Foodqueen:
Your daughter needs justice, that's why she can't get it off her head.

MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.
Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time. After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.
I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.
Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.
I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.
The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.
My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.
The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. A 9 year old marriage. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do. Please advise me.

UnusualEmissary:
Madam! Madam!! Madam!!!

You are a grown woman and a married one for that matter. You should only relate with men in matters that are important and under defined conditions and proper manners.

There should be nothing special. Your husband should be enough for you and if you want to have more friends, they should be female. Keep other men at a distance lest you become victims of wolves waiting to devour you and destroy your marriage and life.

Why should you even be bothered that a man stopped talking or playing with you? What's the purpose of the talking and playing?

For your own good, be careful around men. Be careful around men!

God help you.

Iceberg3:

Oh dear,I nolonger work there,I work @ sea now

Just try and go there and ask to see the human resources manager.

Iceberg3:
@ msjackson,I saw you sent me a mail.. sorry,I can nolonger access my email.
Do have a great weekend.

SMJay:
ignore him. Keep pushing try online lesson ulesson is one

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edoman2016:

Because I am a graduate of OAU 2011. I was very sure a chemical engineering graduate from OAU can not be so bad to settle for 20k teaching job after 11 years of graduation. OAU is a top university in Nigeria with good products.

Next time, choose the University name to lie with carefully.

edoman2016:

Then your story is fake. Were you not the one that said you were a graduate from OAU before you got married. Liar.
Happy sunday to you all. I have a problem. There is this young man i just met 2yrs ago. I'm yoruba, he's delta by tribe. We've been just platonic friends but now he wants my hand in marriage. I am a graduate of OAU but he only stopped sch at sec sch.

edoman2016:

Then your story is fake. Were you not the one that said you were a graduate from OAU before you got married. Liar.
Happy sunday to you all. I have a problem. There is this young man i just met 2yrs ago. I'm yoruba, he's delta by tribe. We've been just platonic friends but now he wants my hand in marriage. I am a graduate of OAU but he only stopped sch at sec sch.

edoman2016:

I doubt you are a graduate of chemical engineering from OAU ife. OAU is a prestigious university in Nigeria and it shouldn't have been so bad for you to get a good job 11 years after graduation rather than 20k teaching job.

paulGrundy:


Do you base in Lagos?

opabs1:
Very touching story. Too bad you had to settle for a low paying job for 11 years after graduation. Well, you need to work on your mindset seriously now. You deserve better. I can teach you how to earn from the comfort of your home, all you need is your mobile phone and Internet. You don't even need to have a computer. It is legitimate and not a ponzi. Private Message me.

Uranium222:
Send a message to my email for job placement

Cutehector:
Zero emotional intelligence

Uranium222:
contact me for a job in Benin city zero, nine, one, 2.8.8. 1.3.8. 3.6

Advision:


exactly ....teaching in a school that sounds almost like it operates from a 3-bedroom apartment 11 good years after graduating is bad.

He should be glad he was fired, God is telling him, he has denied his greater destiny for too long.

I doubt he earns up to 60k a month
there

firstbornson:
Chemical Engineering? Haaa!

Apparently, "nice girls" do exist too, not only "nice guys".

Stop trying to please people. Stop trying to keep the peace. Don't be quiet just so that the matter will die off or so there will be peace.

Don't play the "mature" person. Speak your mind.

DON'T BE NICE. It doesn't make people like you. Instead, it's irritating. Stop being perfect. Be human!

Stop accommodating.

You have a major psychological issue to work on.

Even if you get a big job in an Engineering firm today, 6 months to come, you'll still go home depressed and sad because your predator colleagues will still prey on your innocence and niceness.

BTW, you were not teaching to "Hold body" You were only uncertain of the future if you stopped teaching.

The worst has happened anyway. Don't rush to another teaching job. Learn a skill. Do something scary and intimidating. Have faith.

This advice is to me because I'm like you.... Working on myself anyway.

bsalawu:
Where’s your location? If Lagos what part?

godfrey02:



you are a woman I guess. go start up a trade and treat your customers well. if hobby have money tell him to open a biz for you. provision, look for a market, sell something and leave those schools alone. by the way school in a flat, how many student them get? and which state is that?