Airport

nnofaith:
Everywhere you go now Obi is the talk. People have replaced DP's of Mazi with that of Obi what is happening? Have our people thrown Mazi under the bus?

kapelvej:
Hello thanks for your time, I would have choosen not to reply , but I think we need to get somethings clear.Romania and Uk, are two extremes.UK is not mainland Europe, Romania with due respect is mainly Eu by name.
Talking about going to other Scandinavian country,the counselor and I reasoned that leaving to any one of them does not portray seriousness from me. The whole Idea was for my leaving to make a serious impact on my wife. If I go to any other Scandinavian, it will have no effect, because Copenhagen in Denmark is less than 20 minutes to malmo in Sweden,Sweden and Norway share many similar towns, so we in Scandinavian see these countries as almost one.
The other reason I want to Malta was because of my Job, I am a Pharmacist, it is easiest to get a job in Malta than any other EU country. I am just doing odd jobs before I obtain licence in Malta, this takes three 4 months. The ideal thing would have been to do the registration before going to Malta, but the problem on ground made me leave earlier.

kapelvej:
I know a lot of Nigerians will say the same thing about the councillor, but moving to another country here in EU of you are an EU citizen is nothing really.

aflyingbird:


She's not here to defend herself over u saying she didn't put ur pic on her whatsapp, but u still went ahead to create a thread about it, so u ain't got no argument there. Since u cannot explain what other issue there is between u two, there's probably none or nothing major to warrant leaving her. Since the issue is her not putting ur pic up on whatsapp, u probably just want to leave her... maybe because u no longer love her or have found someone new to be with, otherwise I don't get why u want to leaver her now!! At this point u should be thinking about getting both of them to be with u in Europe, in fact u should've done this already by now if u love both of them by now and want them to be with u in Europe! But u want to leave her over her not putting ur pic on her whatsapp, u are not telling the truth



Well, you're still obligated to be sending her money, at least for your son. You can't be complaining about that, you were the one who got her pregnant when you visited naija

aflyingbird:
Can't believe a grown man's fighting his fiance for not putting his pic as her dp, like are you fckin kidding me right now?! U who put her pic on ur dp, does this mean u are faithful to her there in europe, the 5 yrs u've been there u haven't or aren't seeing anyone else there now? Wouldn't be surprised if u are cheating or seeing someone, men who're too quick to get upset at their woman over something like not putting ur pic on their dp are the ones cheating or seeing someone else. Abegi, grow up and stop being childish.

crackhaus:

This is one of the pitfalls of long distance relationships, every disagreement can be blown out of proportion.. nothing beats face to face communication when sorting out relationship issues.

You two should be having video calls (it's more intimate than just typing or voice calling), until you get to see again.
At least if you're going walk away from the relationship, you should do it face to face when you see her.

StPete:
do not be deceived, I'd tell you the blatant truth, your lady is absolutely cheating on you. Also, I have this very weird feeling that your so called son may not be yours after all. Even though it's possible to conceive on first attempt, a normal thinking woman would avoid it since she's unsure of your availability. I think it'll have been a different story if you were based in Somalia or one havoc ridden country. You're more or less a meal ticket. And I sure do hope you don't realise this mistake when it's already too late. Whenever you come over to the country, insist on a DNA test and do it at a place you choose .

BaeMercy:
Why Leave A Woman Alone For 5years? So Because She Refused To Use You As Her Dp Means She's Cheating? And That Is The Reason For You To Divorce Her?
You Have Anger Issues, Work On That. Even Your Fellow Man Couldn't Find A Fault In Your Post... You Are Not Ready For Marriage

crackhaus:

It seems this issue of WhatsApp DP isn't the first you both are having...just a thought

Horlubunmmy:
Five years in Europe and your son is three years old, how come

crackhaus:
She may or may not be cheating, you can't be sure of that.
What is certain is that it means nothing to her to make use of your photo on her dp, and she certainly doesn't care how that makes you feel.

Either way, there is fire on the mountain.

Look for someone you trust enough to shadow her movements and report to you if it really means that much to you.
Remember she's not your wife yet, you still have time to rethink.

nana228:
Op no offense but this is childish. If you have any suspicion of cheating then investigate. Using of pictures as dp does not equal faithfulness or love. There are deeper issues you guys need to work out especially how to come together as a family instead of long distance.

Acidosis:
Okay, you feel she's cheating on you because she failed to use your picture as DP on Val day?

What if she used your picture and still proceed to cheat on you? How would you have known?

* i wouldn't know but it will be a joke in her becos i believe most men wouldn't take a woman serious who display another man in her Dp and same having fun with u* if she decide to respect the man and becos of that didn't show love to me on her Dp then her loyalty or feelings is somewhere else* Y should i be working hard to keep roof over her head,put good on her table and money in her pocket and she can't celebrate me just this once in a year*

See, there is no proof that your girl is cheating on you. However (and truthfully), I think her mistake was failing to listen to you. Knowing that the relationship is a long-distance type, she ought to have uploaded your picture since that was clearly going to make you happy. Relationship is not always about one person, "me" but what makes the other happy.

Nevertheless, your action is way too drastic. Unblock her like you've always done. I'm sure this is not the first time you're blocking her, so go ahead and resolve your relationship issues.

herveze:
And to all the men that are pretending that men are not same,who can come out that he can travel and leave his wife for a year without cheating on her,my advice to all women is to pray for their husbands not only give their husbands sex only,is more than that,to the op the most important for u is to take the advices not minding them.thanks

fysapop:
Visa Approved this morning....
Hi everyone, I want to thank those that continue to support the movement and purpose of this thread. My Visa interview was for 6:30am this morning, I was feeling uneasy all through the night, I woke up around 4am, left my house by 4:55am, I was driving like a snail I didnt even want any stories. I finally got to the embassy like 5:35am, I paid for parking, about 5 guys just rushed me and started telling to arrange my document staple this and that make copy of my passport page that the rules have changed, but as a product of this thread I didn't even answer them, I was the 4th person to be interviewed, it was barely up to 5 mins sef, see my transcript below;

VO; Good morning, how are you
Me; Good morning Sir, I am fine
VO; Pass me your passport and 1-20
Why are you going to the US
Me; I am going to the University of Connecticut for Masters in Business Analytics as Big data is the new wave in Africa and I want to be one of the forerunners of understanding data mining and how Business can (I cant even remember what I said..lol)
VO; oh Uconn, that’s great. Where do you work?
Me; Senior Consultant atXXXX (International Company)
VO; Oh that’s a great Company, hope you enjoyed your time working there?
Me; Yes I have..its being a great time, we have won a couple of employers satisfaction awards in the last few years.
VO; oh really, they would never win that in the US, they are really tough u know ( I just knew my visa was approved from this point)
ME; yes when some of them come to Nigeria, they always want to stay back.
VO; how are you going to pay for your studies?
Me; I got a loan from Prodigy finance and my brother is also sponsoring me
VO; ok… I see you are a genuine student and I would be approving your visa. He returned my 1-20 and the collection ish
Me; Thank you Sir.

The three guys that went before me were still talking to the VO. I just started singing praises all the way to my car, people were just congratulating because it was soo obvious I just got my visa approved.

LagosismyHome:


Sorry for your denial....
Did you prepare at all ?
Did you read pass transcript to learn a thing or two especially since you are going through Community college route