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Mom007:Infact, I'm just taking each day as it comes. Praying that God shows Himself to me because I've never in all my life faced a trial this huge. It's so catastrophic to my mental health. As to my whereabouts, friends and family helped me rent an apartment far from my former house. I live alone with my girl. You can email me on ejirodetermined01@gmail.com. Thanks ma'am. |
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gerizzim:Great advice, well received. I really appreciate you for not judging me. You're right about me not developing myself, I have worked through the years but lost some of these jobs. Maybe I depended too much on him, but I'm working towards being independent now, earning my own money. Working towards being self sufficient, a woman of value. I appreciate the insight you have given me and promise to work towards it, for my 'betterment'. I thank you sir. |
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Jewessgratitud3:I've just seen it in spam box. Thanks. 1 Like 1 Share |
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Jewessgratitud3:I can't find your message |
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Jewessgratitud3:Will do that 1 Like 1 Share |
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Anashe:ok |
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Anashe:I would love to get a remote job. How can we chat privately please? My email address is ejirodetermined01@gmail.com. |
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Jewessgratitud3:K |
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Jewessgratitud3:Yes |
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Jewessgratitud3:Please send me a message on ejirodetermined01@gmail.com |
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eyinjuege:Yes I'm teaching now thanks. All and I mean all his family members have blocked my access to them both online and offline. It saddens my heart greatly. I have left the battle to God. Because how can all of them just hate me based on one sided story of my husband? NOT ONE OF THEM ALLOWED ME TO NARRATE MY SIDE OF THE STORY. They listened to him only and passed judgement. Even a criminal or murderer is allowed their day in court. But I have been judged and found wanting by them. I pray God heals my heart. |
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Jewessgratitud3:Thank you my dear. We're legally married. Court, traditional and white wedding. My bride price was properly paid. ALL his family members have blocked me from reaching them both online and offline. I am alone with my daughter. I appreciate your advice, and pray that God comes through for me. This trial is too heavy. 1 Like 1 Share |
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Dogalmighty17:You don't know half of what I saw with him. I supported him with all my heart, even gave up a job slot for him because they were only looking for male workers. I used my money and time to make the home a bit comfortable for him because he was not working. He still not working. I loved him with all my heart and accepted him like that. I have never used his jobless State to insult him, never deprived him of sex. We had our normal couple's quarrel but we also resolved it. God knows I'm not perfect but I didn't deserve the treatment meted out to me by him and his family. Don't conclude like you know me. 1 Like |
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He has thrown my things and my child's things out finally and another woman has moved in. Thank you guys. |
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My email address is ejirodetermined01@gmail.com. The one registered on Nairaland is no longer functional. |
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mysticwarrior:Please check my profile. Everything you need to know is there |
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chatinent:Please check my profile. Everything you need to know is there |
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Nairalander248:YES |
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Check my profile for the beginning of my story. Now he is living with another woman at the moment and I don't know how to function anymore. I can no longer sleep without taking alcohol. I have developed high blood pressure. I suffer from heart palpitations now. WHERE WILL I START FROM? A 40 year old single mother |
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Acidosis:The relationship has not been perfect in the past one year, ups and downs. There were certainly good times. And quarrels sometimes. And during Xmas period I visited my mum up until early January, he kept calling me and telling us to come back on time, that he misses us and wanted to see our faces. Once we returned, the relationship was quite sweet, you know that euphoria of reconnecting with a loved one. Until 4 days after, when he visited his mum and she gave him some foodstuffs and I didn't call to thank her, that's when he said his mum has been complaining that I don't call to thank her. The only way I changed was that I cut them off after they chased me from the compound, definitely not before. I regularly called her before. At a point, his drastic change towards me after returning from his mum's place got me thinking that maybe they're remoting him spiritually, because I don't understand anything anymore. Till date, he has never called or at least asked where his daughter sleeps, how she feeds or how she attends school. |
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Ishilove:Everything I wrote up there is the God honest truth. I'm still in shock. |
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noobody:Thanks |
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DivinegiftofGod:You're right. Will do that. |
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This is in reference to this my story https://www.nairaland.com/7508796/sexual-molestation-minor I stayed away from the family. I went to spend sometime with my mum around December of 2022. I returned from work one day and got my ears full when my mum told me that my daughter talked about the molestation case all day. Mum advised me to take her to my in-laws place for the matter to be resolved, but that I should call hubby to take permission. He granted it. Only for me to get there and my father in-law was accusing me of cooking up the story in my daughter's mind. I refused to be wrongly accused. My father in-law said after all the girl that molested my daughter isn't a boy and that after all she didn't finger my daughter. Because I defended myself and my daughter, my parents inlaw chased me and my baby out of their house like a common criminal. I cried all the way to my mum's place. Called my husband, he told me he knows the kind of parents he had, and that I should try forget the issue. I tried forgetting it and stayed away from them. I cut them off totally. That was the only way I could heal. It's not like any of my in-laws ever reached out to me even before and after my daughter was molested, I was always doing all the calling. After this incident, I locked up. Now my husband threw my load out on January 13th. My offense? His mother sent us food and I failed to call her to say thank you. That's my offense. I've been squatting with my daughter from one place to another. His father even called to warn their tenant not to allow me spend another night at their house, because me and my daughter spent one night with the only tenant in the compound when I had no place to go. The tenant consist of a father, mother and their daughter, nice people. Me and hubby live in their family house, although hubby's parents don't live there, only us and one tenant. I've cried and cried. Elders in my church have begged and begged. He is adamant, with the backing of his father. He even locked up the remaining of my property in the very dusty store close to the gate, including my molested daughter's clothes. I even met my laptop on the floor, he had removed it from his worn-out bag I was using to house the laptop. I was so livid and was shouting that why wasn't he patient enough to give me some days to gather some money at least to rent a room, but he was so adamant that he and his family wanted me out on the street immediately. Because I was shouting out of anger and frustration, he took a wood with nail on it to hit my hand. It took the intervention of these same tenant to avert beating I would have received. This is a man I've sacrificed alot for, 10 years gone, just like that. My daughter and I are out on the street, squatting with a church member, without a dime. And I have just heard from a neighbour that a new girl is coming to spend time in my own home, even helping him to rearrange it. I'm still in total shock and don't know what to do. PLEASE I NEED A JOB before I lose my sanity. I live around Sango OTA. |
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This is in reference to this my story https://www.nairaland.com/7508796/sexual-molestation-minor I stayed away from the family. I went to spend sometime with my mum around December of 2022. I returned from work one day and got my ears full when my mum told me that my daughter talked about the molestation case all day. Mum advised me to take her to my in-laws place for the matter to be resolved, but that I should call hubby to take permission. He granted it. Only for me to get there and my father in-law was accusing me of cooking up the story in my daughter's mind. I refused to be wrongly accused. My father in-law said after all the girl that molested my daughter isn't a boy and that after all she didn't finger my daughter. Because I defended myself and my daughter, my parents inlaw chased me and my baby out of their house like a common criminal. I cried all the way to my mum's place. Called my husband, he told me he knows the kind of parents he had, and that I should try forget the issue. I tried forgetting it and stayed away from them. I cut them off totally. That was the only way I could heal. It's not like any of my in-laws ever reached out to me even before and after my daughter was molested, I was always doing all the calling. After this incident, I locked up. Now my husband threw my load out on January 13th. My offense? His mother sent us food and I failed to call her to say thank you. That's my offense. I've been squatting with my daughter from one place to another. His father even called to warn their tenant not to allow me spend another night at their house, because me and my daughter spent one night with the only tenant in the compound when I had no place to go. The tenant consist of a father, mother and their daughter, nice people. Me and hubby live in their family house, although hubby's parents don't live there, only us and one tenant. I've cried and cried. Elders in my church have begged and begged. He is adamant, with the backing of his father. He even locked up the remaining of my property in the very dusty store close to the gate, including my molested daughter's clothes. I even met my laptop on the floor, he had removed it from his worn-out bag I was using to house the laptop. I was so livid and was shouting that why wasn't he patient enough to give me some days to gather some money at least to rent a room, but he was so adamant that he and his family wanted me out on the street immediately. Because I was shouting out of anger and frustration, he took a wood with nail on it to hit my hand. It took the intervention of these same tenant to avert beating I would have received. This is a man I've sacrificed alot for, 10 years gone, just like that. My daughter and I are out on the street, squatting with a church member, without a dime. And I have just heard from a neighbour that a new girl is coming to spend time in my own home, even helping him to rearrange it. I'm still in total shock and don't know what to do. PLEASE I NEED A JOB before I lose my sanity. I live around Sango OTA. |
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Mr Matix, please don't be offended, no one likes to beg, but there's hunger everywhere. It is well ooo |
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Matix222:Bros abeg do small reach my side abeg, I'm jobless since February. |
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LadyRosa2:Don't mind him. Some people just take their personal issues and pain and pour it into someone's post. When I was working, feeding him and even convinced my mum to help buy a car for high purchase deal, were you there? Acting as if you know me from anywhere 1 Like |
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Curiouscity:I'm not being economical with the truth. He doesn't give me money right from time, he prefers to go buy foodstuffs by himself. Any time he's too busy to go, I account for every kobo I spent. I was making my hair with my money but had to cut it because I couldn't afford to make it again after I lost my job. To think I was hugely supporting him when he had nothing now he turned his back on me. It's a hard lesson learnt. Never again will I put my money down for his needs. No single compassion in his heart. If someone can be that evil to his wife, he didn't even consider his 6 year old, then he deserves nothing from me. Work first, I'm seriously working towards this. Thanks for your advice. 3 Likes |
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We4all:searching for a viable means of income is all I do now, my survival and my child's depends on this. He's cruel I know. My financial strength is all I'm after now. Thanks 1 Like |
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Acidosis:Thanks soooo much. I will try talk to someone he can listen to and hope for the best. 3 Likes |
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